Why do many people know that "getting married" is too foolish, but some people take pleasure in it?

Marriage is a traditional custom in China. Tradition means existence. The "marriage quarrel" at Chinese weddings is too ignorant. Is the traditional thing just ignorance? First of all, I don't agree with this view. Traditional marriage is a very happy thing, in order to celebrate the new couple. Traditionally, the purpose of marriage is to drive away the unlucky things in the bride and Xinlang's house by laughing and cursing, including not so much monsters. Play a role in protecting newcomers. When getting married, the bride and Xinlang play some jokes, and bridesmaids and chaperones accompany the wedding process. All this is for the sake of celebration and the blessing of the new couple, and there must be people who are willing to participate, especially the bride and Xinlang as close people.

When the bride and Xinlang get married, the whole family likes to be busy. For example, for the traditional old people and the newly married people, they are all willing to have someone to support the scene, to have someone to be lively, to feel blessed, to support an atmosphere and to have face. In the past, after marriage, the host left one or two tables of players at night. The host family will also specially prepare some dining tables, put tables and stools in the main room, and leave young relatives and cousins behind to make trouble in the bridal chamber. The bride and Xinlang are surrounded by each other. They should talk about the process of getting to know each other, and let the couple guess riddles. If they guess correctly, they should let the riddlers drink. If they guess wrong, they should kiss each other. Everyone spent the first night of the couple in joy and celebration.

As a newcomer, people involved like to be lively. China people have always been a lively and festive people. Some ethnic groups will sing and dance when they get married, and some places will be lively for several days. Lively just want to make some atmosphere, make some dirty jokes, mainly aimed at married men and women, so that the bride and Xinlang can get closer and put aside their usual shyness. Especially in rural areas, getting married is a day. Nowadays, young people, especially relatives and friends, will take a day off to increase the excitement.

Of course, some people enjoy it to take advantage of the bride and/or bridesmaid. Some people may pursue a little excitement and violate the moral bottom line and the basic principles of being a man. But this is not the intention of marriage.