The girl suddenly sent a circle of friends about drinking. What happened to her?

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Seeing her for the first time can be described as amazing. In fact, there are not so many people who can

The girl suddenly sent a circle of friends about drinking. What happened to her?

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Seeing her for the first time can be described as amazing. In fact, there are not so many people who can really make people shine in real life, but she is a minority. I am 1.68 meters tall, slender and slender, with waist-long hair and picturesque eyes, with a touch of sadness in my amorous feelings. I sympathize with you.

Before she met me, she added me to WeChat, which was introduced by a client in the pharmaceutical business. I was helping my parents run a winery at that time. Almost all friends in circle B come to us to buy drinks, and they will be cooked in the long run. At that time, I passed her WeChat, but I didn't talk much.

The first time I met her was B. A group of friends were eating in a restaurant and asked me to bring him some drinks. She was there. I saw her at the first sight at a big table dinner. I couldn't ignore her presence as far as my sight could see.

The real intersection was after a midnight snack, when we were with B and a group of friends of B. At that time, I realized that she and B were lovers, B was married, and she was unmarried (I didn't know she was married at that time, but I will write later). Because our winery is a high-end wine, the guests we contact also have certain economic strength. Many customers are like this, and beautiful women show their identity on the side.

B has always given me the impression that she is gentle and elegant, young and not greasy, eloquent and graceful. On the snack table, B told her that if she had nothing to do, she would come to see me more, learn more from my business, praise me and be a strong woman. I laughed it off.

Later, she often drove her white BMW to see me in the winery, saying that B would let her see more about how I do business and help her open a shop in the future.

I've had more contact and got to know her. She comes from a good family (her father made a fortune doing information and has a family outside). She graduated from the Fine Arts Department of Wuhan University, so she has a melancholy artistic atmosphere. She has never gone out to work. Her daily life is to buy things at buy buy and then play mahjong with her friends. Even the car keys are hung by MiuMiu, but her personality is not unassuming. On the contrary, the crowd is always quiet, gentle and polite to same-sex friends, and generous, which is why a series of things that happened to her later brought me a very strong shock.

She said that she agreed to divorce before agreeing to be together. The reason for B is undoubtedly that he has no feelings with his wife for a long time, and his sexual life is gone, involving property division and so on, and he also describes his wife as an ugly bitch. B is meticulous when she is with her, and is regarded as the palm goddess by her. Women will envy her when they see it. They have no scruples about going out at night. B even took his half-year-old child out to eat and play with her. B also went to her home and visited her parents. Everyone believed that he would divorce, which was only a matter of time and procedure, so her parents knew that B was not divorced, so they acquiesced in their being together.

But later, the complexity of things far exceeded my imagination.

First, she came to me and told me that if B asked me, she said yes. She borrowed ten thousand yuan from me. Then in the afternoon, B came to me and said that she was addicted to playing mahjong. Sometimes she won or lost hundreds of thousands in one night. He also said that she was mentally ill and often couldn't find anyone else, so she called for help, tore and beat whenever she met, and often drove around alone in the middle of the night.

Not long after, she told me that she was pregnant, but B didn't want children, saying it was time for a divorce and children couldn't be had. She asked B to buy her a house to prove her sincerity, but B kept looking for various reasons to shirk it.

She had no choice but to call home. Later, she learned that she was not B's only lover, because his wife was calling someone else's name-that was B's other lover, a nurse in a hospital in the city. His wife always thought there was only one woman, a nurse. As a result, she smashed B's BMW, B called the police, and the child miscarried.

I thought this was the end of the matter. I advised her to stop the loss in time, but she was unwilling.

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In a blink of an eye, it was the Spring Festival of 20 19, and an epidemic broke out in Wuhan. B selling masks makes a lot of money. Our friend said that he made tens of millions by being conservative, but he kept it a secret.

After the epidemic ended, she said that B gave her 300,000 yuan, and the two were entangled.

Later, B's new pharmacy was just across the street from my winery. She often goes to his drugstore and occasionally comes to see me. The topic is nothing more than B. Once she told me that B is not only her and the nurse in the hospital, but also a young woman from her hometown and a woman who runs a beauty salon in Wuhan. Sometimes she allied with B's wife to attack B, and sometimes B allied with his wife against her.

B once came to my shop and said that he was addicted to playing mahjong before he was with him and lost more than one million yuan. Her father helped her fill the hole, and now she is alone at home. She also told me that she had been married before, and because she was pregnant, she played mahjong all night, which caused her child to suffocate during childbirth, so the man divorced her.

Too much dog blood plot, I was dumbfounded. Later, my friends and I gradually stopped having personal contacts with them, because as their friends, I really heard too many slanderous words and didn't want to get involved in their affairs.

The last time I saw her, she came to buy wine from me. Her skin is dull, her long hair is dull, and her condition is very poor. She said she was pregnant again and had a miscarriage. I have nothing to say but sigh.

Later, because the epidemic continued, the business of our winery was not particularly good, so I went to work in other places and never saw her again. I only occasionally see her status from the circle of friends, all in the circle of friends in the middle of the night, either drinking or burning the midnight oil. Once I saw her making friends at the police station, I left a message asking her what was going on. She said she wasn't with love rat ... So far, she hasn't said anything, and I haven't asked again.

Last year, in June+February, 5438, I received a message from my hometown friend that she was dead! ! ! I can't believe it. My friend sent me a video. On the expressway in the early morning, the drunk driver didn't wear a seat belt and the front of the car was completely smashed. She was lying about 20 meters, with a long curly hair scattered around, and there was a pool of blood on the ground, and she died on the spot. The car that was hit was B's black BMW! The date of the accident was 5: 20. It is speculated that they should be together that night, or there is a contradiction. She drove his car at high speed, which led to a tragedy. But her parents didn't hold B responsible afterwards. Why? This is one of my problems.

She is really beautiful. If you meet her for the first time and see her smiling, you can't associate her with the woman who played mahjong, gambled, smashed a car and fought at the police station. I don't know whether her own personality and choice led to her fate getting out of control and stepping into the abyss step by step, or because she was born in a family. I believe in cause and effect, and sometimes I even wonder if her father made ill-gotten gains and planted this cause before she ate the fruit.

Recently, I dreamed of her twice. Once, we were sitting in the car together. She sat in the passenger seat and I sat in the right back seat. Suddenly, she turned to me and asked, "So-and-so (her own name) is dead, do you know?" I was surprised to find that she didn't know when she sat next to me. I looked down at her without shoes and asked her why she didn't wear shoes. She looked up and smiled at me. I woke up in an instant and couldn't sleep anymore.

The second time, I dreamed that we were lying in bed together-I slept in her house twice and in the same bed before she died-and we were chatting, and I found blood under the sheets she slept in. ...

At the beginning of this year, B sent me a message, which was an advertisement for medical sanitary napkins. He asked me if I was interested in acting as an agent. He knew that I had many friends and said he would give me a set to experience. I didn't answer, so I blacked him out. This is the first time that B sent me a WeChat after she left, but it's not about her. I didn't wait for him to say anything about her, but he still casually promoted products to me. How deep is a man's heart? As a lover who has been entangled for so many years, won't you have nightmares?

Also, is our society powerless to such a man?

I don't usually publish impersonal stories, but this story, I think, can give us a lot of inspiration, which is one of them. Secondly, I still believe in metaphysics. The girl in the article gave her dream to the author twice. I think she has hope. Maybe she wants the author to tell the world about her tragedy and let the world have a warning.

Although that woman has passed away, I still want to criticize her, because not criticizing her is not enough to warn future generations.

I think her tragedy did not begin with B, but was doomed when she was young.

What is her biggest problem? Love leisure and hate work. This is the result of family education.

Her father, like her lover, cheated on women and abandoned her mother. Metaphysics, this is the cause and effect that his father planted for his daughter. His wife and daughter were deceived and seduced, and finally died without any compensation, raising a daughter for nothing. The average family can't afford to train an art student from a 985 college, and the cost and effort behind this can be imagined.

Metaphysics also works through secular law.

After graduating from college, the woman has never had a serious job. She traded her beauty for means of production instead of work, and played mahjong in her spare time. This is a typical leisure and boring job. Looking back, what should I do if I graduate from a prestigious school? A loser.

Values education is 1, and knowledge, ability, aesthetics and so on are all 0. Only with this correct value of 1 can the following 0 be meaningful, otherwise, no amount of education is equal to 0. I think the most basic, intuitive and simple education for children is to exchange what they want through labor. Through the performance of the hostess, we can see that the hostess lacks this kind of education. Her father let her know that using the desires of the rich can get a lot without labor, and it is more a shortcut to make money.

Therefore, she thinks it is natural for her to sleep with him and ask him for money. The man gave him 300 thousand, which she felt was not enough. She thinks she deserves a house in a big city. She didn't feel ashamed to go to the door to find the original match, because she didn't have the same values as ordinary people, she didn't have the sense of shame of ordinary people, and her views on right and wrong were different.

If she doesn't work, she naturally has a lot of time. How does she spend it? So gambling has become a bad habit again.

No matter how beautiful such a person is, his soul is ugly.

The soul is ugly, and if she is given a good man, she will not live long, such as her ex-husband divorcing her.

Ugly soul, if you don't meet this love rat, you will meet that love rat, because she likes to relax and hates work, and only love rat can satisfy her desire. After all, she and B just need and satisfy each other, and a pair of ugly souls are dancing.

But the ugliness of the hostess is not born, but distorted by acquired education.

I think the first thing a woman should complain about is that her parents, especially her father, have not given her a correct education.

Three incorrect views, the road behind is almost doomed. It's like drunk driving on the highway, and what happens later is out of control.

Women still have to sue, and of course B.

In fact, it's not just B who will be sued. There are countless men who like B at present.

Why can b get away with it? Even his mother's parents dare not disturb him. Why?

Although the woman is dead, if she is sued, she is still the subject of law. First, she is an adult, and it is her responsibility to borrow the driver's car for drunk driving. The driver is irresponsible for her life, and even the driver can ask her for compensation for car damage. Second, the money he gave her, his wife can beg for it back in the name of illegal gift from husband and wife.

According to the current law, it is unreasonable for a woman to pursue. If she is unreasonable, she won't get compensation, but she wants to pay the man back. In this case, her parents can't inherit all the inheritance after her death, so they have to give part of it to the man.

So the mother's parents can only keep silent.

Why can a man like love rat get away with it, but the law can't cure him?

The current law can't really cure him, because 1997 has abolished the crime of hooliganism, otherwise it is appropriate to sentence him for hooliganism just like the male master.

1984165438+10. On 2 October, the Supreme People's Court and the Supreme People's Procuratorate's Answers to Several Questions about the Specific Application of Laws in Handling Rogue Cases pointed out: "For the purpose of playing with women, many women are raped by deception; Or if the number of women who commit adultery is small, but it causes serious consequences, it shall be classified as hooliganism and sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not more than seven years.

1997 Abolish the crime of hooliganism, and enjoy sexual freedom across the society. In fact, it was the western concept of sexual freedom that invaded China. Under the pressure of correct western values, we abolished the crime of hooliganism, and married men deceived and induced women to have sex, which became a forbidden area of the law.

Since I opened the official WeChat account, in the relationship between men and women, women have suffered a lot, but men have been able to get away with it. Many readers are asking: Why don't men have to pay the price?

I never knew how to answer. It turns out that before 1997, men had to pay the price, but after 1997, they didn't need it.

Now it seems that the abolition of hooliganism has accelerated the proliferation of sexual freedom thoughts and behaviors, which has caused a huge impact on marriage and family. The instability of marriage and family will aggravate the decline of birth rate. The decline in the birth rate, in Musk's view, is the greatest threat to mankind.