How do photographers mobilize customers' emotions?

This is a problem that many photographers are worried about, especially those who have just become photographers. How should they adjust their emotions? My personal experience, first of all, adjust your emotions. If you are all nervous, your emotions will affect the guests and the guests will be nervous, so you should relax yourself first. When others see that you are full of spring breeze and sunshine, they will naturally like you and express themselves easily. Also, when appropriate, you can have a relaxed topic without telling jokes. If the expression is not good, it will be counterproductive. Secondly, you should know your guests and communicate to some extent before shooting. Only when you get married can you become friends, and only when you communicate like friends is the most natural. In a word, I think the most important thing is to adjust your emotions and let the guests relax and express themselves.