How to find a topic when dating a girlfriend?

My girlfriend told me that with you, I feel that even if I just sit quietly, I won't feel bored. When boys and girls are together, many times boys think that they have finished chatting with their girlfriends for a long time. In fact, there is not so much to talk about, so they are bored for fear that girls will feel bored, so they try their best to find a topic to avoid embarrassment between them. Sometimes this may be counterproductive, but it will be more embarrassing. I've been in this situation before, so slowly two people are really bored because of this situation.

What aspects should we talk about chatting? There are many things, but also depends on your emotional state. You need to know what a girl usually likes. For example, she likes dogs, so we can talk. She usually likes sports. You can take her to the gym to play badminton, basketball and so on one weekend. Cultivate a tacit understanding between the two sides so that I won't feel embarrassed even if you sometimes sit and have nothing to say.

If you are emotionally mature and reach a certain stage, you can talk about your work plan, your views on the future, and some interesting things that have happened in your life. Or, if you are in trouble in your life or work, ask her to give you advice. This is also quite good. As long as you are with the person you love, you feel full of happiness even if you don't talk. If you are with your boyfriend or girlfriend, you need to find a topic. Is this too painful?

If two people who like each other can't finish talking, they won't feel embarrassed even if there is no topic to talk about. If we are only together, as boys, we should pay more attention to her and make some jokes appropriately. After all, feelings are maintained by two people together. If there is nothing to talk about between lovers, maybe there is something wrong with your own feelings.