What's it like to be born in a patriarchal family?

There are more and more families that don't value boys over girls, and even now many loving couples tend to value girls over boys. Due to the traditional customs of "raising children to prevent old age" and "raising men and raising women", with the "update" of the times, with the enhancement of "filial piety consciousness", with the change of working methods, with people's personal experience in real life. Old problems and worries about "refusing to adopt a son" are now basically "eliminating backwardness" rather than "stuttering".

There are many families around me who don't value boys over girls. The common signs of these families are the love between husband and wife, clever and strange daughters, harmonious and beautiful family life, happy and happy mode of getting along with each other, the interactive mode of "respecting the old and loving the young" which shows the family style, and the "family education flaunt". Looking enviable, contact is "dazzling", getting along is comfortable, and reflection is more reassuring. Therefore, "non-consanguineous family", "sense of security" are more stable, "optimism" and "filial piety" are more affectionate.

I don't know if you are bothered by the problem of son preference. In a patriarchal family, parents will regard their children as treasures. I will not deliberately suppress my daughter and love my son. I have seen such a family: the daughter is a little princess, the son is a little prince, the parents are kind, the children are happy and the whole family is happy. I really think this is the most beautiful picture in the world. Being born in such a family is the luckiest thing. If we are not so lucky, may we all learn to love ourselves.

You are not a born princess, but you can live like your own queen. We can also break down the obstacles in Descendants and rewrite our own destiny. Girls can have the same education and development opportunities as boys in the family; In the conflict between men and women, we can handle the problem from the perspective of equality and will not take sides. In ordinary family affairs, they have the same right to participate, choose and decide, and will not be discriminated against in dealing with family affairs and asset distribution because of gender differences. Girls should also bear the responsibilities and obligations of the family. There is no difference in concept between families and children, and they pay the same efforts and love.