I thought I had a husband who loved me, but he betrayed me. Should I go public about him?

A long-term marriage must be based on love. Marriage without love can only be reconciled with each other, or the unloved party will make concessions to the loving party. However, in either case, it is harmful to both sides, isn't it? Marriage without love is just a body without soul, so we can't get married for marriage's sake.

Xiao Fang and her husband Hong Wei met under the introduction of their father-in-law. Shortly after they met, his father-in-law saw that they got along well and proposed to Xiaofang's parents. He flew into a rage when he knew he didn't know beforehand. He feels that his father decided his lifelong happiness without even asking his own opinion. His father-in-law felt that Hongwei's reaction was a little extreme. He always felt that Hongwei liked Xiao Fang, but the fact was that Hongwei didn't like Xiao Fang. Looking at his elderly father in front of him, he was embarrassed to tell the truth. He thought that he was almost 25 years old and still single. Xiao Fang is a good girl, and her father always plays the role of dictator at home. Glance can only obey his father's wishes and marry Xiao Fang under his father's arrangement.

After marriage, the two lived a harmonious life. Xiaofang works as a clerk in a small unit, earning a small but stable income, while Hongwei has been running business between places, although it is hard but earning a lot. Together, their salaries are enough to cover the expenses of the family. After marriage, Xiao Fang will take the initiative to do some housework outside of work, take care of the old people at home and keep the house in good order.

Because my father-in-law prefers boys to girls and my husband is his only son, my father-in-law is looking forward to having a little grandson every day. However, Xiao Fang gave birth to two children and no son, which made her father-in-law somewhat dissatisfied, so she was not as good to Xiao Fang as before, Xiao Fang felt very uncomfortable, and the atmosphere at home was not as harmonious as before. Xiao Fang silently comforted herself that no matter how grand her husband was, he was still good to himself. In fact, Xiao Fang didn't know that Glen was kind to herself not because of love, but because she was kind to herself because she had been paying a lot for this family. Silly Xiao Fang mistook all this for Glen's love for herself.

Lucky Xiao Fang finally gave birth to a boy after four years of marriage. The family is very happy. Looking at the happy smiling faces of the family, Xiao Fang also felt very satisfied. But when he looked at her husband's grandeur, he saw that he was a little stunned and had a little guilt in his eyes. It stands to reason that this happy day should not be like this. Later, Xiao Fang felt that she must have thought too much. Her husband has been good to himself for so many years. Although he has a big temper, he is never too angry with himself.

After having a son, my father-in-law's wish to have grandchildren finally came true, and the big stone in Xiao Fang's heart was put down. After giving birth to the child, Xiao Fang resigned under the persuasion of his family, took care of the child wholeheartedly at home, and let her husband work outside to earn money. Over the past few years, her husband's career has improved step by step, and now he is the sales manager. It is not a problem for him to work alone to support his family.

Xiao Fang, who gave birth to a child, worked hard at home. She never disobeyed her father-in-law, even if she wronged herself, she wouldn't say anything. After living together for a long time, Xiao Fang's personality makes Hongwei feel that she has nothing to like but hard work. As the days passed, she felt that she was a particularly weak woman, and living with her was no fun at all.

Xiao Fang seems to have noticed the great changes in her husband. She felt that she must have done something wrong to make him angry, so she was more eager to please him, which made Hongwei even more disgusted. Grandpa gradually didn't want to go home and face Xiao Fang, thinking she was boring. She can't understand the changes her husband has made to herself. She has always been like this, and her husband is not so far away from herself. She's confused. She still does housework hard every day, hoping that her husband can see a clean home when he comes back.

Who knows that her husband often doesn't go home in the name of business trip, and the number of times he comes back is less than five days a month. Xiao Fang felt very sad and never answered the phone. She kept replying to some perfunctory words, such as "working overtime tonight" and "not going back".

Her husband's abnormal behavior made Xiao Fang decide to find out, so he secretly ran to her husband's company to see what he was busy with. Finally, at noon, he saw her husband with a fashionable woman. Seeing this scene, her heart ached. She thinks she must be mistaken, but isn't this man in front of her husband? My husband, who has been so kind to himself, is now with another woman and is still so aboveboard.

She was so excited that she wanted to rush up and ask a clear question, but the cowardly little party was still thinking about grandeur. She told herself not to run like this, so her husband would be laughed at by the company. So she came to the front desk to ask about something grand. The person at the front desk told her that the general manager has never been married, and now he is in love with his girlfriend every day.

Hearing this, Xiao Fang burst into tears. It turned out that her husband had never admitted himself to the outside world. She has been with this woman for two years, but she has been kept in the dark. Back home, Xiao Fang decided to tell her father-in-law about her husband's cheating, but he was not surprised at all. In fact, my father-in-law knew about it long before himself, and Xiao Fang was already crying speechless. All these years of silent efforts finally turned into a joke, and she almost collapsed.

Xiao Fang thought for a moment and felt that her husband had been very kind to him over the years, but he never took himself out to play. More ironically, he never admitted his existence. At this moment, she understood that her husband had never loved himself, and his kindness to her was only his guilt. What's more, he let her live in deception. The cowardly little party felt that she should not go on like this, so she chose to divorce and start her life again.

A happy marriage is a paradise leading to happiness and a continuation of love. Marriage without love is the self-destruction of both sides, and it is endless alienation. Therefore, if you want to have a happy family, you must choose a person you love to marry and then try your best to take care of each other. Also, as a woman, you must learn to keep your charm, don't sacrifice yourself too much for marriage, and don't accommodate each other, because true love is equality between the two parties, not one party accommodating the other.