Talk about it step by step

1, don't rely on someone easily, it will become your habit. When parting comes, what you lose is not someone, but your spiritual pillar. Independence will make you walk more calmly.

2, don't live too tired, don't be too busy; Don't eat too expensive, don't waste what you want to wear; Be agitated and get together with friends. I fell asleep when I was sleepy. Peace of mind is the most beautiful, and happiness is right every day.

3. Humans should learn from animals: get enough sleep and sleep whenever you want; Eat moderately and eat when you are hungry; Exercise every day; Don't worry about yesterday or tomorrow.

4, learn to bend over and accommodate, accept everything and get everything. We can't do anything, enjoy what we have with a calm mind, so that life is real, and we also need this attitude towards life when we are doing things.

5, this year, low-key is the biggest show off. Keep a low profile to keep people safe. Sunbathing happiness can easily lead to jealousy and backfire. In case something happens one day, it will be difficult for you to get down the steps. Just like "happiness and pain are neighbors, if happiness is too loud, it will quarrel with pain, but if pain is too loud, it will not quarrel with happiness, because pain is deaf." Similarly, happiness basks too early, and it is easy to quarrel with misfortune.

6. In this world, some people will tell you from time to time that you are not good enough. Sometimes they may be right, but don't do what they ask you to do, try to find some other jobs, try to let some outsiders pursue their goals, and don't take it too personally when they say "no" to you. Maybe they are not qualified to say "yes" themselves.

7. Desire is the most incredible and difficult thing in the world: you don't want to possess it, your bag is empty, but you are as light as a swan and unrestrained; You possess, the enjoyment of the senses squeezes the body and mind, making you carry a heavy load, you suffer from loss, and you have to pay for the pleasure you get from time to time. In fact, the extra things are not yours in the end, just like a monkey entering a cornfield and coming out just like when he first entered, just two corns.

8. Sometimes you need to make a detour because you don't want to embarrass yourself; Sometimes you need to go straight, in order to strengthen yourself. Straight or curved, it is good for yourself!

9. Sometimes, restrain yourself and lose your temper less; Be tolerant of others and take a step back. The world around us is often wiser and more tolerant than we think.

10, a person facing the outside world needs a window; What a person needs when facing himself is a mirror. You can see the brightness of the world through the window, and you can see your own stains through the mirror. In fact, neither the window nor the mirror is important. What matters is your heart. Your heart is bright and the world is bright; Your heart is like a window, you see the world; Your heart is like a mirror, you look at yourself.

1 1, some people will be missed in life. We should thank those who missed it, because they let us understand the preciousness of happiness. I don't believe it should be my own. If you don't fight for it, you will never have a chance. What is fate? Fate has given you an opportunity, and happiness depends on it.

12, what should I do if I don't have enough time and my work affects my life? I spend my working hours doing things, working overtime for dating, staying up late for going to bed early, getting up early for breakfast, delaying time for action, inefficient time for efficiency, Weibo time for chatting, and weekends for leisure and accompanying my parents, so that I can have a slow life of 30% every week.

13, since God has given talents, let them find jobs! The size of a person's ability does not depend entirely on the size of success, but on your perseverance and never giving up in the process of exerting your ability and tapping your potential. Of course, the premise is that you have to be confident, find your potential and work hard to complete it, just like Brock.

14, which is also a B, NB to the north and SB to the south, so the direction of life is very important. Secondly, you should live according to what you want, rather than life affecting your thoughts.

15, life is sometimes like tossing. Just like swimming in the water, you can go forward bravely, but you will encounter too much resistance if you don't go far; You can also walk slowly step by step, which seems a bit backward, but it is also plain and true; You can also choose to float freely within the framework allowed by society, leave all your troubles behind and be happy and carefree. In short, you can choose to do it or not. Happiness depends on yourself!

16, we are often afraid of this, afraid of that, afraid to face it, and always want to escape, often because we don't understand the truth of reincarnation. If you understand, you won't be so afraid, and your heart will gain a kind of happiness and peace. We don't want to escape, but face it; When we dare to face and take responsibility, we have no fear and no terror. There is no fear of terror, no worry and pain.

17, each of us is like a clown, playing with five balls, which are your work, health, family, friends and soul. Only one of these five balls is made of rubber, which will rebound when it falls, and that is work. The other four balls are all made of glass. If they fall to the ground, they will break. This passage is worth pondering. ...

18, life needs to have a tone, be a low-key person, do things with a tone, walk with a healthy pace, hum happy songs, keep a high profile of happiness, and wish happiness the best!

19, life often jokes with us, and what you expect will be farther away from you; The person you are attached to will suffer the most. Therefore, you don't have to look ahead and look back, and you don't have to be too persistent; Learn to let go, let go of unrealistic expectations and let go of fruitless persistence. So, let's take it easy and see through it. Everything is being lost, and nothing can be left. Only the present happiness and happiness are the most powerful.

20. If we don't have the desire to pursue deliberately, we won't care about other people's glances, and we don't have to please against our will. Life will naturally be much easier. So don't be a slave to desire, or you will never have peace. And some people are best at prying into other people's minds and using other people's desires and demands to achieve their ulterior motives. If you don't want this kind of person to lead you by the nose, you must learn to dispel the evil thoughts in your heart. No desire is just!

2 1, the maturity of any soul must go through the baptism and tempering of loneliness. Those lonely days are also the best time for us to know our self-accumulation strength. Loneliness is not important, what matters is whether you can stand loneliness; Loneliness is not terrible, what is terrible is that you are decadent and depressed in the arms of loneliness. When loneliness and loneliness surround you, don't forget that there is a soul with you.

22, people should not squander three things: physical money and love, you want to squander, but it is not worth the candle; People can't keep three things: life and love. You want to keep them, but they are drifting away. There are three things that people should not remember: disaster, death and love. You want to remember, but you are in pain.

23. Life is a rope that always leads us by the nose. In order to live, we shrink back, distort and even betray ourselves. Don't think this is normal. Many times what we take for granted will secretly change our character. It is not life that determines what we do, but what we decide what kind of life we want to live. If you carry life on your shoulders, it will always be your burden.

I want to embrace my dream, but it is out of reach. I want to embrace my memory, but it turns into a bird and flies away in my arms. People always chase their dreams in the sun, but recall the past in the dim light.

25. Life cannot go back to the past. The only thing I can go back to is the memory in my heart. So don't dwell on the past. Failure makes us gain experience, and success makes us regain confidence. As long as you go straight ahead, you will gain a lot.

26. When I was a child, I always wanted to see if there was anyone around me. If there is, I will cry. If not, I will get up. When you grow up, if you encounter unhappy things, you should also see if there are people around you. Get up if you have it, and cry if you don't.

27. Learn to love yourself. We are not perfect people, but we must accept our imperfect selves. Comfort yourself when you are lonely; Give yourself warmth when you are lonely. Learn to be independent, bid farewell to dependence, and bid farewell to your weak self. Life is not only warm, the road of life will not always be smooth sailing, but as long as you have confidence in yourself, know your own value and cherish yourself, you can face all the imperfections in the world calmly.

28. With people in the sunshine, the heart will not be dark; With wise people, you won't be confused when you meet things; When you are with happy people, you will always grin. May you smile charming!

29. Pretend to be strong and don't want people to see tears; Pretending to be happy is to keep people from knowing loneliness; Pretending to be happy is not to let people see the wound; Pretending to be sweet is not for people to see tears; Pretending to be relaxed is not to make people sad; Pretending to be happy is to keep people from seeing scars; Pretending to be mature is not to make people see ignorance; Pretending to be smart is not to let people see failure; Pretending to be happy is not to let people see loneliness!

30. People are not afraid of confusion, but they are afraid of stagnation without confusion. Stick to it, the more confused you are, the less likely you are to give up easily. The longer you are confused, the more likely you are to find your way. Many successes in life often occur in the most difficult times. Confusion is also a good thing. Will only lose the pace of progress. Being confused in life means that you are exploring, but you have no direction for the time being.

3 1, diligent people-hurry up; Lazy-killing time; Where there is will-cherish time; Doing nothing-wasting time; Loyal ministers-punctuality; Speculator-waiting time; Smart people-accumulate time; Fool-ignoring time; Knowledge-seekers-use time; Ignorance-wasting time; Doer-pay attention to time; Wanderer-tramping on time; When you win moderately; Optimist-praise time; Pessimist-sigh time.

32, plain, not the best way, ups and downs, only to enrich life, only to overcome setbacks, can we continue to surpass. True courage is: stand the test of time and remain rock solid!

33. Are you tired? Smiling is not tiring, but being angry is tiring; Simple is not tiring, complex is tiring; Acacia is not tired, but unrequited love is tired; If you are not tired together, a person is tired; Love is not tired, disability is tired; Single-minded love is not tired, but promiscuous love is tired; Friendship is not tired, but love is tired; Really not tired, false feeling tired; Friends are not tired, enemies are tired; Selfishness is not tired, but selfishness is tired; Gains and losses are not tiring, but caring is tiring; Whether you are physically tired or mentally tired, you are tired. ...

You don't have to expect any miracle, because there is nothing in the world except yourself. Instead of expecting a miracle, give yourself a miracle. It is better to ask yourself than to ask others. Everything depends on yourself. In the pursuit of life, we should keep a contented heart and work hard to create a miracle, which is the real miracle.

35. Connotation is more important than appearance, but a kind heart is the beginning of all cultivation. Having good and beautiful qualities is like putting on armor for yourself, which can help you resist evil and get double protection; If we can strengthen the cultivation of mind and nature on the basis of these qualities, it is like building an iron wall of success, and the road to success will always be unimpeded.

36. Seeing others is not pleasing to the eye, but the cultivation is not enough. At the moment when people are angry, their IQ is zero, and they return to normal after one minute. The key to a person's elegance is to control his emotions, and hurting people with his mouth is the stupidest behavior. We are not free, usually because of bad emotions from the heart. A person who can control bad emotions is better than a person who can win an ideal city. ...

37. The road comes out, but do you know that the road is the scar of the land? Even if it is easy to walk, we will feel the hidden pain in life every step forward. Walking on the road that others have taken, we interpret the pain that everyone turns a blind eye to, so we don't feel the pain. The most painful thing in life is to go your own way consistently. Actually, there is no road. Just to persist in being who I am in my heart, I am determined to persist in this persistence.

38. I gradually understand that many things can be met but not sought, and many things can only be owned once; I gradually realized that people's personalities can be so different; Slowly, I understand that two people who are together every day are not necessarily friends, but may be nothing; I gradually understand that mobile phones are used by others when they have something to find you, not to communicate their feelings; Slowly, I understand that happiness often comes from memories, while pain often comes from the gap between memories and reality.

39, people live not by the body, but by the mind; It's true. Whether a person is happy or not depends on your heart, not your body-your daily gains and losses. If your heart is happy, then you are happy everywhere; If your heart is happy, then everything you do is happy. Sometimes, it is not others who decide our mood, but ourselves.

40. No one can enjoy happiness all his life. If you want to live a lifetime, you can't guarantee happiness forever. Only experienced, will understand; Only after suffering do you know how happy a happy event is; Only when you have loved, do you know the feeling of heartache; Only by paying can you get a return; Only after hard work do we know that happiness is actually very difficult; Only when you have experienced failure can you know that success is so difficult.

4 1, life is cool as a flower, and it is naturally fragrant all the way. The bonus is not for spring, but for attracting butterflies. The blooming years grow silently, open silently and live elegantly. I don't want to be a big hit, I just want to come back next time in spring and return to the earth in spring. It is worthwhile to live a good life. Butterflies come and go with their wishes, stay in the sky and spend a spring. If you don't want to gain, you naturally have nothing to lose. The beauty of life lies not in struggling, but in keeping.

42, endless work, stop and relax; If you don't earn enough money, then look outside; Do not like the secular, quiet, let nature take its course; Endless sulking, speaking out, broad-minded; Endless entertainment, resignation, is good for health; Endless filial piety, take a walk and go home to see; Unfinished human feelings, weigh and do what you can; Endless future, slow down and stroll through life!

43. If you can't let yourself go, there will be no wisdom, and if you can't let others go, there will be no compassion. Everyone should know how to let go of themselves and others, and don't waste life on obsession. The road of life is long and broad.

44. Being alone is a kind of ability, but also a kind of accomplishment. Everyone's mind needs a piece of pure land. Facing the impetuousness and noise of the outside world, our hearts are often tired and bored. At this moment, what we need to do most is to create a lonely space for ourselves, to think about what we want, to do what we want, or to do nothing at all. Only when you are alone is the time closest to yourself.