What is it like to be forced into marriage?

It is a very annoying and uncomfortable experience.

1. The idea that you want to get married now is not from you, but is given to you by the outside world. You are half-convinced and unsure whether you want to marry him or not.

As for your parents urging you, they are worried that it will be difficult for you to get married in the future. Although it is also for you to a certain extent, you should honestly express your difficulties and entanglements to your parents and express them to your parents. , I believe that they don’t want their daughters to enter marriage with the mentality of marrying anyone casually, otherwise there will be various conflicts after marriage, and the life of the elderly will not be easy.

2. You like a man who has ideals, loves life, and is responsible, but he smokes, drinks, has bad living habits, and is not motivated. His current living habits and social circle are not to your liking. Generally speaking, you feel that you are not suitable.

I think your expectations for him were too high from the beginning, or you wanted too much. Your parents said that he had a good family background and asked you to find a decent man to marry, but the family background Good people will naturally fail to meet your requirements in some aspects.

You are very concerned about the stability of your marriage. Your main focus is that you hope that the other person will be a healthy, motivated man who will consider living at home. If you feel that you are really not suitable, I would like you to communicate with your parents first, tell them what is inappropriate about you, and then decide for yourself whether he can be your long-term choice. If not, stop the loss in time.

It is recommended that when you choose your partner in the future, you should first understand one of the other person’s living habits to see if he is your ideal partner. As for your parents urging you to get married, I think you can definitely convince them to give you more time to choose the person of your choice.