No matter how good the heterosexual relationship is, no matter what you say, it is hard to be simple.

There is a hot topic on the Internet: Is there pure friendship between the opposite sex? Frankly speaking, it exists, but it is rare. While maintaining friendship, always remind yourself not to cross the line. If they are slightly different, the relationship between them will become complicated. Because people have feelings, once two people get along for a long time, it is inevitable that they will have feelings for each other, let alone between the two opposite sexes. Maintaining a pure heterosexual relationship requires two people to stick to each other, respect each other and supervise each other, but the distance between the opposite sex is really difficult to control. It is easy to evolve into a situation where one party treats the other as a relative and the other party treats the other as a lover.

Such examples have long been commonplace in life. So if you want to keep a pure friendship, don't talk about something with each other easily. No matter how good the heterosexual relationship is, if these three words are too many, the relationship will be difficult to be simple. When it comes to personal secrets, secrets can't be said casually. Generally speaking, what we can call secrets are mostly painful memories, so we are used to burying them in our hearts and never mentioning them to others easily. The person who can make you speak on your own initiative must be the person you trust most. When you are sad, wronged and helpless, the first thing that comes to mind is him. Because you know he will keep your secret.

Calm your emotions. Just tell some secrets. But this kind of trust and concern has long gone beyond the boundaries of friends. Relationships are hard to be simple if you talk too much about privacy. Tell some ambiguous jokes. As the saying goes, some jokes among friends should not be told. Especially for friends of the opposite sex, just make a joke and the other person will probably take it seriously. As the saying goes: the speaker has no intention, but the listener has a heart. Maybe you just joked: You are so kind to me, do you like me? Or: Why doesn't anyone like you? Why don't we make do with it? But the other person will doubt in their hearts whether these words are your hints.

Suggest that you like her, and they are very familiar, and their relationship is easy to deteriorate. Once you say too many ambiguous jokes, the relationship between the two will become ambiguous. In the case of nicknames, generally speaking, only lovers will use some nicknames to express their love for each other. Therefore, couples often use: dear, address each other, and intimacy is also the most direct way to express their love. But for friends of the opposite sex, if you want to keep pure friendship, the word dear is definitely not desirable. Even if your relationship has already gone beyond the level of ordinary friends, no matter how close your relationship is.

Don't call it that until your relationship is established. Once the intimate relationship is called too much, it is easy for people to remember, and the relationship is no longer simple. Although most relationships between lovers begin with friends. But once we can't be together, even friends may not be able to continue to do it. If two people really like each other, they should poke the window paper early; If you want a long-term friendship, you should control your distance. Don't talk about your privacy with each other, tell them some ambiguous jokes, and don't give them nicknames. No matter how good the heterosexual relationship is, once these three words are said too much, the relationship will not be simple.