Is it right to make fun of the other person when you know that he is not joking?

Joking is an art of scale. You should pay attention to who, how and how many jokes you make, and whether different jokes can be made in different degrees. A good joke is the wedding banquet scene, and a bad joke is the scene of an accident. Don't make jokes. Please think about your identity before you speak. Everyone has an invisible ruler. It is best to measure each other with a ruler. If the other person is your colleague, you can't say that, and you can't always tell the opposite sex the dirty jokes you usually tell with your roommate:

First, some of the opposite sex will be disgusted.

second, don't pretend that you are trendy, open and great.

Third, if that joke is really yellow, it will make you look vulgar and dirty.

Another feature of inferior jokes is that they have nothing to talk about. A few days ago, I heard a female colleague complain in the company: "A man chased himself, and all his enthusiasm was spent on having nothing to talk about." For example, at lunch time,

the man's WeChat said, "What did you eat at noon?"

when the woman was busy, she replied, "I was busy and didn't eat anything."

The man continued, "How can you eat nothing at noon? This hurts the stomach. "

The woman said, "The food."

The man replied, "Just eating? Why not eat vegetables? "

The woman said, "Eat vegetables."

The man goes back: "What can I eat?"! Report it to me. "

Later, the female colleague didn't reply to him. After listening to this, I realized that the biggest embarrassment in the world is not silence, but having nothing to talk about. That feeling is like decorating a house that doesn't exist and forcibly piling up a little pity.

In fact, not being able to speak is not necessarily a shortcoming, but you can't add icing on the cake in interpersonal communication, and you can't make jokes, which is not necessarily a weakness. It's just an opportunity to show people your cute image. The most important thing is how you are. In the process of getting along, do you think about each other from your heart and consider their feelings? Even if you are not joking and not good at humor, others will like you, be yourself and never forget your roots. Everyone will like you, too, because they think you are practical and honest. Finally, I hope that the real beauty in the world is more real jokes and less ignorant jokes.