Not talking is a joke.

What do you do next when someone tells you that "you are a joke to live"?

I have never encountered such a thing. You can make a hypothesis. If someone said that, what would they say? You have to make different answers according to different contexts, or one of them is the answer you want.

Context 1: If your parents tell you that "you are a joke when you are alive", you can immediately ask them "Why are you joking? I wonder if eugenics is good for children? If you don't like this joke, you can return it and leave it to someone who likes it. Don't waste your precious youth and time. " I will tell my parents about it with apologies, and tell them to actively look for people who like to joke, so that they can give their burdens to people they like. If you say it so seriously so many times, my parents will never dare to play such a joke with you again.

Context 2: If your relatives and friends tell you that "you are a joke when you are alive", you can ask them "Am I a joke in your eyes? Then you are not a joking relative or friend. If you don't want to be a joke, please stay away from me. I can't promise not to infect you into another joke. " Your half-truths may bore the speaker, so I won't joke with you again in the future, lest I be cut off.

Context 3: If someone insults you and says "Your life is a joke", you can directly respond to them "I finally understand why you are so miserable. So my joke is your tragedy. When will you become a joke? I am willing to give you back your joke life. " This is a bickering without nutrition, which is indeed possible in life. If you do encounter it, a few quarrels may also cure depression, which is not all bad. The other person may not be interested in bickering with you in the future. If you don't win, you will suffer. At this point, you can solve the problem.

Situation 4: You have done an unbearable thing. You made a mistake first and didn't apologize to the other party in time, which made the other party full and didn't want to have a bigger conflict with you. Just tell you in words: "Your life is a joke". You can laugh it off, or apologize sincerely, or make a joke and say, "As long as you are alive, this is not a joke, and I am willing to make you laugh." It is estimated that the great anger will be gone in an instant, and there will be no resentment between you.

Context 5: You are a good person. Pure misfortune. When someone who has a problem with you points to your nose and tells you that "you are a joke when you are alive", you can directly reply "Because of your words, you are not only a joke when you are alive, but also a joke when you are dead". Then you must fight back bravely, never give the other party a chance to bully you, and never let people think that you are.

Language can inspire people, but it can also kill people invisibly. People, no matter how far or near, should guard against the expression of language. Don't let a knife be as sharp as it, and you can speak it easily. Besides facing the enemy, you can still make the lethality of language work. Under normal circumstances, we should learn to speak with a warm word for three winters. Both the speaker and the listener will feel that they are spring breeze, which brings a good mood experience to each other and promotes good interpersonal relationships.