Immature love is nothing more than you being a scumbag and me being blind

1. We are unwilling to explore our own value, and we overly value the participation of others in our lives. Therefore, loneliness is no longer beautiful, and we are confused and uneasy after losing others. Sanmao

2. You are my first love and the treasure in my heart. I can care about you and understand you, and you can understand almost everything I say. I think I am your sunshine and you are my sweetheart. I give you the warmth of happiness, and you give me caring care. I married my first love and she married her first love.

3. I still can’t forget you in time, and I can’t forget the heartbeat when we first met.

4. My world is very simple. One is the person I love, and the other is the person who loves me.

5. Believe in yourself. If obstacles are in your way, find a way around them, over them, or knock them down.

6. The mood is refreshing, so I can breathe calmly, think about irrelevant things calmly, look out the window calmly at the black cat running on the dead leaves, and lie calmly on the soft bed. It felt like I had just taken a shower, put on clean clothes, and walked on a clean street.

7. White shirt, canvas shoes, smile like spring breeze, no matter who she is, she will definitely be moved by me.

8. Immature love is nothing more than you being a scumbag and me being blind

9. Stop asking me if we broke up. Let me clarify again, the fact is that I am widowed, okay?

10. Some people quarrel with you every day but never blame you. Some people didn't even quarrel, but they disappeared into the sea of ??people. It turns out that indifference is more terrifying than quarrels.

11. If you don’t wear a long skirt, you will be a goddess.

12. Every story has three versions, your version, my version and the truth

13. First meeting, amazing, stumbling, stumbling, wind rises again, change into the human world. Along the way, life and death, coming and going, they were no longer the same when they met again.

14. If I like you, I don’t need a reason. If I don’t like you, everything is a reason.

15. I feel like I have never been abandoned by happiness. It’s great to be young and work hard.

16. If a relationship can bring you as much joy as it does, it will also bring you as much pain as possible

17. From the moment I press the delete button , you are worthless in my eyes.

18. May every shooting star in the sky shine in the sky for you.

20. Friends can get along with each other, but if they can’t, don’t pretend.

21. The greatest happiness in life is to find that the person you love also loves you.

22. When you are proud of the spring breeze, leave some space for thinking, and don’t let the pride go to your head. When you are in pain, leave some space for comfort, and don't let the pain suffocate your soul. When you are troubled, leave some space for happiness, and your troubles will become nothing but clouds. When you are lonely, leave some space for friendship. Sincere friendship is your second self. When you are lost, leave some space for hope, hope is your guiding light.

23. Hidden in the memory of time, occasionally review these simple scenes.

24. In a relationship, if the boy doesn't take the initiative, it won't last long

25. Even big troubles must be faced bravely. If you can't understand what a mature man says, it means you are immature!

1. Cherish the happiness at hand, and don’t wait until you lose it to regret it.

Maybe there is only one person in your life who will really care about you.

2. Don’t owe your friend too much, because you may never have the chance to pay him back.

3. If you love me,

Please love me deeply.

Give up,

Please do it completely.

Waiting,

itself is an error.

4. There are some people you have watched your whole life, but ignored them your whole life. There are people who you look at once and have an impact on your life.

Some people are enthusiastic and happy for you, but are left out by you. Some people make you happy for a short period of time, but they leave you with a chain of thoughts.

Some people have been wishful thinking for N years, but you have rejected them for N years.

5. Autumn is a cruel season, and both the mature and immature must be harvested together. Everything will disappear with the wind at the turn of autumn and winter.

Only that bright mountain stream-like memory will always flow in my heart...

6. The more open-minded you are, the less likely you will be hurt.

7. Life is like a train, and there are always all kinds of people going back and forth on the train. You may also meet many people who you think are destined

on the bus, but the bus will also stop sometimes, and there will always be people who get on and off the train of life.

You waved as you went down, and when you turned around all you could remember was the way home.

8. Many things can only be understood after experiencing them, just like feelings:

I missed it and regretted it.

Then I realized that life is not No need for so much unnecessary persistence. A must-read for girls: The difference between mature men and immature men

1. Immature men will call you nicknames such as pig head, honey, and fool. Mature men will call you baby. And it hurts.

2. Immature men will kiss you very hard, regardless of whether you like it or allow it. A mature man will close his eyes and kiss you gently when his love is intense, so that you can feel his delicate love.

3. When an immature man calls you or chats with you at night, he won’t care too much about whether you want to sleep or not. He will decide whether to hang up the line or not. A mature man will constantly care about whether you are sleepy and whether it will delay your other arrangements, and then decide the next step. Even when I am tired, I will stay with you as long as you don’t want to sleep.

4. Immature men always ask you questions, what did you do today, and who did you do with so and so? There are countless questions, but they never use their brains to think about many obvious things. question.

Mature men rarely ask you too many questions, unless it is something they can't figure out and can't catch any clues about. Otherwise little can escape their analytical and thinking abilities.

5. Immature men always tell you about so-and-so’s bad things, what’s going on with so-and-so’s family, and all kinds of gossip. Mature men rarely discuss anyone's faults in front of you and teach you some truth.

6. An immature man will let you cook, wash, and pat his back. Occasionally, he will cook a few mediocre meals for you, but he will blame you for your shortcomings. A mature man will quietly cook delicious meals for you as long as he has time, hand you fruits, do the laundry and take care of the housework. Even if the meals you cook are not delicious, he will eat them all with a happy face.

7. Immature men will laugh loudly in public places and ignore others and make trouble with you. A mature man will do his own thing and handle various situations with a calm smile. I respect and take care of you.

8. Immature men always protect you during fights or let you go. Mature men will not fight when you are around, but will calmly use their wits.

9. Immature men will go to bars and nightclubs with a bunch of friends, and then they will have fun and flirt with beautiful women. Mature men are always forced to go there to smoke, drink and chat with friends quietly.

10. Immature men always have the problem of running out of fun and want to know you better. A mature man will only understand you with his heart.

11. Immature men like to drink and open bottles of wine wherever they eat.

Mature men hate drinking and only drink when they need to.

12. Immature men smoke mostly to kill time or have fun. Mature men smoke mostly to think and calm themselves down.

13. Immature men will ask you what to do when they encounter difficulties. Mature men will not tell you when they encounter difficulties, but will bear them themselves.

14. Immature men like expensive and flashy things and pursue superficial things. Mature men don’t like ostentatious things, but like quality and tasteful things.

15. Immature men like a luxurious life and sometimes waste it. No matter how rich a mature man is, he will be frugal with himself, but generous to others and to your beloved.

16. Immature men rarely go home to be with their parents, and they rarely care and love their parents. He often does things regardless of his parents' feelings. No matter how busy a mature man is at work, he will never take time to go home to spend time with his family and buy them the best things. When my parents are ill for a long time, they stay by their bedside every day. Everything will be considered from the parents' perspective.

17. Immature men will compete with you for the TV remote control. A mature man will watch your favorite TV shows with you.

18. Immature men will talk about the songs they like and force you to like them together. A mature man listens to the songs he likes, but he also understands the songs you like. Occasionally he will do what he likes, but in short he will be happy when he sees you smiling.

19. Immature men will make trouble with you while driving, hold your hand and look at you from time to time. A mature man will drive very seriously, tell you a lot of funny jokes and things, and won't let you make trouble with him. Because He values ??life, especially your life.

20. When an immature man hugs you, he will say you are heavy, you little pig, to make you lose weight. Mature men like to carry you around, and then tell you how you are so light, so you don't need to lose weight, just let nature take its course. Emotional Story: Talk about the signs of immaturity in women

Women are more beautiful because they are cute, and they are more attractive because they are mature. Every woman wants to be more beautiful and attractive, but not every lady is so perfect.

If maturity is defined as a relatively pragmatic value concept, a relatively positive attitude towards life, and a relatively stable lifestyle, then you may wish to compare the following ten items to see if you are a mature woman. Or, you are still so immature -

Behaving frivolously

When you meet a social party where a handsome man is present, you are the first one among the ladies to walk up to him and exchange business cards. To show that you are infinitely charming, however, you may not care about your waist that swings too much when you walk, or your voice that is too sweet to appear sexy when you talk. Female colleagues who are jealous of you will quickly spread this matter through gossip. In the ears of the company's leaders, your reliability index drops rapidly.

You already know the reason for standing out and attracting attention. After all, no one pays attention to Cinderella. Maintaining the rate of turning heads and following the spotlight will help enhance your self-confidence. However, it’s best to leave things like midriff-baring tops to your cousins, and add a shawl when you go out wearing a halter top. Mature women are at least elegant in appearance. By the way, don’t forward text messages sent to you by sisters to the opposite sex. These words of encouragement may not apply to everyone. Remember, deep charm comes from your inner-outward temperament, not a temporary display of talent.

Admiring vanity

You are not twenty years old, so why should you make a grand celebration on your birthday? If your boyfriend doesn’t send you flowers, don’t secretly call the flower shop to ask for them. Hua went to the company and required the presence of more than three female colleagues. Now that the couple is living a family life, there is no need to hold the male partner to high standards and strict requirements on Valentine's Day.

The latest mobile phones are not specially designed for you. They are more than showy and have some functions that you cannot actually use, especially those that look thin but are expensive. It’s just window appreciation. After all, his money is used to support his family.

It is understandable that women like to have a glamorous appearance, but those actresses who endorse high-end cosmetics brands use free gifts and can even make money after using them. You and they are not on the same starting line at all. So, don’t force yourself, do everything according to your ability, and be more practical when buying things, which will make you more feminine at home. Otherwise, in the eyes of men, you will never be a woman who can take care of your husband, raise your children, and take care of the family. This is one of the reasons why you have been unable to get married.

Impulse consumption

I believe that when you pass by a window full of beautiful clothes, you will subconsciously touch your bank card. If you say that every time you make a purchase, you will feel like an angel is flying in your heart. , then you'd better remember that impulse is the devil before spending.

Did you buy that pair of sunglasses and then throw them into a drawer and never pay attention to them again? That imported doll in the newly opened boutique on the street is ridiculously expensive. It only costs ten yuan in Yiwu. If you can buy it, have you bought it on a whim and never opened the box again after returning home? Yes, you have the same hobby as all women in the world, and you are obsessed with spending money to buy some gadgets that you don’t use at all. You will feel the happiness of a materialist the moment you own it. As for terms such as practicality, use value, and cost-effectiveness, you rarely care.

If you are only responsible for being impulsive when consuming, and spending a little when impulsive, then no wonder in the eyes of others, you are always a little girl who loves to spend money randomly!

Love Fantasy

You are the kind of person who keeps saying that you are single and have no lover, but there is never a lack of love around you. When you are too depressed, you will look for a fast food on the Internet or in a dark bar. like. When you were a girl, you were a perfectionist. You were like a fairy descending to earth. You must find a prince, not necessarily from Arabia, but at least from Afghanistan. For the male protagonist in the upcoming love story, he adheres to high image standards. Later, you met men A, B, C and D, but you were not very satisfied with the relationship, so you began to feel that your life was far away and your love was elsewhere. Later, you met the man ABCD through the introduction of a friend. You thought that you had seen countless people and were mature enough, so you sincerely lamented that you had seen through the man long ago and that there was no good thing.

In fact, you haven’t figured out that you are basically a love fantasy. Everyone can understand the love dreams you had when you were young and ignorant, but after grinding in reality for so long, you are still unwilling to live a down-to-earth life. On the one hand, you keep dating but are always unwilling to be truly committed. He eagerly looks forward to something extremely romantic happening to him. If you live with such an emotional attitude, obviously you will gain nothing except that your body will become more and more mature.

Losing your temper

Some people are always slow to react, but you are just the opposite, the kind of person who reacts instantly. Because your boyfriend makes an exaggerated comment about your dress, you will immediately throw away his arm on the street, leaving him desperately trying to find a hole in the ground in full view of the public. On your emotional barometer, mostly sunny to cloudy with brief gusts of wind and sometimes showers.

If the occasional coquettishness can add a bit of cuteness to you, then please believe that not many men can stand your habitual outbursts. There are at least ten reasons that can explain to you who are emotional and tearful why you should not lose your temper: it will damage the liver and stomach, it will cause aging and shorten your life, it will affect your work, you will lose your affinity, you will lose your femininity, it will damage your image.

Life is full of joy, anger, sorrow, and joy. Losing your temper is a normal phenomenon, but losing your temper is obviously a sign of immature temperament.

Excessive relaxation

Let’s talk about your career. Do you often make mistakes? Are you often imaginative? Spend three days fishing and two days drying the net? In business, you often sacrifice the good and the weak. Regardless of priority? If you want to predict whether your career will have a bright future, whether you can be a leader or just a leader's wife, you don't actually need to test how many talents and strategies you have, just check the contents of your handbag. Whether things are laid out horizontally or in an orderly manner, or reflect on whether your blog is full of daydreams and freehand poems, or whether it is an orderly work plan.

A person who has a plan for doing things, can implement the plan, and the implementation is effective and the effect is obvious will be welcomed by any boss. If the situation is the opposite, then don’t use the excuse that the plan is not as fast as the change. , you change quickly enough, that’s because you don’t have any plan at all. If it weren't for your gender being stable enough, your chances of becoming the leader's wife would be slim.

Narrow-minded

The new female colleague is more popular with the boss than you, is younger and more beautiful than you, and wears more fashionable clothes than you. It really makes you feel very good. You are unhappy! A trivial matter between colleagues, a few unintentional jokes back and forth will immediately arouse you to inexplicable jealousy. You start to act. Although there is no absolute malice, you can't help but say bad things about the other person behind his back, laugh at her embarrassments, and ridicule her dress

Women are indeed jealous animals. , In some aspects, they lack an open mind and are often prone to extremes. However, you need to know that mature people know how to tolerate and seek common ground while reserving differences. Think about your boyfriend's tolerance and understanding of you over the years! If you were as broad-minded as him, then the atmosphere in your office would definitely be much more harmonious. And your popularity will be better.

Self-willed

Ever since you were a little girl, you have learned to clamor for ice cream and buy new clothes without being taught. When you grow up, you are still like this. If your boyfriend doesn't accompany you to finish your shopping addiction on the weekend, and you don't care if he has to work overtime or attend official business, one word: make trouble! Dare you go against my will? Dare you disobey my order? Dare you disobey my aunt? That's it. You'd better stop.

A woman who is arrogant, unreasonable and self-righteous, a woman who does not consider others’ perspective, or even a woman who is domineering and extremely self-centered, is unlikely to be a lovely woman in everyone’s eyes. It doesn't matter if you act petty or lose your temper, just stop it in time. Men are annoyed by women who are overly willful and don't think about each other under any circumstances. The meaning of maturity includes knowing how to respect others, knowing how to respect others, and being grateful.

Old and ignorant

There are many women like you who are very old and critical. Their hobbies are still in shopping and entertainment. They don’t understand social life, let alone career development.

People who muddle along without a sense of worry are often dealt devastating blows when they encounter twists and turns in life. The so-called ignorant are helpless, sad and pitiful. If you can be forgiven for saying that a fifteen or sixteen-year-old girl is young and ignorant, then if you are twice as old as a young girl, if you are still as naive and naive as you were more than ten years ago, and your EQ and IQ have not improved significantly, then that is your fault. Something is wrong.

Just because you know a lot about celebrity gossip does not mean that you are knowledgeable. It does not mean that you have watched a lot of TV series, which means you have a deep understanding of life. It does not mean that you type quickly, which means you have high computer skills. Just because you can joke does not prove that you are an expert in business negotiations. Knowledge also has depth, and self-cultivation also has depth. It depends on the accumulation of dealing with people over time, and it depends on your requirements and expectations for yourself.

If compared with young people, all you have is attendance records for several years, then sooner or later you will lose the status you deserve as an elder.

Unrepentant despite repeated admonishment

As an adult woman, not only do you fail to remember some of the game rules of office politics and emotional interactions, but you also repeatedly violate them. You often speak unabashedly in front of competing colleagues. You often reveal your true thoughts, thinking that if you open the skylight, others will speak openly to you, but you don’t know that this is definitely a very dangerous thing. You also have such a short memory when it comes to relationships. Your ex-boyfriend, the heartless man who never looked back when he left you, came to you in despair on a rainy day for the Nth time, and you always forgot about him. I will break up with you after dawn, and my heart will soften for the first time.

It is said that one learns from every experience. Making mistakes is forgivable, but making the same mistake is unforgivable. Never forget the past and be the teacher of the future.

Only by summarizing the crux of the problem and correcting those mistakes can you continue to make progress.