Why did you send your daughter to get married?

Seeing the bride off is a marriage custom. When the daughter got married, the family invited two men to accompany her to her husband's house, commonly known as seeing her off. Generally, it is the uncle, uncle or cousin of the married person. After giving him away, he can't enter the house until someone picks him up. When eating, two tables are usually shared, and the man sends someone to accompany the banquet. Generally, people who send their relatives away drink less and eat less. After eating, they told their wives to leave. After seeing off the bride, the man's guests continued the wedding reception. Related records "Wake up, keep your mouth shut, and sell oil lang to monopolize Huakui": "Si Liu's mother went to the big media to bid farewell, and Zhu Zhong and Huakui's wife were in the wedding room, so happy." Chapter 26 of the Scholars: "(Mrs. Wang) just entered the palace for the first time, and she just wanted to send her eldest daughter to Sun Taigong's house." Hu Puan's "Jiangsu Liuhe Wedding": "It's late, the husband's family invites relatives and friends, and first goes to the woman's house to pay homage; The woman's family also invited relatives and followed her to her husband's house, saying that she would see her relatives off. " The elder who saw the bride off is an important role. He represents the authority and dignity of the bride's family. The woman is very particular about who to send the bride. Under normal circumstances, the woman's immediate uncle is responsible. If there is no immediate uncle, find the closest elder. But not everyone can see the bride off. This person should be dignified, generous, authoritative and able to hold the shelf. However, if the woman does have a close relative and uncle, no matter how vulgar the person looks and how obscene the behavior is, she must come forward to see him off, otherwise she will be laughed at and hold her head up all her life. And this kind of person should undergo short-term training and teach him all kinds of rules until he knows them by heart. Really can hold up the table on the day of appearance. When you bring something to see your parents off, you must bring the meat from your mother. Usually, the day before the wedding, the man will give the woman a bag of noodles and a piece of seven ribs, wrap the meat in red paper, and then take two bottles of red wine and a celery. Noodles come from the mother, and meat comes from the mother, which means that the bride has to leave her mother and set up another door. When sending the bride, the woman will cut the meat and bring back the pork with three ribs to the man. At the same time, find an empty bottle with mung beans and an onion in it. Bringing the meat back from the mother means that although the daughter is married, half of the daughter is still at the mother's house and cannot be separated. It's called "ribs never leave the body" Mung beans can give birth to bean sprouts, which means telling my in-laws that my daughter can give birth. This is called "after taking root." The etiquette of seeing the bride off should be to walk behind the bride's car and dress gracefully. Nowadays, with the progress of society, married people usually have to prepare several cars for singles who are seeing them off. When the groom's house is near, the farewell stops, because the farewell has to wait for the man to send someone to pick it up. Such a noble person naturally can't walk to the man's house by himself. And men usually wait around early. As soon as the farewell party arrived, someone set off firecrackers to tell the man's family that the farewell party had arrived. However, the man did not take the farewell party to his own home, but to his neighbor's house not far from his home. Because after the bride gets off the sedan chair or gets off the bus, the younger siblings of the man will laugh, and the farewell party is not interested in watching others laugh at the bride. In addition, the door to send the bride is also exquisite. Guests attending the wedding should stand on the left side of the door and hold out their hands to make a gesture of coming in. If someone happens to be on the right side of the door at this time, the farewell party will never enter, because it is called "black dog drilling crotch" The farewell guests are welcomed to sit down at the square table, and the accompanying guests will keep spreading cigarettes and saying compliments, for fear that something inappropriate will ruin the happy event. Of course, this kind of escort is also exquisite. They are all prominent figures in the man's family, with outstanding clothes and extraordinary conversation. This also represents the dignity of the man's family. Banquet etiquette before the banquet, there are also many stresses. When all the dishes are served, the accompanying guests should take the lead in raising chopsticks and saying "please", but don't move until the folder to see relatives off is caught. The farewell party only moves one chopstick head at a time and can't finish eating it. Of course, we should drink at the farewell party, but we can't toast. You should take a sip. The words at the dinner party are also very measured. You can't say more, eat more or eat less. If the farewell party is always unsmiling and aloof, the air will be dull, but if the farewell party is too casual, it will also make the man's family laugh. Nowadays, many people don't know so much etiquette. When the farewell guests arrive, the accompanying guests will say, we are still young and don't know what to pay attention to. Please forgive my in-laws. And the farewell party is also polite, saying that in the new era, we should ignore anyone. The reception for the farewell party is very long, and it won't be over until all the drinkers have dispersed. As soon as the banquet is over, the farewell guests will say many polite words to the guests, such as asking the husband's family to forgive me in the future and so on. In addition, it is the same to say goodbye to the bride at the groom's house, for example, don't miss home, live well with others and so on. The bride must be sent to the door, but there must be no tears to prove that the bride is happy in this new home.