How hostile do you think the world is to fat girls?

Now, people have more ways to make themselves beautiful. There is no problem in pursuing beauty. The problem is that the definition of aesthetics seems to be simplified. Under the influence of various factors, beauty gradually has a standard: white skin, brown face, A4 waist ... Compared with self, women are more likely to find their so-called "shortcomings" and fall into appearance anxiety.

There is a topic in Weibo, how malicious the world is to fat girls. I used this to do a hot search. Behind this "topic" is the reality that countless girls may only be slightly fat, and it is also the real injury that they often encounter because of their looks and weight. In order to change this situation, some people have to lose weight and have plastic surgery, from dieting to medicine, from medicine to surgery, and finally fall into a vicious circle.

The causes of facial anxiety are very complicated. On the one hand, the whole society pursues aesthetic standards unilaterally; On the other hand, some commercial organizations and self-media narrow down the definition of beauty for commercial purposes, and then try their best to render it and create an atmosphere, as if only what they say is true beauty, which does not meet the standard of their definition, that is, "ugliness".

Some netizens spoke on the topic of Weibo, "My height is 16 1cm, and my weight is 54kg, but even my biological mother says that I am too fat every day, urging me to lose weight". Imagine that even the closest people around you are beginning to follow the crowd and discriminate against you in appearance, so young people are very anxious in appearance. What's so strange about this? This aesthetic standard of taking thinness as beauty instilled from childhood is an important reason for the aesthetic simplification of the whole society. When they came to some plastic surgery institutions and various self-media founded by themselves, their rendering methods were even more extreme. The so-called concept slogans such as "face is justice" and "plastic surgery changes fate" have frequently become explosive online texts, brainwashing consumers.

Appearance anxiety will bring many negative consequences. Some young people pin their hopes for success and happiness in life on plastic surgery. They have gone further and further on this road, but they have neglected the improvement of their internal quality and still have not achieved the success they want. There are also some young people who have no conditions for plastic surgery, or the plastic surgery effect is not ideal, so they fall into inferiority and give up on themselves.

Beauty should not and never should be single, but diversified and inclusive. Everyone's difference in appearance is precisely the embodiment of personality, because everyone is unique. We don't need to change ourselves to cater to other people's aesthetics, especially in some aspects, which may lead to the loss of health. To guide diverse aesthetic concepts, we need to start from each of us, and relevant departments should also make necessary regulations on false propaganda and malicious speculation of some plastic surgery institutions.