Explore how to strike up a conversation with girls.

1. Have your own personality. Once the other person talks to you, when you continue to communicate, don't just please each other, but keep your own personality. Don't pander to what she says, sometimes comment on what she says. If the other person is wrong, don't say what she said is right. Ask each other's questions in time and tell them your solution. This will make the other person feel that you are independent, not blindly obedient and independent. People who have opinions are more likable. In fact, you can put yourself in others' shoes. It's the first time you talk to a stranger. Why cater to each other everywhere? If you do that, the other party will feel very strange. Some girls will think you are hypocritical and glib and don't want to continue chatting with you. Don't you think so? Know yourself and yourself, as for how to say it, it depends on the situation. Know yourself and know yourself, and you will win every battle. Start with her information and interpret her information. For example, the background of her photo, if it is a landscape photo, may be that she prefers to travel. If she can recognize the location, it will be more convenient to strike up a conversation: was your photo taken in xx? I have been there, too. Well, it's very interesting in xx. The topic is coming, talking about local customs and interesting things on the trip, with a strong sense of substitution and intimacy, and my sister is interested in continuing to chat with you. But don't pretend to understand and make it up. A boy full of lies is unreliable. When the lie is exposed, you will lie directly on the blacklist. 3. Pay attention to the nonverbal cues that girls give you. If you stand close to her, spit, or otherwise make her feel uncomfortable, she will give you a hint. Pay attention to these tips. Explore the skills of picking up girls 4 Remember this proverb: "Humorous but not funny." Girls will be attracted to men who make them happy. Don't just tell the funniest jokes, spend more time showing them the most exciting and interesting things. 4. Pay attention to hot spots, such as idol trainees who are very popular recently, and create 10 1. Many friends around me are watching, or even haven't seen it. Or like the love affair with the producer some time ago, these can be used as chat topics, and you can easily understand these hot spots just by paying a little attention to Weibo. Most girls play Weibo more, so paying attention to Weibo can also increase the topic of chatting. Exploring how to chat with girls 2 Exploring how to chat with girls About the opening remarks, first of all, you should understand that this is the first step for you to chat with girls, and don't expect girls to like you right away. So, don't expect the other person to be warm to you just when you say hello. This is a wrong mentality, that is, the so-called bursting sense of demand. You know, the other person is not your person yet, so there is no need to reply to you immediately. However, I want to tell you a cruel fact. In this era of more men and fewer women, a male model with high face value is far less than the number of people matched by an aunt in her forties. Generally, hundreds or even thousands of people give this aunt a right stroke, praise and say hello every day. So if a woman has a high matching rate in exploration, you will have many competitors. Therefore, you must improve your chat skills to make you stand out from the crowd. Find out what to talk to girls about: 1, Baidu stories, gossip materials. Then you'll be happy to talk to her. For example, if you can analyze why boys are philandering from the perspective of Darwinian evolution, and finally come to the conclusion that boys are actually shouldering the heavy responsibility of the evolution and survival of all mankind, my sister will admire you and decide to go to Wushan with you to work hard for the future of mankind. If you have any personal love stories (past events), you might as well tell her that girls always love to hear love stories, and the sadder the better. Make sure my sister sympathizes with you. It is very important not to miss any opportunity to drag the detective sister into the topic of lust. Girls are a little reserved, obviously impatient, and want to pretend to be pure, so you should find a detective sister who takes the initiative to talk to you about lust. Don't be too hungry for chat content, and try to use rude greeting gestures on the internet as little as possible. A simple expression is enough to wait for my sister's reply. After receiving the reply, you can talk about her hobbies, or send a message "I don't often explore, I will add you to WeChat" to my sister's WeChat, and then start the follow-up chat invitation. 2, humor, to activate each other's interests, and occasionally laugh, indicating that you are humorous, you can also talk about your own anecdotes. Whether joking or talking about her interests, we should prioritize and don't finish everything in one day. The next day, we didn't know what to say, so we just stopped talking. When your sister is interested in talking to you, you suddenly say that you have something to do, which will make you more impressed and wait for the second communication to begin.