A 12-year-old boy in Shaanxi picked up a baby girl and dropped out of school to make money to raise her. The girl died of cancer after going to college.

"Brother and sister-in-law, I hope I can be your sister in the next life. I just want to take care of you and repay you." Tears soaked the white pillowcase in the hospital.

This girl, who was picked up 24 years ago, was tortured by cancer, and amidst the cries and pain of her brother and sister-in-law, full of regret and reluctance, she closed her eyes forever...

"My brother and sister-in-law will save you even if they go bankrupt"

The word "gastric cancer" on a medical certificate broke the family's peaceful and ordinary life.

Back in early 2018, the girl Chen Jinyu suffered from vomiting, diarrhea and inability to eat for several days.

At first, the brother and sister-in-law thought that she just had a bad stomach and caught a cold. They cooked at home and kept the girl clean and dressed warmly to keep out the cold. They went to the clinic to prescribe medicine, but the condition never improved.

Chen Jinyu's face became paler and his body became thinner. At this time, a vague worry and fear began to spread at home, but they comforted each other that they should be fine.

So, the brother and sister-in-law took their sister to seek medical treatment everywhere, and visited many hospitals to find the cause of the disease.

The first hospital said that the physical examination results showed that it should be cancer, but they were unwilling to believe this fact like a bolt from the blue.

I changed hospitals again, but after running from one hospital to another, I got the same diagnosis - gastric cancer: multiple swollen lymph nodes around the pancreatic head, lymphoma compressing the bile duct, and increased jaundice.

In those days, facing the cruel cancer diagnosis, sister-in-law He Jingjing felt a black hole in front of her eyes, a loud rumbling sound echoed in her head, and her feet became weak.

"Why is fate so unfair and treats such a poor baby?"

In July 2018, the girl Chen Jinyu could have graduated from college happily. However, fate made such a painful joke on her. After all, she could not wait until the day she put on her graduation uniform. .

He Jingjing wished she was the one who got sick. She wished she could bear the pain for her sister-in-law.

Looking at Chen Jinyu who was tortured by the disease, she and her husband were heartbroken, but they were helpless and shed tears all day long.

After calming down, He Jingjing held back her sadness and tears. They needed to be stronger in front of their sister. They needed to comfort Chen Jinyu and cheer her up.

They said to Chen Jinyu with forced smiles: "Don't worry, it will get better. Even if your brother and sister-in-law are bankrupt, they will save you," encouraging her to be strong and brave.

Their companionship and encouragement were also the courage and strength that gave Chen Jinyu the courage to persevere. "I must live", this is Chen Jinyu's promise to his brother and sister-in-law.

In order to take care of Chen Jinyu, He Jingjing quit her job and took turns taking care of her younger sister Chen Jinyu with her husband. They cleaned her body, fed her and took good care of her.

He Jingjing was taken care of by He Jingjing during the day, while her husband Chen Bangding worked in the coal mine; at night, in order to support the family, He Jingjing embroidered and mended for others at night, and had to take care of her son, while her husband accompanied Chen Jinyu in the hospital.

With such careful care day after day, even other family members in the ward were very moved and praised them full of praise.

But at the same time, He Jingjing and his wife had to raise money to cope with the high cost of treatment.

They spent all their family savings, and He Jingjing also borrowed more than 40,000 yuan from her parents' family.

But the total ***’s money is just a drop in the bucket in front of the sky-high medical expenses. The cost of various examinations, as well as the cost of chemotherapy and medicine, the combined burden makes this person who is not rich. The family is even worse.

However, unfortunately, Chen Jinyu's condition continued to deteriorate, he developed postoperative infection, and was transferred to the intensive care unit.

At the time of despair, Chen Jinyu’s school, Xi’an International Studies University, mobilized all teachers and students to make donations, and their deeds were reported by many local media in Shaanxi. The Sanqin Metropolis Daily also conducted a five-day report on this special report.

The kindness of the brother and sister-in-law and the girl’s tenacity moved many people. In just a few days, nearly 300,000 yuan for treatment expenses was raised through the Internet, and among them, 13,620 caring people provided kind aid. and convergence.

Teachers and students of the school, various media and caring people are praying for the girl. He Jingjing and his wife also believe that the sister will be able to survive the difficulties and will get better.

But the disease is ruthless. Even though people helped Chen Jinyu fight with countless friendships and warmth, there was still nothing they could do.

On April 27, 2018, this life stayed forever. Chen Jinyu unfortunately passed away due to acute shock when rescue efforts failed. His life and smile stayed at the age of 24 forever.

The life course of a strong young girl makes people regretful, but for her brother and sister-in-law who regard her as their own, they feel endless pain and reluctance.

Shortly after Chen Jinyu's death, she fell ill for more than a week due to long-term hard work and depression.

Nowadays, every time they see Chen Jinyu’s posthumous photos, He Jingjing and his wife burst into tears, with longing and nostalgia welling up in their hearts.

"You are our child"

Actually, Chen Jinyu and his brother-in-law are not related by blood.

Chen Jinyu was abandoned by his biological parents when he was a child, and was picked up by his current brother Chen Bangding when he was 12 years old.

In fact, Chen Bangding’s family was also in great difficulty at that time, and it was almost impossible to open the pot.

Mother Chen has been mute since she was born, and father Chen is not much better. Due to his disabled legs, he is unable to do heavy work, and the family lives on subsistence allowances.

So, facing the coming life again, there is an extra burden.

But under Chen Bangding's plea: "Mom, don't give up on this poor child. I will eat less in the future so that I can share some with her." The kind-hearted Chen parents finally agreed. Chen Jinyu stayed.

When I first brought Chen Jinyu back, I was not able to feed him milk powder, so I could only feed him rice paste water and brown sugar water.

But this family tried their best to give Chen Jinyu the best. At that time, Chen Bangding dropped out of school to work in the coal mine just to earn milk powder money for his sister. No matter how hard and tired he was, it was all for his sister, even if this sister had no blood relationship.

When Chen Jinyu was 8 years old, his sister-in-law He Jingjing married in.

She treats Chen Jinyu as her own child, takes careful care of her, and provides tutoring and study. In addition, she is also filial, respectful and considerate to her disabled parents-in-law.

The family lives in poverty but is harmonious and beautiful. But the good times did not last long. One year later, my mother-in-law died in a car accident, and my father-in-law also died of illness shortly after.

The burden of raising their son and 9-year-old sister-in-law has been placed on He Jingjing and Chen Bangding, but they shoulder this responsibility without regrets.

And it started well and ended well, and the resistance lasted for 24 years. This is the persistence day after day and the flow of goodwill.

He Jingjing is both the sister-in-law and the "mother". She takes care of the family's daily life, and she also takes meticulous motherly care of her sister-in-law Chen Jinyu.

I went to the town to buy new clothes for my sister-in-law, prepared living expenses for my sister-in-law, tutored her in her studies, cooked meals for her in different ways every day, and taught her how to behave.

The loving, sensible, diligent and kind character all infected Chen Jinyu and passed it on to Chen Jinyu.

Under the education and care of her brother and sister-in-law, Chen Jinyu grew up into a generous, grateful, diligent and tenacious girl.

She has excellent academic performance and has won many scholarships. She enjoys helping others and has participated in many volunteer activities to help others.

Chen Jinyu is also very ambitious. She worked hard and was admitted to the key high school in the county with excellent results in 2011. In 2014, she was admitted to the English major of the School of Education of Xi'an International Studies University, which made the whole family very happy. .

He Jingjing and his wife would proudly say to everyone they met that they were able to support their younger sister to go to college in a big city, and that her younger sister was able to make it out of the mountains.

Chen Jinyu often says: "I have a good sister-in-law, just like my mother."

She likes to sleep in the same bed with her sister-in-law. She likes her sister-in-law to wash her hair because it is her mother's arms, her hands and her tenderness.

He Jingjing combs her sister-in-law's hair, washes clothes, cooks, calms her emotions, and helps her with homework.

In fact, He Jingjing has already regarded her sister-in-law as her own child.

Chen Jinyu repeatedly persuaded her brother-in-law and sister-in-law to have another child to keep their nephew company, but He Jingjing and his wife said: "It is enough for us to have you and your nephew, you are our child."

"You are our child!" The promise behind this sentence has always been fulfilled by He Jingjing and his wife.

Even though the family is under great financial pressure and conditions are not good, they provide her with food, clothing and clothing, and insist on her studying. "It is their biggest wish to let my sister-in-law go out of the mountains and see the outside world."

Even when she was admitted to college, Chen Jinyu was worried about her family's financial difficulties. Her nephew would have to spend money to go to school. The tuition and living expenses for four years of college were too heavy, so he had various concerns and thoughts of dropping out.

He Jingjing gave up the idea of ??sister-in-law and said, "Don't think so much, study hard. Wherever you study, your brother and sister-in-law will provide for you."

He Jingjing often said to Chen Jinyu: "Your brother values ??you so much, just study hard and don't live up to our expectations of you."

In order for Chen Jinyu to successfully attend college, He Jingjing borrowed 2,000 yuan from her parents' family to successfully pay for Chen Jinyu's tuition.

Every month, He Jingjing paid Chen Jinyu her living expenses on time and told her: "Don't think about money. If you need it, just tell your sister-in-law. Don't put any psychological pressure on her."

With the firm encouragement and support of his brother and sister-in-law, Chen Jinyu was able to study in college with peace of mind.

And He Jingjing and the others worked with their frail bodies. It was these two pairs of calloused hands that supported the family. They tried their best to pave the way for their sister, allowing her to go further and see higher. .

And all this was at the cost of their huge sacrifice and effort.

From the moment Chen Bangding brought the abandoned baby girl back to his sister-in-law’s acceptance and care, in their eyes, Chen Jinyu was the child for whom they had to make every effort.

There is no blood relationship, but they are better than relatives. Even though they are brothers and sisters, they are better than parents.

“She is the best sister-in-law”

“She raised her husband’s sister as her own child, sent her to school, and stayed in the hospital for several months when she was sick. She is the best sister-in-law. "My sister-in-law."

Neighbor Xiao Yuqin said that kindness comes from the heart, and He Jingjing's every move and kind words are seen and remembered by everyone.

“She is the best sister-in-law.” This kind of evaluation was not only said by Chen Jinyu during her lifetime, but also by her fellow villagers, and even more so by the world.

He Jingjing’s touching deeds are known to more people, and her kind deeds have touched countless people.

On August 31, 2018, He Jingjing was named “Shaanxi Good Person” by the Shaanxi Provincial Party Committee Propaganda Department, Provincial Civilization Office and other units.

The Provincial Women's Federation wrote in its recommendation to He Jingjing:

He Jingjing practices family virtues as an example, honors her parents, maintains harmony between her husband and wife, and raises her sister-in-law to grow up. When her sister-in-law is seriously ill, Not only did he never abandon her, she also borrowed money to save others and always took care of her sister-in-law. Her deeds were vivid and touching, and her influence was huge. She was widely recognized by the people around her and met the selection criteria of a good person who loves her elders and loves her relatives.

He Jingjing not only practices boundless love, but also passes this love on to more people.

After her sister-in-law passed away, she pooled the unused money from donations and donated them to other people in need.

On May 20, 2018, the couple donated 100,000 yuan.

The "Sanqin Hongfeng Jinyu Fund" was established in the name of his sister Chen Jinyu - used to support Hongfeng college students and volunteers suffering from illness.

This is also the first fund in Shaanxi Province funded by the families of recipients who have received assistance due to illness.

He Jingjing said that she wanted to donate to college students because of her sister - her sister is also a recipient of donations. It is because she has received help from others that she knows how valuable this kindness is.

Chen Bangao, Secretary of the Party Branch of Shilipu Village, said: "He Jingjing is an outstanding representative of filial piety and love for relatives. Our village has set off an upsurge of learning from He Jingjing, and more representatives and upright representatives of filial piety and love for relatives have emerged. A person of energy."

Sanqin Metropolis Daily teamed up with Alibaba to reward the "most beautiful sister-in-law in Shaanxi" with 10,000 yuan every day to pay tribute to the brother-sister-sister relationship that spans blood.

The story of this most beautiful sister-in-law in Shangnan County also touched the whole of Shaanxi and the whole of China. She is well-deserved for the title of "Top Ten Positive People in the Country". This great love that transcends blood is touching and respectful.

Chen Jinyu, this once abandoned baby girl, had a tragic fate that made people sigh and sympathize with her, but she was lucky because she was able to meet the most beautiful brother and sister-in-law in her short life. Give a second life.

In the past 24 years, she has experienced the most beautiful and emotional love in the world.

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