I have been in love with my boyfriend for three years, and my boyfriend always turns his nose at me. What kind of psychology is this?

Personally, I think this is actually a kind of inferiority complex. In the face of his girlfriend's Excellence, he didn't want to admit it, so he could only use cynicism to suppress each other and make them become people similar to himself. In fact, I am afraid that the other party is stronger than myself, so when the other party encounters new challenges and attempts, it will ridicule the other party's ability and let it give up on its own initiative and be content with the status quo.

First, inferiority complex

If a boy has been cynical about girls in his feelings, personally, this is inferiority complex. When lovers succeed, they always throw cold water on each other's efforts, but when lovers fail, they ridicule each other with a joke attitude? For nothing . This can be explained not only by his low emotional intelligence or personality, but also by his lack of self-confidence, so he can't believe the success of others through his own efforts. When others fail, he seems to get psychological comfort and hug? Sure enough? Mentally, we should try our best to suppress each other's thoughts and let her agree with her own values and codes of conduct.

Second, don't be misled by each other's cynicism.

It is unfair and disrespectful for boys to treat girls in such a cynical way. On the one hand, it will make your inferiority complex more and more serious, and you will never be able to move forward and accept the Excellence of others. On the other hand, it will also hurt girls' self-confidence and distrust themselves more and more. Therefore, personally, in the face of such lovers, we must adhere to our own principles and bottom line and not be misled by cynicism. If you find that the other party has offended you, you should take the initiative to say so that the other party can realize the seriousness of the matter. And the other party will not change, and don't put your thoughts and emotions in your heart at all. There is no need to continue this unequal relationship.

In short, girls must stick to their own ideas in their feelings, make the truest choice with confidence and courage, and don't choose to regress because of the cynicism of the other party.