What should I do if I hear someone speak ill of you?

As the saying goes, hearing is empty, seeing is believing. If you heard it with your own ears, you can take a silent response, but you should let him know that you heard what he said, and let him know that your silence is not because you are afraid of him, but because you are unwilling to bargain with people like him.

When you listen to what others say, you should analyze why he told you this, what his purpose is and how credible his words are. After you analyze these problems clearly, you can decide what to do next. What I want to say is that no matter what others say about you in front of you, it's best not to believe it, but to laugh it off. Now it is a floating society. Some people just want to watch others fight, but they don't want others to live well. Whoever doesn't talk behind his back and who doesn't talk behind his back, you don't have to worry about these hearsay things. Doing their job well is more important than anything else. If what they say violates the principle and will cause serious insult to your personality, you must try to clarify the facts. People should not be too weak, and do it when they should. You can't always let those people with ulterior motives disturb your normal life in private.