What's the matter? Please call.

See Tang Xiao at the provincial capital meeting. I greeted her warmly before I sat down next to her. She raised her eyelids from her mobile phone, answered and buried her head. I'd like to invite her to dinner and chat at the evening buffet. After all, it's rare to see her, but once it's over, her backpack will flash like electricity.

I obviously felt her indifference to me. She is a passionate person. She used to sleep in her room during the meeting. I had a fight with my eyelids, and she was still talking. However, there is no intersection and communication at ordinary times, and it is relieved to admit that you have not offended.

When I came back to turn over WeChat, when I was near the bottom, I suddenly found the voice from Tang Xiao a month and a half ago. She told me a business matter, which could have been done in business, but out of respect for me, she kindly reminded me.

It dawned on me, so that's it. If I were you, I would feel uncomfortable if no one responded to my olive branch.

Wechat didn't reply in time for two main reasons: I read it, but I didn't wait, and other things were forgotten; I didn't see it at all

There are more and more people in the circle of friends, and we are bombarded with massive information every day. I have turned off the tips and tried to turn to WeChat as little as possible. Every once in a while, from top to bottom, you can catch a few fish that escape the net every time. With the passage of time, holiday greeting information has changed, and some people have to make up and apologize quickly.

People are connected, and the heart is connected. If you don't get a reply, you will feel neglected. If someone sends you a message and you don't reply, you will feel embarrassed. But to put it bluntly, if you think what you told me is very important and hope to get a timely reply, why not just call?

With wechat, we seldom call to talk about things. However, due to the omission and late reply of WeChat, are there more misunderstandings and bumps that can only be understood but not clearly stated?

Once, I sent a message to my son-in-law, and he never answered me. I was very upset. He later apologized to me and said he didn't see the meeting. This time he knew when I arrived at the station and there was no information, which made me even more unhappy. The next day, when I turned out WeChat, I turned out his WeChat the day before. He told me that he hadn't come back from a business trip and couldn't pick me up. This time, I am the one who apologizes and explains. The implication is that I am afraid that he will misunderstand that I did not return on purpose.

Some things, although not at that time, will be like that with more times and longer time. A WeChat, seemingly insignificant, may affect your interpersonal relationship and others' evaluation of you invisibly, but you may be kept in the dark.

I told Tang Xiao that in order to express my apologies and sincerity, I put her address book (name plus A) and chat record at the top. Nevertheless, I still can't guarantee that I won't miss her WeChat in the future, so I'll add: Call me directly if you have anything in the future!

Wechat facilitates the contact between people, but the estrangement and alienation brought by the words and messages of Wechat is far from the truth, communication and intimacy of direct telephone conversation.

Friendly reminder: Send WeChat if nothing happens, and call if anything happens.