The terrible ending of the "lazy" man: his wife and children were separated, the evening scene was bleak, and no one died.

Everyone has their own criteria for choosing a spouse. Many men want their future wives to be beautiful, gentle and gentle, and they may also keep house and teach children. And women's criteria for choosing a spouse are different. Some women ask men to be rich and handsome. Some women's requirements are: honesty, single-mindedness, and only love themselves in this life; Some women's demands are to buy a house, a car and more bride price; Some women's requirements are filial piety to their parents and their own parents; What some women want is that they don't need to be rich now, but they must have an enterprising heart.

Of course, many women's demands include all the above conditions. It may contain only a few of them, but the ambition of the last one seems to be what every woman wants from a man. Even if men have money now, they can't stand sitting on empty seats; Even if a person has nothing now, as long as he has ambition, he must be a potential stock. Therefore, self-motivation has become one of the criteria for many women to choose a spouse.

Self-motivation means hard work and struggle. I have a vision for my career and want to make my career bigger and stronger. To put it bluntly, I just want to make more money. You can earn 100 yuan today, and you want to earn 200 yuan tomorrow. The more you earn, the more you earn. This is self-motivation. Compared with self-motivated, laziness is its antonym.

Once people are lazy, they don't want to work hard. He just wants to lie in bed and sleep. Sometimes I worry about walking, and the future is dark.

Last time I went home, I learned that the famous slacker in the village had died. It's sad to hear that he passed away. If you want to know his story, you have to start from the beginning. His name is Zhou Rongguang, a good name, and he is the boss of the family. It is rare to grow into a big man of 1.8 meters in that era of being naked and not eating enough. Coupled with handsome appearance and thick eyebrows, it is an ideal object for many girls.

Many people go to his house as matchmakers, and it is no exaggeration to say that the threshold at home is almost broken. In the old man's words, those girls are greedy when they see him, and they have to invite the matchmaker several times a day. At that time, there were many brothers and sisters, so parents could not hurt everyone, so they all built houses and married daughters-in-law.

Several brothers in the family grew well on Zhou Rongguang, so with the help of the whole family, they built three big tile houses for him to get married. This was also the best house in the village at that time. By present standards, he not only lives in Gao Shuai, but also has a luxurious house, which makes the girls more greedy.

Very popular in the marriage market, he soon married a beautiful mother. My wife thinks she will be the happiest woman in the world. But how full the ideal is, the reality will be more embarrassing. In the first few months, driven by novelty, he performed fairly well, but when his wife was pregnant for five or six months, his characteristic-laziness began to appear.

It was just the spring planting season, and everyone else was busy farming in the field, but he tied a hammock to two trees in the yard and slept from sunrise to sunset. His wife urged him to farm. He said that he slept in a cage in the morning, basked in the sun at noon and felt unwell in the afternoon. He can find thousands of reasons to avoid work.

The wife went to talk to her in-laws about her husband. However, my in-laws said, "You are married, and we are separated. We can't control it. Your young couple's business has been solved by themselves, and it is not convenient for us to intervene. " Besides, you see that your brother-in-law and sister-in-law are not married, and the old couple will have to worry about them later. Now we can't grow our own land and have no time to help you.

What if my husband is lazy and doesn't work? If you don't farm in the countryside, you will have no food and starve in winter. As a last resort, the wife can only work with a big belly. His wife changed from an enviable object to a poor object, and everyone spoke ill of Zhou Rongguang behind his back. But after a long time, you get used to it.

Many people really can't get over it. It's not easy to think pregnant women are pregnant, so they will give them a hand, but they will always be severely scolded by Zhou Rongguang. Because in his view, there is nothing worth pursuing, either rape or theft. They must be greedy for the beauty of their wives. After a long time, no one cares about their family.

My wife finally arrived at the expected date of delivery in the field, and her amniotic fluid broke before calling for help. As it was too late at that time, I had to invite the doctor to another place and gave birth there. Fortunately, it didn't take long, otherwise it would really be the gate of hell.

The wife also pinned her hopes on the children, hoping that the children born would arouse his diligence. After all, children are the heart of parents. But once again, her hopes were dashed. The arrival of the child didn't change him at all. Relatives and friends congratulated her with fried dough sticks and eggs, but he ate them all, regardless of whether his wife was still hungry or not.

He didn't help wash diapers in winter, so his wife had to come by herself. Cold water made his wife ill. As long as it's windy and rainy, my ten knuckles hurt. Every autumn and winter, my whole hand will be covered with knife wounds, and it hurts when I touch it. Even so, she has to endure the pain and continue to work. There is blood all over your hands during the day, and the blood will scab the next morning, and blood will ooze out in labor.

In order to alleviate the pain, she would go to the sericulture room to ask for some cocoons, cut a small mouth and put it on her finger. Such hands became the first impression of many people on her. In the future, whenever people in the village think of her, they will think of her ten cocoon-covered fingers first, and then say: That is really a woman who can bear hardships.

Later, the children grew up and began to go to school. Although it costs a few dollars to go to primary school, it is a piece of cake for ordinary families. But it's hard for their family. Because after all, a woman's labor force is limited, not only to raise children, but also to raise this one-meter-eight. Her little harvest in the field is enough to feed her family, and she is reluctant to part with a dime.

She wanted to live like this and resigned herself. But you can't let the children suffer. Children must go to school. So she decided to go out to work to earn money. Let Zhou Rongguang take care of the children at home, in as many ways as possible, so that the father and son will not starve to death. I borrowed some money to send my children to school, and the rest went to work in the south as travel expenses.

I am a lonely stranger in a strange land, and I miss my family more often during the holidays. Others go home to visit relatives on holiday, but she is reluctant to part with it because she is distressed by the travel expenses. She sent home all the money she earned except a little money for food and clothes. After three years, she couldn't control her thoughts about her children any more. She went home, but what she saw made her miserable.

I want to discuss with my husband that I can buy a tractor with the money I have saved in recent years. She also admitted that her husband didn't want to work as a coolie, and he could earn some money by buying a tractor to plow for others, and he wouldn't make much effort. However, the husband spent all his money, bought two bottles of wine and some side dishes every day, and got drunk all day, but he became the most popular frequent visitor in the village canteen.

What makes the wife unbearable is that the husband actually deducted his son's tuition in order to save some money and drink more for a few days. My son hasn't been to school for two years. He plays at home all day, making him dirty, sallow and emaciated, and doesn't want to go to school. Obviously, he has become a little prick.

At this time, the wife was completely fed up, and she filed for divorce. Zhou Rongguang disagreed, but his wife quarreled with him every day, and he was too tired to make trouble with her. After asking his wife for some money, he agreed to divorce. The wife took her son and married him in a foreign country. It is said that she later gave birth to five children.

After the divorce, Zhou Rongguang collapsed and was lazy to the extreme. I have never seen it in the field, and it has been abandoned for many years. When you are hungry, steal some sweet potatoes and corn from other people's fields. Someone else's pig died of illness, and it won't be long before it appears in his pot. No matter how many sick pigs can't be eaten, try to sell them and buy some bottles of wine to drink.

After years of wind and rain, the house gradually fell into disrepair, leaving only one of the three tile houses. Although living in poverty, but the weight has soared, has grown into a big fat man of more than 300 kilograms. Ordinary clothes can no longer be worn, so he picked up some clothes lost by others and sewed several clothes of different colors together in a lame way to hide his shame.

In spring, summer and autumn, he always wears his own special suit, and in winter he wears a military coat full of loopholes. These clothes may never be washed, but they are black and shiny. More than a foot long hair is hanging freely, plus a half-foot long beard, revealing a big belly. He slept everywhere when he was drunk all the year round, and he was tanned. He is particularly scary when he blows his beard and stares. It's a bit like Zhang Fei, but he didn't take a snake spear, but a wine bottle.

He gradually became a nightmare for many children. It was also gradually called lard light from Zhou Rongguang. Whenever a child is disobedient and crying, adults always use him to scare the child: stop crying, lard will come and take you away! And this trick has never worked.

In this way, twenty or thirty years have passed, and lard has become a nightmare for generations of children in the village and a synonym for laziness. In recent years, he has made a big fuss in the village Committee every year, making himself a five-guarantee household and getting a little money every year. With this money, he lived a full life.

That summer, his house completely collapsed. In order to take care of him, the village Committee helped him borrow an old house of a villager's family. It didn't take long to find that lard light actually died in it. Because it was summer, I found it late, and he was obese, and I found it after smelling it.

Although there are several brothers in the village, they have all cut off contact with him. As the saying goes, if you don't save the poor, you are afraid of being dragged down by him. After all, everyone has their own family. When he was buried, none of his relatives came, including his brothers and sisters. And the wife who took the child has not been heard from, and the only son has not even appeared.

It was finally buried by the village Committee. But before, the owner of the house sued the village Committee. After all, it's a loss for someone to die in his house. No way, the village Committee will compensate others for tens of thousands of dollars. I was in trouble before I died, and I had a headache after I died.

What he suffered, such as the separation of his wife and children, the bleak evening scene and even no death, was all because of a simple word-laziness.

Through this true story, we may come to such a conclusion. In fact, a woman looking for a future partner may not insist that he is rich and powerful; It is not necessarily that he looks like Pan An and has long legs; He doesn't have to buy a house or a car. The key is to let him have an enterprising heart.

As long as he loves you and has an enterprising heart, as long as he is a normal person, his future life will not be so poor that he will always get better. On the contrary, if he has all the external conditions, but he is particularly lazy, even if he is given a golden mountain, he will sit quietly and watch the tigers fight, and then he will be down and out.