We had a quarrel and made a lot of noise in the past few days. I wanted to sleep in a separate room, but she refused and cried in anger. She also called me a scumbag?

In this vast world, it can be said that it is destined that two people can meet, become lovers, and even become husband and wife.

Marriage does not mean that you will love each other for a lifetime. After marriage, life begins again, and after marriage, you have to go through daily necessities, and there will also be quarrels because of these couples, and after a couple has been together for a long time, their relationship will become stronger and stronger. They become more and more disgusted with each other. When there are problems in the marriage, the two people fail to communicate well and choose to have a cold war or sleep in separate rooms. This behavior is very bad.

Couples who sleep in separate beds will only make their relationship weaker and unresolved. What will happen to the couple after they choose to sleep in separate rooms and have a cold war? Let’s take a look at the answers given by these three people who have experienced it.

Mr. Zhang

My wife and I have been married for 5 years and have slept in separate rooms for three years. When we first quarreled, it was just a small quarrel, not serious enough to break up. They slept in the same room, and then the two of them quarreled more and more. No one gave in to the other, and neither of them wanted to admit their mistakes. The two of them entered a period of cold war, and then they slept in separate rooms.

At that time, I thought that just by sleeping in separate rooms for a week, the two of us would slowly reconcile and get along as well as before.

Unexpectedly, after sharing a room once, the two of them quarreled more and failed to communicate well. They lived in separate rooms for three years and had a cold war with my wife for three years. Individuals have not found a suitable opportunity to communicate, so the relationship is getting weaker and weaker.

Nowadays, I am very annoyed with this kind of life. Every time I come home from work, I see my wife with that sullen face. It is very uncomfortable. Sometimes when I come back downstairs, I would rather sit downstairs all night. He also refused to go back.

I really want the relationship between the two of us to return to what it was before, because this kind of life is really difficult and I don’t know when it will end.

Ms. Huang

When my husband and I slept in separate rooms for the first time, it wasn’t that we quarreled. It was just that my husband was busy with his career at the time and sometimes had to work until two or three o’clock. It would also disturb me, so in order for me to have a good sleep and take good care of my baby, we agreed to sleep in separate rooms.

Finally the baby was born, and we got used to sleeping alone. My husband had no intention of coming back to sleep with me. Instead, he ignored me and didn’t greet me much. He got off work late every day. , I went to bed relatively early, and the time we spent together was staggered, and we didn't have a good chat. Sometimes I didn't see him at all throughout the day, and even if I did, I wouldn't say hello.

He and I are now like husband and wife during the day and neighbors at night. I don’t know how long we have not been married to him. Without his comfort, I feel very depressed and sad.

But I won’t come to him first. I want him to come to me, but he has never come to me for intimacy. I’m really disappointed.

Ms. Sun

My husband and I chose to sleep separately. One day I was angry and he actually forgot my birthday. He ignored me that day and even went out to drink. So she got angry and slept in a separate room with him.

He really didn’t know it at the time, but I told him, and he didn’t react at all. He even went to my room to sleep with me while I was asleep, and he slept like a baby. Until the second day, just pretend that nothing happened.