Have you ever experienced being treated badly as a child?

1. My biological grandmother and aunt gave me away. My uncle was coming back, and my armpits were rotten when my grandma gave me a bath.

When I was 2 or 3 years old, I saw the rice dumplings being made and wanted to eat a red date during the Dragon Boat Festival. My grandma asked me to get some pliers. When I brought them back, she told me which tooth was greedy and I pulled it out with the pliers so I didn’t want to eat it. .

3. The old aunts at the pork shop at the door know that I am a single parent, and they ask me every time they see me, where is your father?

I also encountered gangsters four times. One of the times he attacked me.

Anyway, there are a lot of such things. But I still love my mom and my family. Except of course "that one".

It’s a miracle that I’m alive today!

My father’s lifelong regret is that he gave birth to three “losers” and none of them took charge. My arrival was also a "target" due to the unfortunate death of my eldest sister. After all, we had two girls. At that time, the village no longer allowed rebirth. As a last resort, my mother had a sterilization. My father's last hope had been shattered, and I became his sigh. A punching bag, even my miserable life is worse than a cat.

I originally heard people say that I was not supposed to be born into this world. At that time, all the mothers-in-law in the village went to midwives from nearby villages to give birth to their babies, and very few of them went to the hospital. As soon as I landed on the ground, my grandma, that tall and thick woman with bound feet, saw that I was just a girl again. In order to give her son another chance to renew his incest, she covered my little head with a small quilt. At this time, I had just washed The midwife with clean hands came back. When she saw this scene, she grabbed my kicking feet and dragged me out from under the quilt that my grandma was holding tightly. She shouted, "His aunt, what are you doing?" What are you doing? It’s your life, God gave it to you, so don’t do any evil!” After that, my grandma didn’t say anything more, sighed, shook her hands, and left. Later, the midwife went home and told her family that I was like this since I was born and was destined to have a hard life.

My father has been domineering internally and domineering externally. He will ridicule and ridicule those who are not as good as him, and he will hide as far away as possible when encountering a tough opponent. The four sons of my neighbor across the wall asked my father to give them three meters of my confirmed homestead free of charge because the children were too old to live together. Their attitude was very bad. What a humiliation. My father actually agreed and greeted him with a smile. The family asked us to demolish the attached house of my house within a day to make way for them. I was lighting a fire at home when I heard it, and the flames of anger rose. When my father returned to the house, he and I He said, "My family's homestead is reasonable and legal. The part of my family's homestead written on the homestead certificate is clear and clear. Why do we have to give it up if he wants us to? Why doesn't he ask his neighbor to the west to give it up? Something happened. , there is a government, and there are many things that can be argued with, why did you agree to this shameful thing?”

My father, who had been smiling outside just now, turned red in the face like a purple liver in an instant. "If I didn't have a boy, would they bully me? I'm a tough guy, what can you two worthless losers do?" I also got angry. "We just don't want to. After a while, I'll look for him. Go and say, what's going on, in the clear sky, do you still dare to rob me? What's wrong with the girl? What do you mean? Not to mention there are two girls, there is not even one. It's such a humiliating thing, even if there is one in our family, No way!" As I said that, I stood up under the kitchen hall and wanted to find a theory with that family. My father, who was submissive outside, saw me going out and wanted to "cause trouble" for him, and he immediately kicked me out. , picked up the burning fire stick from the kitchen and swung it towards my head. The stick rubbed my scalp and burned my hair. My mother ran over and put out the flames on my head. My heart was really full at that moment. It turned gray.

I was very angry and no one in the family had anything to eat. My father helped the whole family demolish the house. My neighbor stood in the yard and watched us moving the purlins as if it were a joke. I just With messy hair and lumber carried like that, I wanted to die from exhaustion in an instant. At this time, the shameless father greeted the neighbors loudly and smiled heartily, as if it was a great joy. That feeling of humiliation is not as satisfying as evaporating on the spot. That morning, everything has become the deepest memory in my heart. I can’t forget it no matter how hard I try, I often dream about it in the middle of the night. groaned.

The next day, I used scissors to trim my hair. Although it looked like a dog gnawing it, it was better than having a burnt hole on my head. That day, I cooked food for the whole family. , I didn’t eat a bite, and when I saw them finish eating, I breathed a sigh of relief, secretly took my own set of clothes and one hundred and sixteen and two yuan at noon, and stepped into the long-distance bus to work...

Now I have a family and a daughter. We both love our daughter very much. My daughter often asks me, "Which one is better, a boy or a girl?" I answer seriously, "Which is better, my daughter. My mother has loved her daughter since she was a child. Oh my God." "Be nice to me and give me an angel." These words really come from the bottom of my heart. I don't believe it's hard to have low self-esteem if you have a daughter. Do you live your life for yourself or for others? No one can save the weakness in your bones. Even if you are given eighty sons, you will still have three meals a day, daily necessities, and daily necessities.

When I was a child, my parents were on business trips and sent me to my grandmother’s house for a week. My mother secretly gave her 15 yuan. My fourth aunt forced me to sleep against the wall. My grandmother wouldn’t let me pee in the “spittoon” at night. They said I peeed too much at one time. After I peed, no one else could pee, so I had to go to the public restroom (across the road). The next day, I was asked to empty the "spittoon." Snacks (candies, melon seeds) were placed out of my reach; when I was eating, I couldn't get good food, and even the fat meat they didn't like was put in my bowl, and they praised me for being so good and good at eating. I developed the habit of eating fat meat now [cover face][cover face]

I remember that I was around 1965 when I was in school. I was so confused. How could I graduate from junior high school at the age of 18? After being admitted to high school, the living conditions at that time were too poor and he had no chance to go to school. From then on, he entered the front line of agricultural production.

My parents favored sons over daughters. We bought more than ten apricots at home, and my brother and brother shared them. I also took one, and my father snatched it away and gave it to my brother. Mom looked at this scene with a proud smile. My younger brother didn't like studying, so my mother went to school seven times in a row to take him to school. I was admitted to a key high school with the first score in the township, and my father was furious. After cursing at home for three days in a row, my grandfather walked more than ten miles to give me the tuition fee and persuaded my mother to let me go to school. He told her that girls would know how to honor their parents now that they are capable. Be it junior high school or high school, let’s not mention the feeling of starvation. After studying hard for three years, I only dared to apply for the Normal University, because the Normal University had no tuition fees and also provided living expenses.

After working, I helped my family build a house, and I took half of the bride price from my brother and sister. I cover all my parents’ pocket money for clothes. I go to my parents' house and bring my own vegetables and meat, so that my parents are happy to let me have a meal. My parents were still not satisfied, "I regret letting you go to school because you didn't come to wash our clothes." "If I don't let you go to school, someone will take care of the house." In the end we had a quarrel and I asked them to figure out what I still owe them in this life. They said that you will never be able to repay the kindness of giving birth to you and raising you.

When I was young, any elder who had seen me would not be able to help but sigh that I looked so much like my little aunt who died very young. My grandma even thought that I was her little aunt at one time. Reincarnation, continue to come here to renew the relationship.

Therefore, my grandma was very kind to me, probably because my sister-in-law’s death was caused by human factors. But even so, it had a great impact on my life, and I almost died too.

When I grew up, I asked my father again and again, and found out that my aunt had drowned in the water that day. My grandma was probably feeling unwell that day, and my 6-year-old aunt kept pestering her. Feeling helpless, I shouted to my sister-in-law to go out and play by herself for a while.

In rural families in the past, it was normal for a 6-year-old child to go out to play with his friends, but grandma never expected that calling her sister-in-law out to play would turn out to be one of the most important things for their mother and daughter. The last farewell was given to my sister-in-law, who didn’t come back until dark. That night, grandma and grandpa shouted throughout the whole village.

Early the next morning, someone saw my little aunt’s body floating in the pit behind the village. She was no longer breathing. Grandma fainted several times and blamed herself very much. If grandma hadn’t Get my sister-in-law out, or nothing will happen to her.

Until after I was born, as I grew older, I looked very similar to that sister-in-law. Even the mole on the left side of my face was exactly the same. Grandma always thought that I It was my sister-in-law who was reincarnated, so among these grandsons and granddaughters, grandma loves me the most.

However, it was such unfair treatment that caused several of my cousins ??to be very jealous of me. None of them liked to play with me, and they all took advantage of my grandma not paying attention. Pinch me is a common thing.

One time during the busy farming season, all the adults were working in the fields, and we children were naturally at home. Then several cousins ??decided to put me in the water and drown me.

Then they began to fill a large abandoned water tank with water. Unfortunately, a cousin heard all this plan, so the cousin quickly ran to the field to report the news. Grandma was on the spot when she heard it. I passed out, and then my father rushed home at the speed of a 100-meter race. When my father came back, I had already been pushed down into the water by my cousin.

That night, the three cousins ??were beaten by their eldest aunt so much that they cried like ghosts and howled like wolves. The cries resounded throughout the village. Unfortunately, I was ignorant at the time and quickly forgot about this incident, and then I still I like to follow my cousins, even though they still dislike me so much.

Many years have passed and I have no memory at all. Every time the old people mentioned this matter, the three cousins ??would smile awkwardly. It was mainly because they were too childish back then. .

When I was 16 years old, my grandma fell ill and passed away. When she was dying, she kept holding my hand and saying sorry. I think she regarded me as my sister-in-law.

1. My parents divorced when I was four years old, and neither side wanted me. I remember very clearly that they were already separated at that time, one sent me there, and the other sent me here. Both parties dislike me and are afraid that I will drag them down.

2. Later, the court sentenced me to my father, but my father had a beautiful girlfriend. In order to live a life of two with his girlfriend, he sent me to the house of my relative and aunt in the countryside. At that time, I was four years old. When I was more than 10 years old, my uncle stipulated that I go outside to pick up cow dung every day. I had to pick up a certain amount before I could eat. He had to check it when I came back every day. Then when it was dark, he asked me to go to the town to pick him up and take him home. He was doing business in the town. I still can’t figure out why he, an adult, would ask me, a child over four years old, to pick him up no matter if it’s windy, rainy, snowy or freezing. But my aunt's family has a daughter as old as me and a son one year younger than me, but she doesn't have to do anything. After picking up my uncle, if it was spring or summer, I would have to follow him outside to catch eels in the rice fields with a big bucket half as tall as me. As a child over four years old, from waking up to going to bed, I do work that even an adult can't finish. But my father, a policeman, lives his fairy life with his beautiful girlfriend.

3. I remember one night, not long after I fell asleep, my aunt came in with an unknown woman, took off my quilt and said: Look at his skin, he looks like a dead person. Same. At that time, I was so frightened that I huddled up in a ball and pretended to sleep, not even daring to breathe louder.

There are so many things that if I had to write them out one by one, I don’t know how long it would take. A lot of things happened later, and I think it’s a miracle that I’m still alive today.

When I was a child, my parents were very busy at work and often couldn’t take care of me. In order to train my self-care ability and courage, my mother sent me, who was less than 5 years old at the time, to work as a kindergarten teacher in the next town. I go to school at home with my aunt.

I was so scared, but every time my mother sent me to my aunt’s house, she would leave without saying goodbye. I have never left my mother since I was born, and I was lied to by my mother every time. My mother told me She wants to go to the bathroom or lie to me and tell me to go out and buy me something delicious. Or she would run away while I was in the bathroom. Every time, my aunt would lock the door of her house. Every time she would estimate the time, which meant that her mother was almost halfway there and she could no longer be seen on the road, so her aunt would open the door.

I looked towards the direction of my home, the endless highway as far as the eye can see, with deep longing for my home. I secretly shed tears because I couldn’t even relax my emotions when I was with my aunt. No, there is only deep fear in my heart.

My aunt asked me to take me out for a walk. I found several playmates of about the same age near my aunt’s house. I was very happy, but at the same time I also felt that I was different from them. They played with each other. When he is tired, he will go back to his home, to his parents. And I can only silently miss home and my mother in my heart.

There was no phone at that time, so I could only wait and hope that my mother would pick me up and take me home.

My aunt’s family has two teenage brothers. The eldest brother always looks serious when he comes home every day. He doesn’t like me very much. He says he hates children the most. Children are troublesome and have many things to do. He will do his homework and study in the house every day after school. midnight. I have always been very quiet and dared not make any noise, but my eldest brother always told my aunt to let me go, saying that I was affecting his study. I shudder every time I see my eldest brother. I am especially afraid of being alone with him.

My second brother has a very lively and cheerful personality. He often takes me out to play. Every time a child bullies me, he will rush to protect me and even say that I am his sister.

With my second brother by my side, I gradually adapted to life at my aunt’s house. After several months, my beloved mother did not come to see me. I thought about my mother so much that I couldn't help but cry.

The eldest brother who finished school first saw me crying with snot and tears. He changed his usual indifference. He held my hand and said he would take me home to find my mother. Although I didn’t like it. Brother, but I wanted to go home so much. When I passed by the canteen, my brother bought me a lollipop. I didn't want to eat it. I put it in my pocket, thinking that I would take it home to my mother. She would be very happy.

On the way, I suddenly felt a stomachache, maybe because I wanted to go to the toilet. My elder brother said that he would wait for me somewhere farther away, but I squatted for a long time. Either I wanted to go to the toilet, or it was just a simple stomachache. I called my elder brother. There was no reply after several calls, so I hurried out, but I walked a long way and still couldn't find my elder brother. I thought why these places all looked the same. It was getting darker and my stomach hurt more. I walked, stopped and squatted for a while to feel less uncomfortable. I got up and walked again, and finally saw the lights on. In the village, I knocked on the door of a house. A kind-hearted aunt opened the door and asked me what my name was. What's wrong? I said I had a stomachache, and my name is ***. My aunt didn’t waste any time. She went home, took the money, and took me to the hospital. When she was diagnosed, it was appendicitis, and the doctor said I had met a great person.

I was so hurt and tired that I went into confusion. When I woke up again, I saw the mother I wanted to see the most. I couldn’t control my emotions anymore. I burst into tears. It turned out that this aunt was my mother. The people in my natal village knew my name (no one had the same name from all over the country). She had seen me when I was a child, but she didn't expect that I was so old.

Afterwards, my eldest brother said that he took me out to play, and I ran away and got lost. I don’t know if my eldest brother left me alone on purpose, but this memory is very important to me. It's really terrible.

After I got home, I told my mother that I was obedient and that I would never leave home again. My mother also tried to trick me into playing at my aunt's house, but I refused cautiously. Although my parents were very busy, I could see them every night before going to bed, and I was the happiest person in the world. The world of children is so simple and beautiful.

The story of a child who is only six years old this year:

When he was born, his mother didn’t have enough milk, so he was fed banana water by his own grandmother who thought she was a good doctor. Her grandmother was very strong. , I thought I was a famous doctor after reading two books, disobeyed the management of doctors and nurses, and quarreled with the doctor and nurse director!

The child was not placed in the stroller but placed at the head of the mother's hospital bed. He almost fell off several times. When I put it in the stroller, I almost suffocated it with a lot of winter clothes for adults. This isn't over yet.

After returning home, the mother of the child was beaten by her grandmother for crying. The grandmother yelled that she would throw the child to death! The child's mother endured the pain and got up from the bed to confront the grandmother. The child's grandmother was so frightened that she ran away all night. From then on, the child's grandmother never said anything about her beating. She said everywhere that she went to wait for the confinement and let the child's mother beat her. She ran away, but anyone with a brain can judge everything. How could a mother beat her three days after giving birth and the wound had not yet healed?

Later, the child’s mother and father divorced and raised the child alone. No one asked them how they were doing, and most of them were scolded and spread rumors by the child’s grandmother, grandparents and aunts. The couple has been able to survive until now, thanks to the help of neighbors and friends. They all say that the public’s eyes are sharp, and there is no use in spreading rumors. Is there anyone who can prove it?

I thought I could live like this, but the child’s grandparents, aunts, and father came up with a good idea. They bribed an appraisal agency to apply for a severe disability certificate for the child, and he received disability insurance and a subsistence allowance subsidy. ! The disability pension is 150 yuan for a family, and the minimum living allowance is about 10,000 yuan a year. Do you think this is the end? I don’t know why, but I try every means to interfere with the normal enrollment of the child. If the child does not go to a special education school, the child is delayed because of the interference. After normal information collection, public schools were unable to study, and there were no seats in private schools. The mother of the child spent a lot of effort and contacted many people, and finally found a school that did not have full seats. Fortunately, the child managed to live up to his expectations and passed the interview!

At this time, the child's father jumped out again. Because the child's mother had previously consulted the child's father about the child's schooling and asked him for help. Not only did his father refuse to answer the phone, he falsely accused the child's mother of harassing him in his normal life!

After the divorce, the child’s mother never received a penny of support from the child’s father, and the child’s father never asked how the child was doing. Before, the child’s mother did not understand. How can a child who is fluent in English, has perfect scores in Go, and perfect scores in Sudoku competition not get the care of his grandparents and father? Later I understood that admitting a child is excellent means that the child is normal. If the child is normal, how can he receive subsidies? Is this the end? Not yet [tears][tears][tears]

The child’s father went to teach in Cele, Xinjiang for some reasons. It’s ridiculous to say that a family of teachers has problems with his own son going to school. What a great irony! After the child's father went to Xinjiang, he married a Uyghur widow who took care of her child. Is it not difficult to understand why the child's father did this? The birthdays of the child's father and the child are two days apart. The child's birthday is seventeenth and the child's father is nineteen. But he has never celebrated his child's birthday, not even a text message! But he regards his current daughter as his own, love the house and the bird!

I don’t know whether the child’s father was instigated by his current employer or changed his gender after moving to Xinjiang. He violated the agreement. Not only did he not pay child support, he also fought for real estate with the child’s mother and wanted the child to move away from the place where he grew up. Home! For this purpose, the child's mother's information was put on a pornographic website and named Sora Aoi, which seriously affected the child's mother's work! He also instigated the child's grandparents and aunt to get into group fights in the name of taking care of the child. The child's mother also fought hard for the child. She made a phone call to complain to the disciplinary inspection committee and also called the police. In the end, he failed!

Some time later, the child’s father didn’t know what his psychology was. Perhaps it was the instigation of his current wife. He fabricated information on social media such as Moments and maliciously slandered the child’s mother!

Why? The mother of the child just wants to raise the child quietly alone, but the child's grandparents and father say that she is a piece of shit that no one wants?

Why? The child's grandparents, aunt, and father never see the child, but they say that the child's mother refuses to see the child, refuses to visit, confuses right and wrong, and refers to a deer as a horse?

Why? The child is so young, what should he endure?

Don’t be afraid, child, your mother will resist everything for you!

Don’t worry, kid! When Hu Tian gives a great responsibility to this person, he must first work hard on his mind, strain his muscles and bones, and mess up his actions. This is not hardship, this is God testing you. If you pass the exam, your life will be smooth!

When I was about 12 years old, I left my parents and went back to my hometown to live with my grandma for a year and a half. This has become an unforgettable memory for me. I was just in puberty at that time, and when my gender was confirmed, my grandma insisted that I was a boy, and that I turned into a girl because of the misplacement of the child. So he kept nagging him every day, and even asked someone in the village to identify him. I felt extremely humiliated and even had thoughts of death.

Is this vicious treatment? In fact, my grandma favors boys over girls and cannot accept the fact that I am a girl. Because gender is not recognized, whatever you do is wrong and you will be blamed and criticized. When I carry a dung basket to pick up dung in winter, I really can't pick it up. I can't walk a long way. I can't let go like a real boy. Later, when I fed shredded radish to the sheep every day, strips of meat were wiped off the side of my thumb, which was often bloody, and there are still scars. Desperately trying to prove that she is a girl, she started cutting and making clothes, doing embroidery, and couture at the age of 13. Later she became a very clever woman. Decades later, I also understand grandma. She wished so badly that I was a boy.