Besides lovers, how close can you be to your opposite sex confidant?

Two people can tell some jokes without scruple and occasionally have physical contact.

As a person with poor love experience, I once had my own heterosexual confidant. The relationship between them at that time should be regarded as ambiguous, but they were stupid at that time, just getting along with their bosom friends and never thought of turning her into their girlfriend.

Two people can say some dirty jokes without scruple, and no one will mind if they are wrong. My bosom friend of the opposite sex in those days was a girl in the next class I met after the college entrance examination. They haven't been in contact since the college entrance examination, but they just happened to go to the same city to study at the university.

For more than a year, the two people have been chatting on the phone every day, and they are really familiar. She knows everything I say, I know everything she thinks, and I really think it's a bosom friend.

Basically, we can meet once every two weeks and weekends, and the state of meeting is no different from that of couples now. We go shopping, eat and watch movies together. We never have any scruples about what we say, and no one will mind if we make a mistake.

Occasionally there was physical contact, but both of them behaved normally. Maybe I was really naive and didn't think about what might happen between two people.

In the process of getting along, I occasionally hold hands and hug, and sometimes she will let me carry her. But I really didn't feel anything special at the time. I don't know if time has passed too long and I have forgotten it, or if I just regarded her as a friend at that time.

As time went by, I never thought that our relationship would gradually drift apart. Until now, I understand that a heterosexual confidant can be a lover or a stranger.

In fact, that year's intimacy was similar to the relationship between lovers, but I never realized this problem and never took the initiative to express myself. Sometimes I feel a little sorry.

Don't use your confidant as an excuse to fool yourself. If you like that person, you must tell her loudly, or you will really regret it later.