What problems should couples pay attention to for the first time after childbirth?

After the woman gave birth to the child, the husband and wife shared the same room for the first time, which was both nervous and expecting. After all, in the third trimester, pregnant mothers are physically inconvenient and not suitable for sharing a room, and it takes a long time for both sides, especially men.

After giving birth, I can finally carry out long-lost activities, and I can imagine the expectation.

However, after a woman gives birth to a child, her role will change and her psychology will change accordingly.

Don't be too impatient when having sex for the first time after childbirth. Both sides should make psychological and physical preparations first, so as to be conducive to the harmony of husband and wife's life in the future. There may be some obstacles before sharing.

Obstacles encountered before the first postpartum sexual intercourse 1, female physical discomfort.

Husband and wife life needs the cooperation of two people, and it is better to maintain a comfortable and healthy state. However, it takes a long time for women to recover after giving birth. If they haven't recovered, they may feel pain in the middle.

In this way, women will not only feel pain, but even leave a psychological shadow and be afraid of it. It is also a bad experience for men. This situation has a great influence on later life.

2. The shift of women's concerns

Many women will shift their focus from their partners to their children after giving birth. Many mothers will pay too much attention to their children, and may even pay attention to their children's status for 24 hours.

Doing so will make my mother feel very tired, leading to no longer paying attention to the life of husband and wife and having no energy to do it.

3. Women's psychological inferiority leads to resistance

Many women have not recovered their bodies when they have just given birth, and may feel inferior and their bodies are no longer perfect. Some women who have had caesarean section have a scar on their stomachs, which makes them feel ugly and inferior. They don't want their husbands to see themselves like this, and then they will have a resistance to their husband and wife's life.

Due to various physical or psychological reasons, couples need to be prepared in advance to avoid unnecessary harm.

Couples need to pay attention to 1, and pay attention to the time of postpartum sexual relations.

When a woman gives birth, whether it is a natural delivery or a caesarean section, the injury is great, and it takes enough time to recover after delivery. Only when the body is restored to a better state can we share a room.

Generally speaking, if it is a woman who has a caesarean section, it takes about three months for the wound to grow well. The recovery of natural childbirth will be faster, and it will take about two months.

It is best to have sex for the first time after delivery, two to three months after delivery, and it is not appropriate to be too hasty. It is easy to cause harm to women's health if the time is too early.

2. Don't take too long.

Although it is already in the recovery period, the woman's body has not fully recovered to its previous state and is still in the recovery period. Be careful not to spend too long in the same room, otherwise the female body may be unbearable, feel uncomfortable or painful.

3. Don't push too hard

In the process of sharing a room, if you use too much force, it will do harm to women's health. If the body has not recovered, it will aggravate the injury and even affect women's psychology.

From marriage to having children together, and then to the birth of children, it is a process that every couple will go through.

In this process, both sides should have patience and dedication. After the birth of a child, the first time sharing a room is the beginning of the restoration of intimate relationship between husband and wife. We should pay more attention and not be too hasty. If something bad happens, it will have a great negative impact, and may even affect the family atmosphere and the future relationship between husband and wife.

Be prepared in advance and moderate, and the life of husband and wife will be more harmonious in the future.