Mother-in-law slapped her daughter's marriage because her son-in-law didn't kneel down to offer tea, which became the laughing stock of the whole city. What should I do?

Personality is really important for being a man, and between people, your words and deeds can really reveal a person's cultivation quality. Moreover, the cultivation quality between people is also different.

When you get along with your family, you should pay more attention to your attitude and learn to respect others. What is the most important thing in marriage?

It's not money, it's not an RV. In my opinion, marriage is a kind of respect and attitude of both husband and wife and men and women. For those who think they are superior and want to step on each other, let's give up this marriage as soon as possible.

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Xiao Song is a rural man with a relatively average family economy, but his parents have never relaxed his education. Through his own efforts, he was finally admitted to a famous university in China. After graduation, he successfully found a job and left his footprints in this city.

Xiao Song's promise also pleased his parents. He is not only excellent in academic work, but also conspicuous in appearance. One-meter-eight tall man with handsome facial features, before long, Wei from the same company took a fancy to him and pursued him.

Wei is a typical city girl with superior family conditions and outstanding beauty, so Xiao Song didn't dare to accept it at first and always refused Wei's invitation.

But in the end, Xiao Song was moved by Wei's insistence, and the two finally came together. Of course, when it was first made public, Wei's parents did not accept it at all, especially Wei's mother, who strongly opposed it.

However, Wei has been willful, hunger strike and crying, and finally made his parents nod. But before marriage, Wei's mother also put forward various harsh conditions.

For example, after marriage, let the young couple live in the house that Wei's parents bought in the city, but they are not allowed to take Xiao Song's parents to live in the city in the future, and they have to prepare a bride price of 200,000 yuan. These, Xiao Song and his parents nodded in agreement.

But at the wedding, her mother-in-law once again embarrassed Xiao Song! Someone asked about the man's family at the wedding, so I wanted to say sternly that this son-in-law is a poor boy and her family bought the house, which is like hitting a wall! This just let Song hear, he was simply ashamed!

When offering tea, her mother-in-law insisted that Xiao Song kneel down and said that he had climbed his daughter and had to promise not to hit her again! The bear naturally disagreed. During the stalemate, her mother-in-law slapped Yi Song.

What makes Xiao Song chilling is that Wei did not say a word all the time, which is obviously recognized. Finally, Xiao Song told her mother-in-law that I can't afford to marry your daughter! A good wedding turned into a joke!

Look down on people, be cynical, don't know how to respect others, and ultimately hurt others and yourself!

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Xiaoli is also a girl from the countryside. After graduating from college, she worked hard in the city alone. Fortunately, her work has been very smooth, and then she met her current husband.

Xiaoli and her husband have always had a good relationship, and the conditions at home are also good. The wedding room is ready and the workmanship is better than Xiaoli's. But what Xiaoli can't accept all the time is that her husband's parents always look down on Xiaoli, always say that there are many problems in rural areas, and that Xiaoli will have less contact with her family in rural areas after marriage.

In fact, as early as Xiaoli's first visit to her husband's family, her parents made it clear that their ideal daughter-in-law was by no means rural! At that time, Xiaoli was fighting back and broke up with her husband when she went back.

But her husband refused, and finally didn't know how to convince her parents. Xiaoli and her husband came together and began to talk about marriage.

When discussing marriage, Xiaoli's mother-in-law has always taken a condescending attitude. All kinds of performances are that Xiaoli can marry her son, and her ancestors are burning incense! For the sake of her husband, Xiaoli endured it one by one.

But on the wedding day, when offering tea to her in-laws, her mother-in-law insisted that Xiaoli kneel down and said it was a custom, but the problem was that Xiaoli had never heard of this custom.

This time, Xiaoli didn't intend to endure it. Xiaoli's husband also stood on Xiaoli's side and told her mother-in-law to stop making trouble. Seeing Xiaoli's tough attitude, the people attending the wedding also talked about it, and finally the wedding was carried out.

Afterwards, her mother-in-law blamed Xiaoli for losing face at the wedding. Xiaoli told her mother-in-law that respect is mutual. Since mother-in-law doesn't want to respect her, there is no need to respect her!

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When people communicate with each other, they really need to keep a peaceful mind. If you want others to respect you, you should know how to respect others, and don't always feel superior.

You know, there is no difference between people. Parents should not always look at people with subjective consciousness.

Now that your children have made a choice and you have agreed, you should really support them and learn to respect their other half!