Love is finding someone who can be himself in front of TA.

First, the study found that the tears people shed when they are sad contain more harmful substances caused by mental depression. Experts from the Psychiatric Laboratory of St. Paul-Ramsey Medical Center in the United States found that tears can relieve people's depression.

Second, there is always only one way to forget a relationship: time and new love. If neither time nor new love can make you forget a relationship, there is only one reason: time is not long enough and new love is not good enough. Amy Cheung

Third, don't talk too much in space. You know, things are rare, too much will only make people feel boring.

Fourth, love is not 1+ 1=2, but 0.5+0.5= 1. Two people each cut off half of their own personality and shortcomings, and then make do together to be complete. If there is no mutual tolerance and tolerance, it is difficult for two people to finally become one and separate into one.

The degree that a person likes you is generally proportional to the speed at which he replies to your messages.

6. Think more and talk less. This sentence is true wherever you go.

7. If one day, a person who can't come back disappears, it doesn't matter if a person can't live without leaves. Time will bring you the right person. Before that, all you have to do is take good care of yourself.

Eight, the more you care, the more humble you are: from now on, be smart and don't ask others whether they miss you or love you. If I miss you or love you, I will tell you, but if I say it from your mouth, others will be proud and won't care about you. Don't care too much about some people, care too much about some things, let nature take its course and face it with the best attitude. This is the world: in front of what we care most, we are the least valuable.

Nine, the forced love is not strong. If you change your personality and principles and play tricks for the sake of the other person being with you, such love will inevitably end in rupture, and then you will find that you have lost not only your love, but also your soul.

10. There is no difference between tragedy and comedy in the world. If you can get out of tragedy, it's comedy. If you are addicted to comedy, it is a tragedy. If you just wait, all that will happen is that you get old. The meaning of life lies not in holding a good hand, but in playing a bad one.

1 1. I will rush to you regardless, just because you are too paranoid, unlike yourself. Those broken memories that can't be pieced together fall into confused eyes. Time didn't tell me to remember, only taught me to forgive. Love songs don't tell us whether we are brave or not. Maybe the result is the same.

Twelve, love is not a vanity, it should be shown off in front of everyone; Love is not a beautiful dress, it should be worn outside for everyone to enjoy; Love is not a task, we should have a confession to our relatives and friends. Love is your own business. Only you know whether you are happy or not.

Thirteen, when you want to continue, never say goodbye; Never give up when you can still bear it; When you are reluctant to part with someone, never, never say that you no longer love him or her.

Fourteen, love is to find someone, you can still be yourself in front of TA.

Fifteen, many of them are personal life insights. There are too many accidents and helplessness in life, so we can't generalize one-sidedly. I only hope that friends who can see this can look at all people and things with a normal heart! Life can't be repeated, don't have too many regrets.

Those who make decisions without thinking will slip away at the critical moment. A long time ago, I dared not promise anything to others. Students who have suffered should bear in mind, and don't hesitate to believe others' promises.

Seventeen, sometimes, the same thing, we can comfort others, but we can't convince ourselves.

18. Many times we complain that life cannot be repeated. Actually, have you thought about it? If you can start over, who will cherish it?

Nineteen, what is being loved? It is the shortcomings that can't even accommodate themselves, and they are accommodated.

To love someone is to be willing to talk to him.

Everyone makes mistakes. If you love someone deeply, no matter how he treats you and what mistakes he has made, you will forgive him and even make excuses for him. If you don't love someone, maybe the other person just said a wrong sentence and broke up immediately. So, when a person catches your little mistake and breaks up, it's not because of your fault, but because he doesn't love you. Forgiveness is only related to the depth of love. How much love, how much forgiveness.

People who love you the most are often the most determined when they leave. Love and dignity are closely bound together, and maintaining them is more of a competitive spirit. True and deep love will make people feel better, instead of being sad alone, instead of ruining those noble memories. ...

"With a person, if the energy he gives you is to get up happily every day, sleep peacefully every day, be motivated to do everything, and be full of expectations for the future, then you don't love the wrong person. The most suitable feelings will never torture each other in the name of love, but accompany each other and become each other's sunshine. "

I don't want to get married when I love it most, but I want to meet someone who may not be your favorite when I want to settle down most. Maybe this is marriage. You gave your youth and love to ta, and finally gave your life to another ta. This is the order in which life appears. One is tired of falling in love until the end of life, and the other is forgotten in the rivers and lakes but missing and crying. A stunning time, a tender time, deep love and puppy love are not as good as just love.

Don't believe in promises, sometimes the so-called talk is really just talk, and these words can't be turned into holding your hand, holding an umbrella to keep out the rain, taking medicine to cure diseases, and eating to fill your stomach. Strangers on the road are all familiar people. At the beginning, hundreds of pages of chat records were deleted with one click. It's not that you can't live without anyone, and you don't need others' care and comfort to calm your emotions. If you really care, you will use companionship instead of words.

Don't cheat a person who likes you. It's not easy to meet someone who loves you for life. You can wait if you miss a bus. Missing someone is a lifetime. There is one thing that can't be used, and that is kindness; There is one thing that can't be fooled, and that is emotion. One thing is unforgivable, and that is the deception behind the lies. Don't let the person who loves you take your heart off and sew it up again! This will hurt!

"To find someone who loves you instead of you is to have a world you don't care about. In this world, you can only live a life that doesn't belong to you. To find someone you love but don't love you is to give up a world that belongs to you. Outside this world, you will spend your whole life. Find someone you love and love you, and the world will be nothing from now on. "

Solitude is a special ability. I have always admired those people who have internal resources and can enjoy solitude, because solitude gives you an independent space and a kind of freedom. These are all things that people say' want' but are actually afraid of: nothing in life is more terrible than loneliness. They are afraid of silence, afraid of thinking alone and being silent when they have a long monologue.

You go, I won't see you off. Come, rain or shine, I will pick you up.

In fact, I laugh easily and cry easily. I just laughed heartlessly, but I cried with pain and suffocated.

Those willful and naive women are happy. Because there is a man behind her to tolerate her willfulness and protect her innocence. Those women who are sensible and sophisticated are not born sensible and sophisticated, but life forces her to do so. In fact, every woman is eager to be a willful and naive woman. However, the men I met were different. Some women are willful for a while, while others can be willful for a lifetime.

If you want to find someone, just find someone who is generous and won't eat at all. Say "I love you" ten thousand times and don't believe it. People who love you will willingly lose to you. Learn to be tolerant and know how to be tolerant, so as to prove that I love you deeply. He may not give you much, but with tolerance, he gave you everything.

"When a man accuses his woman of being strong, he must first see if he is strong enough. Women, an animal, are always weak in the face of love and strong in the face of the weak. A woman is strong because she doesn't get the protection and care she deserves. A woman who is full of love and security does not need to confront the world in a prepared posture, she will become emotional and soft. "

Girls are confused when they are in love and ignore each other's personality. If he has done unkind things to other girls, he will do the same thing to you one day. A leopard cannot change his spots! You have to have someone who dares to tell the truth in front of you, and you have to have real friends. When a girl is in love, her emotional intelligence is zero ... sometimes it seems that happiness is actually a disaster, and sometimes it seems that bumps are actually a turning point.

"If possible, find someone you are willing to talk to and get married. As long as you are with him, there will be endless words. Everything is trivial, whether you are happy or sad, you can talk happily, and he can listen patiently with a smile. This is basically love. To love someone is to be willing to talk to him. Life is long and looks old. I am really lucky to find a partner who can talk for a lifetime. "

I gradually found that loving someone is destroying my original self.

1. I want to go back a long time and meet you with picturesque eyes and my heart. I am full of joy and thinking about my life.

Second, love and not love. There is another word, but once.

Even though you have left, I still can't help keeping my thoughts to myself.

Four, many years later, sigh, two teenagers: a stunning time, a gentle time.

5. I wish you a wave-free life and respect me for the rest of your life.

6. We don't know that there is an expectation called disappointment until we move on through the thorns.

Seven, one night, I dreamed that you were white-haired and said that you would take me to wander. I went to heaven with you without hesitation.

Eight, I feel that living is meaningless, but I can't find a reason to die.

Nine, can not let go, can not forget, a person's persistence, only loneliness.

Ten, from ponytails to curly hair, from shirts to long skirts, from canvas to high heels, from plain to light makeup, from green to mature youth is so long.

Eleven, crying can solve sadness, laughter can ease the mood.

Twelve, what summer cotton-padded jacket, winter cattail leaf fan, your hospitality after I was cold.

Thirteen, you squatted under the street lamp with a bottle in your hand and said in a hoarse voice that I still love him.

14. Dreams are like ghosts. If you make them, you will burst into tears. If you don't do it, you can't stand it.

15. Don't wait for good night. People who really love you won't keep you waiting.

Sixteen, slowly find that loving someone is destroying the original self.

Seventeen, if we can't wait for the right person, are we going to be lonely all our lives?

Eighteen, I can't give you vigorous, but I can give you everlasting.

Nineteen, who can remember who was who in the past years?

Twenty, the midnight wind blew away your lost hair and took away my infinite years.

I wasted an intoxicating glass of wine, but I couldn't douse any sadness.

Twenty-two, the so-called missing is just a person's wishful thinking.

Twenty-three, time slowly flows through the barren youth and begins to feel sad day and night.

Twenty-four, naive to think that you don't want to, don't want to listen, and forget if you don't see it.

I am jealous because I like you, angry because I care about you, stunned because I miss you, and sad because I don't want to lose you.

Twenty-six, I wanted to be together all my life, but time became the killer of love.

Twenty-seven, there is constant music, but there is no constant person, constant love.

Twenty-eight, you are the one who makes me laugh the most brilliantly and cry the most thoroughly.

Twenty-nine, I can only use a forced smile to pay homage to my unknown injury.

Thirty, I played a scene in the depths of the ocean with you. I'm in the play, and you practice your acting skills.

There is a broken story in everyone's heart, and there is an unforgettable person in every story.

When a friend asks you about me, I will downplay it as if I had never loved it.

Do you love someone or hate someone? What does it have to do with TA?

When you fall in love with someone, what does this have to do with TA?

You are just telling yourself or others what kind of person he is in your eyes.

You told yourself or others a story about how handsome, beautiful, charming and sexy he was, and then you fell in love with this story about him.

You just project a story about t a (the real thing).

And when he didn't give you what you wanted, didn't meet your expectations, or you found that he wasn't what you thought, you told yourself or others a story about how cold, controlling and selfish he was, so you were angry with TA and blamed TA for hating TA. What does that have to do with TA?

It doesn't matter, because what you see, think and believe is only the projection of your inner thoughts, that is to say, others and the world are just the mirror images of your thoughts. This may be a little hard to understand. Let me put it another way!

Please look around at this moment. What do you see, a tree? Cup? The sky? Cars? Computer? Cell phone? People? Do you know what they are without your name?

You don't know, you only know what you name them. However, the naming of things is not the thing itself, flowers are not flowers, trees are not trees, people are not people, and they are not the real things you see before your eyes. If the name of a thing itself is not true, how can we really understand what it looks like, how it looks, and the concepts of beauty and ugliness, good and bad, right and wrong, good and evil, and so on?

It's just that you have forgotten the process of creating your heart and where it comes from. When your mother or father held your little hand and pointed to something to tell you that it was a tree and the sky, you believed them at the moment of being told, so that you never questioned them again, the education, ideas, beliefs, stories and everything you knew that you were instilled in since childhood.

Here, you may be surprised to find that everything you once believed, everything you mistakenly thought was true, trees, sky and people are just names, some false concepts and some dreamlike illusions, but the real things in front of you are invisible and unknowable.

The so-called real thing is the way things are, or nature itself. It doesn't involve the concept of people, it doesn't involve your personal concept, it's nameless and lifeless, it's pure and spotless, it's silent and speechless, it's quiet and clean there, no matter how you name it or what you project on it, it's it, neither dirty nor pure, neither increasing nor decreasing.

Similarly, a person is the true face of TA. For TA itself, for you, no matter how you look at TA, TA will not increase by one point, nor will it decrease by one point. You can't change the existence of nature itself, the real thing itself, you can only judge it; And judging can only affect yourself, your love and hate, and that is the source of your pain and happiness. How can you change the existence of nature and truth? That's why I say that others and the world are just mirror images of your thoughts.

So, you have been reacting to your projection to others, your happiness and your pain, but your reaction to other people's projection has nothing to do with others. Love yourself when you love, and hate yourself when you hate. It is completely free to realize this, because it means your happiness, and your happiness is only related to you. This is great good news.