How to encourage relatives who can't take care of themselves to live well?

First of all, we must patiently enlighten and encourage in words. Make sure he understands the value of life.

It's really precious. There is only one life that belongs to us. Living may be painful, but once a person dies, he loses everything and has nothing.

Be sure to let him feel the beauty of living in this world, at least see the sun rise every day, at least feel the beauty of breathing. Encourage him to face the reality bravely and frankly, and make it clear that all of you want him to live, and no one gives up hope. In action, we must try our best to reassure this relative.

He can't take care of himself and must be taken care of. He will inevitably feel guilty about dragging down his relatives, so he will think that he is a burden to live, and he might as well die.

At this time, someone at home must come out to take care of him. Relatives can take turns to take care of him, and professionals can be invited to take care of him if conditions permit.

In short, we must let patients live a relaxed and happy life and avoid making patients feel that life has a lot of burdens.

The most important thing is to help him find the meaning of living. You can encourage him to read some inspirational books or movies. There are many people with physical defects, but their lives are wonderful.

For example, when the famous physicist Stephen Hawking was 2 1 years old, he was completely paralyzed by illness, unable to speak and unable to take care of himself. But he did not give up his life, but insisted on fighting, and finally made great contributions to human science.

Therefore, we should constantly encourage this relative to try to do something meaningful, such as trying to write, writing film reviews, making handmade works of art and so on. These things seem small, but they will make him feel that he is not useless.

People who have been struggling will cherish their living time, so we must help them find new goals.

One more thing, people who can't take care of themselves are emotionally unstable. We must learn to take care of the patient's emotions and don't insult him.