Female housekeeping in the new era

Section 9: How do women build cultural re-education first?

How to build a clean family cultural environment is clean and tidy, including a clean hardware material environment, a clean home environment, the establishment of a cultural environment in Five Blessingg, and a clean software environment. With the external material and hardware family cultural environment, it is the catalyst for the establishment of cultural Dojo.

People's temperament is innate and difficult to change, but reading can change people's temperament. A person who likes reading can't have a bad character. People with good character are not bad luck.

If children and grandchildren, like me, save money for what they do and be virtuous and have more money, they will lose their ambition. My children and grandchildren are not as good as me. If they save money for what they do, they will get more money and more harvest.

Mutual respect between husband and wife is the foundation of family relations. The spiritual environment of respect is that husband and wife have their own positions. Men can't stand in the position of women, and women can't stand in the position of men. They follow the heaven and respect each other.

Summary of knowledge points

First, the physical environment is clean: clean and tidy.

Hardware: family environment, family discipline, cultural atmosphere,

Software: Speak cleanly and be positive.

Second, the psychological environment is quiet: the family atmosphere is quiet, quiet, with light music at home, quiet speech, scholarly atmosphere and inner communication.

Third, respect for spiritual environment: the sense of reverence between family relations, elders and husband and wife.

homework

Have you created a family cultural environment? Please give examples.

I wrote family instructions and hung them on the living room wall. There are books in the sofa, bedroom and study.

Have you found the importance of building a family culture? How are you going to create it?

I found the importance of building a family culture. I will get some famous sayings, aphorisms and calligraphy and paintings to stick at home.

Section 10 How do women do on-site education?

Summary of knowledge points

The existence of a culture is currently the dividing line in the eyes of children.

The second is to live and let children experience themselves in a safe range.

Third, life is in the present, and mothers let their children feel the confidence and value of love.

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How to do exit education at home? for instance

I know how to prepare food, charge my mobile phone and watch, and leave a message on the blackboard. Today, I understand that these behaviors will only make my children more and more dependent on me. A good way is to cultivate children's independence. First, parents should be self-reliant and be independent. Secondly, we should teach children some simple housework, such as sweeping the floor, washing clothes, noodles and scrambled eggs. Finally, parents must encourage their children to do housework in time and let them feel the confidence and value of love.

What are your inspirations from studying culture, on-site life and on-site education?

My inspiration is to let children experience ten-year-olds in a safe range. They should be taught to do basic housework. Parents should be patient and give their children enough time to learn housework. They should make a detailed plan, such as learning to sweep the floor this month and learning noodles and noodles for a month. Instead of insisting on two or three days, accusing and scolding the children, and then giving up halfway. For children, doing housework and learning to be independent are much more important than academic performance.

Section 1 1 How do women do exit education?

People are not absent, and spirit is not absent. To create a family culture and be a parent on the spot, it is often necessary to open the separation of wisdom from the scene, provide opportunities for children to be alone, and build opportunities for inner maturity and self-improvement of personality.

A porridge and a meal, it is not easy to think, and it is difficult to think.

Although the ancestors are far away, they should sincerely sacrifice, while the descendants are stupid and want to recite scriptures, which is widely praised by future generations.

How can women make timely exit suggestions?

A child does his homework and leaves the field, so that the child can see that his parents should also study and study, so that the child can feel the balance in his heart.

Second, if he can't do it, he will ask you. You can make him think again. Is there any other way to suggest that he believes the child will and expand the child to find resources from himself? If not, I suggest that the child ask the teacher tomorrow.

In every family, mothers learn to leave at the right time, so that children have a better chance to be independent, responsible for themselves, leave at the right time, and have enough trust and sense of boundary for their children.

Hellinger said that a good family must have a sense of boundaries.

A sense of boundaries will make a relationship comfortable

Three suggestions on how women leave school.

First, when leaving, let the children feel the mother's trust enough. When parents really stay out of their children's lives, children will learn to find their own answers and invest in their own choices.

Second, when leaving, we should pay attention to guiding children to learn self-protection awareness such as electrical appliances and gas stoves, and learn how to prevent education.

Third, when leaving, let the children learn to think independently, establish their views and judgments on things, and further improve their inner maturity and stability.

Summary of knowledge points

First, people are not absent and the spirit is not absent. Create a family cultural Dojo, build culture first and then educate people, create a good family cultural environment, leave family rules and regulations, and let children receive education invisibly through transit education.

Second, mothers learn to leave in time in order to give their children a better chance to be independent and responsible for themselves.

Thirdly, parting education is one of the important educations in family style. Leave the excellent family style to children. When we really leave, children can grow sturdily from generation to generation.

Section 12, How do women educate their children's ambitions?

Human needs are divided into physiological needs, safety needs, belonging needs, respect needs and self-realization needs.

Three Suggestions on Cultivating Children's Survival Ability

Parents should carefully observe their children, find out where they are most energetic, and create a suitable environment for their children at home after getting the answer.

Second, make proper use of delayed gratification, and do everything through your own efforts.

Take part in outdoor physical exercise, promote the growth of sunshine vitamins, and have a positive internal and external physical and mental health environment.

If you have ambition, you must first cultivate your child's survival ability and value, otherwise your child will lose his position and importance in society and easily lose the motivation to make progress.

Please give your children the right to grow up and let them face the future.

A mother must always have a goal in her heart. No matter where she throws her child in the world, she can survive, even if she is unarmed, she can eat by herself. Cultivating her child's viability is the greatest purpose of education.

A man's most enduring and powerful engine is his ambition. Ambition is a big goal, which means that the world will change because of me. This sense of mission can make children more meaningful.

The purpose of living is not to get rid of anxiety in despair, but to work hard and struggle for a valuable goal of one's own choice, that is, to find a sense of mission and establish one's life ambition.

Three Suggestions on Cultivating Children's Ambition

In addition to parents, we should also find a high-energy life mentor for our children.

Second, when children enter the senior grade of primary school, the influence between partners often exceeds that of parents.

Thirdly, children are systematically educated in humanities through reciting and reading.

Summary of knowledge points

A woman with feelings, an ambitious child, what kind of seeds his mother planted in his heart, his future will probably grow in that direction.

Second, personal value is the sense of self-worth generated by your own cognition of yourself and others' evaluation of you. Children's sense of value is developed through what they want.

Third, how to cultivate children's aspirations, in addition to parents, we should also find a high-energy life mentor for children, pay attention to the influence between children's classmates and partners, which often exceeds the influence of parents on them, and carry out systematic humanities education for children through recitation and reading.

homework

What is your child's ambition? How did you guide her? for instance

My children's ambition is to be a designer and a painter. I will instruct them to draw some pictures and some works every day. By watching Tik Tok and videos, painters and designers will also guide them to study hard, then go to good universities and find good professional teachers to teach them.

When your child has an ambition, how does he work hard step by step, and then record it and send it to the study circle.