Cai Kangyong's Classic Quotations

1. This sentence is so beautiful that it makes people applaud: Do you think the person you like is the person you like? Liking is always a misunderstanding.

2. People who care about youth are bound to be out of youth. Those who will realize that they are wandering will inevitably end their wandering.

3. If he misses you, he will find you. If he wants you, he will say; If he cares about you, he will show his true feelings; If none of this happens, then he won't bother you.

4. Want to be an angel in others' hearts? Want to be taken seriously? You might as well practice setting obstacles instead of always playing the role of coming and going. You are not a ready-made apple on someone else's desk.

5. I got seven smiles and three dirty eyes along the way, so I responded to the smiles with 7% of my strength and the dirty eyes with 3% of my strength; The food I ate was delicious for seven times and unpleasant for three times, so I enjoyed it with 7% of my taste and endured bitterness with 3% of my taste. I have no intention of amplifying the goodwill of the world, and I have no intention of amplifying the malice of the world. I just accept the sunny and rainy weather honestly in proportion; The world and I, just each other.

6. People who try their best to check whether they are happy enough will definitely not be happy. Just like you keep taking out the money in your pocket and counting it one by one, even if you count it 8 times in a row, you won't get another dime, but you will count it more and more? Gas. You have that time to count money, you might as well use that time to go out and earn more.

7. Moderate provocation can definitely make the conversation warm. Because everyone wants their opinions to be taken seriously and discussed, instead of being nodded by an unprincipled person and perfunctory.

8. The most precious mementos of love are the changes you left on me, just like the rivers left on the terrain.

9. Expose your body and cover your face. Not necessarily for the sake of loneliness. Many people who pose like this actually don't care about loneliness anymore. They only accept eyes, but no longer respond to them. For this world, he is solid with the whole body; But for him, this world can be forgotten.

1. Enjoyment is more valuable than possession. We enjoy air, but we can't have air. We enjoy sunshine, but we can't have the sun. Similarly, we enjoy friendship and affection, but we can't and shouldn't want to have that friend and relative. We also enjoy love, but we can't and shouldn't want to have that lover. Just enjoy it. It's much more valuable to enjoy it than to have it.

11. Look at each other in your eyes and keep them in your heart. Look at each other from time to time, with a little observation, so that the opposite person can fully feel her presence in your eyes. Make the other person feel valued.

12. "You live, you die, you struggle, you don't struggle, the water is the same". Later, every time I swam, I would pretend to die for a while, and then I would get peace that people my age would not have known.

13. When speaking, all the parts that we dislike others and feel that others behave badly are often our own problems.

14. When I grow up, I like many childish and superficial things. When I went to the sunny and smiling California in the United States to learn to make movies, I didn't mind that my American classmates had never heard of deep and mysterious European movies. I have never heard of oriental movies that like to engage in ambiguity and pursue artistic conception. I like that they rightfully regard movies as entertainment goods that can make a lot of money, make people cry and laugh, give people strength and make people escape.

15. Do eagles despise vultures? Do spiders despise ladybugs? Does ladybug despise earthworms? This does not seem to be the case. It seems that only people will despise people, vultures and earthworms.

16. It finally dragged on until it was dark. The sun squatted on the wet side of the road and smoked, thinking that maybe I wouldn't go to work again tomorrow. I firmly said that I would never see you again, and then I dreamed of you that night. It's really no dignity at all. Break up if you want. Needless to say, you don't deserve me. We're not cell phones and chargers. I heard that the world is very big, so I looked around the street for several minutes, and there was no place to go. Is it crowded? Then let me give up my seat, although I know you won't be satisfied in the end.

17, "Baby, what you hear often doesn't mean that you are trustworthy. Maybe it's just lazy people, just talking casually. "So, we should selectively believe what we often hear.

18. When you see that others can't do well, you may feel secretly refreshed and get a sense of superiority that "I am smarter than him". But a really smart person is to observe why others can't do well, and then be alert to yourself and try not to make the same mistake. Those who only like to hiss should be planning to be an audience all the time, while those who are wary of themselves are preparing to stand on the stage one day.

19. Promises in love often make us feel bad later. It's not because they were fake, they are real, but they are out of date.

2. I used to love watching programs, but now I don't love them; The idols we worshipped before are no longer worshipped, which may indicate that our life has entered a new stage. The charm or wisdom of those people who once charmed you is just the ladder of your life. Once you step on it and go up, when you look back, you will be surprised that the ladder is neither bright nor noble, because you have crossed it.

21. Sometimes, we feel that the valley in front of us is deep and the oncoming wind is strong. We suddenly realize the eagle's consciousness, so we spread our wings to love, jump and give it a try.

22 The waiting time for serving exceeds the actual eating time. Waiting for the rain, more than the time of the rain. And the time for waiting for love is far longer than the time for real love.

23. Broken love is like a decayed tooth. You want to continue to rely on it as if nothing had happened, but it begins to ache faintly. When it hurts so much that you can't stand it, you pull it out of your body and leave it behind, leaving a hole that you are not used to. You often lick the hole and finally get used to it, but you know that the hole is still there, and no matter what you fill it with, it is no longer there.

24. Executives who can't help nagging had better be able to distinguish the priorities of their own words at the whole table, explain the really serious things concisely by SMS or email, and ask the other party to acknowledge receipt in return, leaving evidence in black and white. As for the nonsense that you can't control, you'd better acquiesce that these nonsense will be treated like waste gas, and let it go in one ear and out the other at the same time!

25. When the boss enters the cubicle to go to the toilet, sneak in and wash his hands? Wash your hands while waiting for any colleague to come in, and you just casually treat this colleague? Say a few words to the beautiful boss, and the boss who is still in the cubicle at this time will definitely have a good impression on you when he hears it. However, this cheap trick may bring trouble to the colleague who came in later, because he may scold your flattering boss without knowing it!

26. Dear baby, when you grow up, the girl you see that I like is probably very different from what I told you. People meet only once. I will miss me, and you will miss you, too. Fair.

27. You will be weak in the face of desire and weak in the face of evil. I like others more than myself.

28, you suffer for love, even if it is as bitter as a corpse, it is difficult to add a little sweetness to each other because of your bitterness. If the other party is not happy because of your suffering, there is no reason to feel indebted to you, and it is difficult to have reason to repay you. It's a pity that your suffering is hard to be appreciated, and you can only be ignored, avoided and rejected, because no one benefits from you. Therefore, after suffering the necessary amount, let this suffering be buried in the mine of human life.

29. It is difficult for one person to understand the suffering of another person. If you can't understand it, don't say so. Because when the client confides in you, she only needs you to listen. Maybe she really needs your advice, but she may not need another person to claim that someone else understands her suffering. Her pain tortured her to death, and she wouldn't think it was "irreplaceable". You can't comfort her by saying so.

3. If you are not sure whether the other person can fully answer your question, then you'd better not ask.

31. You are important, because you are all you can have. You exist, the whole world exists. You can see the sunshine, and the whole world can see the sunshine. You lose balance, the world loses balance. You disappear, the world disappears. So you are important, you are all you can have.

32. People have various pursuits for self-realization. You study subjects you don't like in school and take unnecessary exams. These are the disciplines and requirements given to us by the process of life. If you want to finish, you want to finish yourself, not that you have to take exams in math, English and physics. Many times in life, because we have fulfilled our sense of responsibility, we will agree that we are an educated and self-trained person.

33. Think of the worst in advance, and then decide, then forget it. This is pessimism. It is optimistic to think of the worst in advance and then decide that the worst is the case.

34. You must cultivate your own opinions and exercise yourself. Just like all the pleasures of life, you will get bored sooner or later if you only rely on what others feed you, and finally destroy your precious good appetite.

35, or it should be said-when facing the same body all the time, people who are eager for romance are really unlikely to be satisfied by neat and rigorous underwear. Vitality and surprise are the fireworks that can still make people clap their hands happily in a stable relationship!

36. If you envy the wealth of successful people, please don't blindly imitate what happens after they get rich. Those famous watches, bags, wines and cars all happen after they get rich. If you persist in imitating them, you can only be poor and happy. If you want to imitate them, just imitate what happened before they became rich. Their eagle-like exploration, snake-like concentration, ant-like searching and pupa-like patience are all insolent things.

37. Don't pay attention to those water pipes. You will be a river only if you really flow through one landscape after another.

38. People who chase money should be very happy if they finally get a pile of money. But those who pursue their dreams will be very sad if they finally get a dream.

39. Whether you are educated or not, and whether you are honest or not, is simply a matter of code!

4. If you want to break up, break up. Needless to say, you don't deserve me. We are not mobile phones and chargers.

41. In those days, there was no mobile phone, which was more convenient. Inadvertently, we lost contact and lost each other.

42. Dear baby: I am worried that going to school is the first step to lead you to mediocrity. So it's really hard for me to ask you to go to school with confidence. Obviously, there are so many things worth teaching and learning, outside the school.

43, talked about love, don't like cut hair, the wind blows away. The love you have talked about will become veins on the leaves and capillaries on the ankles, storing memories and maintaining life, which is difficult to detect, but it has always existed.

44. Some people's lives have no scenery because they only flow in the most convenient water pipes built by others. Don't pay attention to those water pipes, you will be a river if you really flow through one landscape after another.

45. When I was a child, I argued with my sister in one breath, and she was not allowed to refute or interrupt, and my tone was raised by many decibels. As a result, my sister was corrupt and didn't want to argue with me at all. But at that time, while I was proud, I also doubted whether this was appropriate, because she didn't believe my point of view. From this point of view, in fact, many people also have such mistakes. Is to speak without giving the other party room to react, just express yourself and forbid others to speak.

46. Even if we are lucky enough to know someone who can help us, we'd better not ask them for help right away. Doing that will probably only ruin a possible friendship. No matter how capable a person is, he is also a person with blood and tears. He needs to be cared for and regarded as a friend, not as a big car without blood and tears. If he has nothing to do, he will transport a person who just wants to hitchhike.

47. There are mines everywhere in life. If you haven't been bombed, it's only because you haven't stepped on it, not because there are no mines in your area.

48. If you have to do something, you can't do it. Good for evil, why report straight? If you forgive the person who abandoned you, what is the person who stayed with you? How do you repay his love?

49. An important criterion for judging happiness is not whether you can have something, but whether you can refuse something.

5. In love, you try your best to give, and sometimes you only get the best of it.

51. If the topic is stuck, just change the topic, don't cling to the stack, try to keep it, and just open another topic. I won't be in a hurry if I leave it for a while, just come back when I have the opportunity. But for people who are naturally defensive or indifferent, they just need to say what they should say politely, and then they can leave.

52. The way to avoid giving others trouble is to solve the trouble in your own hands.

53. Life is inherently composed of contradictions, so I think split personality is a relatively normal situation. We should always be in an uncomfortable and constant awakening to ourselves, instead of feeling that we have been completely integrated to the point where we know everything.

54. You are not the Queen of England, so there is no need to disturb everyone when you leave.

55. One criterion of happiness is whether you can always say no to things you don't like.

56. Do repetitive things have to be boring? The sun rises and sets once a day, which is indeed a very repetitive matter, but I am still easily moved by sunrise and sunset.

57. You always think that you are a poor wretch, and others are bullying you, so you really often say things with a poor mentality. But not only that, but the reverse is also true: you say everything that a poor man can say, and if you say it for a long time, you will be a poor man.

58. Isn't the forest cruel? There are plagues to kill, but the animals are still beautiful. Is the universe not cruel? There is no response, but the stars are still beautiful. Society is also cruel, there is life and death parting, and there will be no way out, but people are still beautiful. So I can still store kindness in cruelty, such as dew on cobwebs and amber under strata. I know strangers may not be merciful, but if I can meet them, I will cherish storage, because there is still a future.

59. Repeat, must it be boring? The sun rises every day, sets every day, and repeats itself, but sunrise and sunset are still the most touching things forever.

6. Many people have the habit of talking endlessly. In this regard, just tell him three words, get rid of it, or there will be endless trouble.

61. When the mirror is dirty, we don't mistake it for our dirty face. Then why do we feel bad about ourselves when others say bad things casually?

62. Mahjong, banquets, Peking Opera, people coming and going, forcing a smile, and the peaceful and prosperous times made of gold and jade, like the tide, repeat and indulge endlessly. It is certainly interesting to watch such a scene once in a while, but if you watch it often and watch it too much, you will naturally understand what impermanence is.

63. I heard that there are enough stars in the sky, enough for each of us to find a star.