Talking about "Changing one's destiny starts with changing one's behavior and mentality"

Destiny is in your own hands ",this sentence is very useful to modern young people. If you don't want to be mediocre all your life, you have to hold the steering wheel of fate.

If you want to change the status quo, you have to change your thinking, think with your head, think with your head, what to do, find the right way, and then put it into action.

A good fate and a good life are not at your fingertips, just sit back and enjoy the achievements.

When I was a child, I was hazy and ignorant, my mind and ideals were not obvious, or my fate never occurred to me. With the change of the times, the change of environment, the growth of age, the maturity of mind and the edification of knowledge, this hazy state will gradually become clear, with a mind and an ideal. We slowly act according to our own ideas, maybe this is the beginning of changing our destiny.

Einstein, a famous physicist, was fond of playing when he was a child, and his lessons were not good. Later, his father told him a story and said to him, "others can't be your mirror, only you are your mirror." Einstein knew that he was wrong after listening to it, and he shouldn't screw up his homework just because he was fun. From then on, Einstein often regarded himself as a mirror to examine and reflect on himself, and finally reflected the bright light of his life. Perhaps the change of his mind as a child was the source of his later becoming a physicist.

God gave us life, but our fate is in our hands. Sartre said: "Man's destiny is in his own hands." Xu Zhimo said: "We ourselves are the cause of our fate." Some people from well-off backgrounds are illuminated by their parents' "aura". They and their parents spend a lot of money, indulge in extravagance and debauchery, and have a party every night. We don't know what to do and don't ask about their future. We don't have the capital to emulate them. And some people who are not rich and live at the bottom have no ambition to make progress, but just muddle along and do nothing. Complain about your poor birth, complain about God's injustice, and complain that your parents didn't give you a rich living environment. Such people are always feeling sorry for themselves, not thinking about changing anything, not thinking about adjusting their mentality and changing their thoughts. They can only grow old and die of old age in resentment, and their lives are bleak. I printed that sentence: life will treat you as you treat life.

Success does not happen in the future, but accumulates from the moment you decide to do it. Therefore, each of us should stop complaining about our fate. Only by changing our thinking and taking action can we change our destiny. As a result, we don't know whether we will succeed, but if we don't try, do or choose, there will be no chance at all.

It's been decided. Let's go! There will always be a time when flowers bloom and shadows emerge. Let your life dance with your hands.