Why do more and more young people choose to be unmarried and infertile?

Unmarried infertility will become the mainstream trend.

Remember when I was a child, how many adults around me were unmarried and dragged several children? Even if there are a few old bachelors in each village, they will be sympathized by the people around them all their lives. No marriage, no children, in those days, few people dared to try, and if they tried, they would have to bear half a lifetime of gossip and even white eyes.

Now that people are in middle age, several people choose not to get married and have children.

As far as the whole society is concerned, the marriage rate and birth rate alone are at a new low. For example, 20 19, 1, there are only 9.47 million couples registered to get married in China, and the number of singles has exceeded 260 million.

I think there are three main reasons:

1, getting married and having children is too expensive.

In the concept of China people, most people think that marriage requires buying a house, the man gives a bride price or a down payment, and the woman gives a dowry and so on. However, the price of buying a house alone remains high. For ordinary families, the six wallets of three families have been hollowed out, and the mortgage will occupy the wallet in the next twenty or thirty years.

Not to mention the cost of money and energy for giving birth and raising children.

2, people's ideas are changing, and they are unwilling to settle for marriage.

More and more people realize that unhappy marriage is more terrible than being single, so if they don't meet another suitable or interested person, they would rather be alone than make do with it.

For many people, marriage is no longer a necessity, but a choice.

3, the responsibility of getting married and having children is too great, and marriage is far from being as beautiful as expected. On the one hand, marriage means the union of two or three families.

Secular, marriage, responsibilities and obligations of bearing children, etc.

Overweight, some people think they are not enough to take on their responsibilities:

On the other hand, married life is too trivial. Many people regard marriage as the grave of love, and their happiness is far below expectations.

In short, there are reasons to get married, and there are reasons to say no if you don't get married. I think, each of us, in the face of marriage and non-marriage, life and non-life, respect other people's choices, but make more comments, and no one should laugh at anyone. That's good!