The more tolerant parents are, the more self-disciplined children will be.

In these four things, the more parents can tolerate their children, the more self-disciplined their children will be.

Take your hand back and the child will be independent.

Educating children to be independent is better than being the first. Please help me to be independent. This is the inherent demand of every child's nature. Never help a child to do what he thinks he can do. This should be a parenting principle that every parent needs to abide by.

Knowing how to let go of love is the best gift for parents to give their children. After the child is 3 years old, it has passed an important period of cultivating a sense of security. Parents should learn to let go and start to cultivate their children's independent self-care ability

As parents, resist reaching out and let children try what they should do and learn what they must do; Giving children the ability to be independent from the world is the foundation of their self-confidence and self-discipline in the future.

Only by holding back nagging can children awaken their inner drive.

Twitter is almost every parent's "specialty", and there is a kind of "overrun effect" in psychology, that is, when a person is stimulated too much, too strongly or for too long, it will cause psychological impatience or rebellion, and the final effect will only be counterproductive.

Chen Danqing, a famous artist, once said: Good education means talking less, and diligent education of children may not be effective, so parents should reflect on their own educational methods.

If you are diligent in nagging and arguing, the effect is often not good; If you are diligent in finding methods and countermeasures and can effectively implement them, it is worth learning.

Only by holding back temper can children have high emotional intelligence.

Losing your temper is the deadly enemy of education. The bigger the temper, the worse the educational effect. What kind of environment makes what kind of baby. Parents who love to lose their temper educate their children to be rebellious, suspicious, sensitive, fragile and quarrelsome.

Every character defect is caused by childhood misfortune. No matter how hard life gives you, please control your temper in front of your children. First of all, accept the fact that you are angry, don't feel guilty, and let your child know what your emotional reaction is to him at this moment.

Secondly, objectively express your feelings and concerns about your children. If parents are strong and impulsive, children are prone to timidity and inferiority; If parents are patient and tolerant, children will be more sunny and happier.

Only by resisting impulse can children be more self-disciplined

Nature wants children to experience slowly, repeat slowly, ponder slowly, and develop their abilities slowly from practice, just like children before adulthood.

Before the age of 5, children are full of curiosity about everything in this world. They are always exploring, discovering and enjoying this "slow process".

The biggest difference between children and adults is that children always live in the present, while we adults always worry about the future. For children before the age of 5, we should properly respect their "muddling along" and don't always rush them at the pace of the adult world. In the "slow" world, the wisdom of children's growth is hidden.