The mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law born in the 1980s watch a PK on parenting

Who will take care of the children: Let the elderly take care of themselves vs.

My mother-in-law thinks: Mommy should go out to work when she is young. What is the future of being a stay-at-home mother with children? Taking care of children is a trivial matter, and even the elderly can handle it well: Didn’t I just give birth to three babies and raise them all as strong little elves? We have more experience raising children than you young people do. Therefore, it is best for the children to be taken care of by their grandparents.

Moms born in the 1980s: Although the elderly can take care of their children, they do not have much scientific knowledge and even have bad habits. For example, it is unhygienic to put chewed food into a child's mouth! Children today are not as easy to raise as they used to be. Moreover, parents are with their children wholeheartedly, so it is good for their children's growth to let their children truly feel maternal love from an early age. Therefore, if conditions permit, it is best to bring the children by yourself!

How to raise children: Raising children as "pig" vs. raising science as "book"?

My mother-in-law believes that if you want to raise a child, you should raise him as a "little pig". Baby, just eat, sleep and play. He will grow up when it's time to grow up. No big deal.

Mommy born in the 1980s: This is not okay. We should follow scientific parenting methods. It is important to learn some parenting knowledge from books, at what stage and in what way. Some important periods of growth and education can easily be overlooked if you don't pay attention.

Choose a school based on academic qualifications: Let nature take its course vs pursue a prestigious school?

My mother-in-law thought: Why do children have to sharpen their brains to enter a prestigious school when they go to elementary school? If you don’t pay 50,000 to 60,000 yuan in sponsorship fees, what can you do if you get into a prestigious school? The key is that children are willing to learn and love to learn.

Moms born in the 1980s: Children’s primary school years should not be underestimated. Children are still young and have poor judgment skills. A good school, good teachers and a good study style are very important. It is recommended to find a school that is better in all aspects. Money is not an issue, the important thing is to pave the way for the children's future growth.

Vaccination: Only treating patients when they are sick vs. vaccinating?

The mother-in-law thinks: People are iron rice bowls or steel. As long as the children eat well and sleep well, what's wrong with that? Get vaccinated, the child was stung, it hurts! Why are there so many apartments in rural areas? No, injection. Isn’t your husband also a lively boy? This is only the right thing to do when you are sick. Why do I always have to vaccinate my precious grandson?

Mommy born in the 1980s: It’s very different now than before. How serious is environmental pollution? A terrible flu broke out from time to time. What can you do if you don’t take precautions? But this disease is not easy to deal with. Once you get sick, your whole family will suffer, not to mention expensive medical bills. Vaccination is a scientific approach. Prevention is more important than treatment. Early vaccination, early prevention, early benefit. In order to keep children healthy and prevent problems before they occur, we must pay attention to vaccination.

It is said that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not easy. It looks like the little treasure in the palm of your hand could also be the source of the problem. If the child is still being raised, the PK between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will not stop! But according to the thinking of the younger generation, it is more preferable to adopt a scientific and rational view of parenting. The young daughter-in-law and the older mother-in-law are always competing and moving forward step by step.