You who are low-quality and gregarious will eventually ruin your life.

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There is a law in this society: people in the upper class praise others, people in the middle class are better than others, and people in the lower class trample on others.

If you have never been rich, you don't know the brother-in-law between the rich; If you have never been poor, you don't know the struggle between the poor; If you are neither rich nor poor, you will know the comparison and vanity of the middle class.

If you are trying to get along with people with low quality, you are not far from failure.

Recalling the Mid-Autumn Festival many years ago, it happened to be the National Day holiday, and I happened to go back to my hometown in Gansu to visit my parents. By the way, I met my primary school classmate Zhou Yize. It's been a long time. I heard that he was very busy in those years, driving a truck around.

I met him one afternoon, and we made an appointment with a restaurant in Anning District of Lanzhou. It's not big, but he likes it here.

When I first arrived at the restaurant, Monday Ze waved to me from a distance. After greeting, I didn't say much. Hui Jin was drinking and smoking in Lanzhou, and they had a good chat.

On Monday, Ze ran a truck between Huizhou, Lanzhou and Urumqi in Guangdong Province for two years, and he got an occupational disease for drivers.

Drunk, kept telling me:

You don't know my present situation, how bitter I am, how many times I don't want to do this job, it's too bitter. Every time I cross Shaanxi and Wushaoling tunnels, the road conditions are not good and there are many bends. The roadside is full of cliffs, and my heart is in my throat. Summer is fine, especially winter. You know I am timid. I really peed my pants. I feel my life is in danger several times, but I still have to go. There's nothing I can do.

I told Yize that I could change my life, so I don't have to torture myself like this.

City jersey tearfully got up from the table and said:

what do you think? Although this life is dangerous, I can't live without this job. I really envy people who work in Beijing metropolis like you. I can do what I want, and sometimes I can earn some part-time money. It's much better than mine. It's easier to play and earn more. It's good to have a big city that often basks in delicious food and shows.

I patted Azer on the shoulder. Since I feel tired, why not give up the life I hate now and find a new way of life?

City ze particularly serious told me:

Young people in our village have been running trucks for years, and young people who don't go to school are doing this job. I don't know why I went to be a driver in a daze. If I don't go, I will be very unsociable.

Everyone else is doing this business. If I don't do it, I will fall behind. I have to get along well with them and let them bring me more goods and earn more money. Although sometimes the routes that let me run are not good and there are many overnight trains, I think I still have to work hard with them in order to integrate into their circle.

I asked Ichizawa: Did they make money? Did they bring you money?

Shi Ze gave me a look and buried his head deeply in his arms.

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I can feel that in recent years, Shizawa has not considered leaving the long-distance driver business.

I have the opportunity to make a phone call, but I am afraid of wolves and tigers, and I dare not give up easily and dare not take risks easily.

After all, having such a seemingly stable job is also a "money-making job" that people around you think.

In this way, 10 years passed.

In today's era, 10 years means that Nokia is out, and Apple is regarded as middle-aged after being out of X, and the divorce rate is amazing. Huawei's 35-year-old employees retire, and it is common for media people to earn tens of millions a year. Many post-90 s have already been included in the second round of funds. ...

Only the weak will blend in, and the strong will choose to be alone.

Because, seemingly "stable work" also has a magical ability, that is, to tame your will.

Some people are still standing still, thinking about how to integrate into the circle of low education and low quality, thinking about how to get along with others. Only the weak will blend in, and the strong will choose to be alone.

Crab theory: If you travel to Dalian, you can meet professional fishermen at the seaside. They are called sea fishermen locally. If these sea bumpers catch crabs, they will definitely cover bamboo baskets, but if they are a group, they don't need to cover them.

The man who touched the sea explained that crabs would climb up and run away. If two or more crabs just want to climb up, the others will stretch out their claws and pull it down.

So do the people at the bottom. Some people don't believe it because they have never seen the unknown closure, narrowness and lack of the bottom society.

When a person's material shortage is extreme, even food and clothing can't be solved, self-esteem and face become luxury goods, and unscrupulous means become animal instinct.

In this context, the so-called gregarious looks more like a failed loser's party, which is even more ridiculous than monkeys performing rope skipping in California parks. In the end, it could not escape being dragged onto the stage by the animal trainer.

Struggle, laziness, indulgence, greed and lack of effort are all covered up by these bad habits. They always think that picking up the bottle will blow the horn of struggle.

While dreaming, I am sad, longing for life to give myself financial freedom, but on the other hand, I am still indifferent in pain.

* * Naked spirit can't find a label with struggling thoughts, and its eyes are riddled with holes, interspersed in the mind, body and trunk, and finally disappeared in the vast sea of gregarious people.

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I don't think money is the standard to measure everything, and I don't think poverty itself is shameful, but I firmly believe that it is extremely shameful and terrible to think that I have solidified the lowest class and died of poverty.

No one can help you if you don't want to stand up. The reason why the underclass is not worthy of nostalgia is that the lack of material needs the constant torture of human nature.

The most fundamental difference between the upper, middle and lower societies;

People in the upper class, everyone is staring at each other's strengths;

Middle-class people, everyone is waiting for the benefits of others;

People in the lower classes are waiting for other people's jokes.

For each of us, no matter which class we are in, no matter where we are, we must study and change our model.

When we encounter difficulties, we try to change, instead of getting close to those low-quality groups and seeking false warmth. Then Zhong Hequn will only destroy himself.

The so-called stability at present is also trapping your life and future. You must always maintain a sense of crisis, always maintain competitiveness, always maintain the heart of change, and make yourself more different, scarcer, more important, more influential, and become a shining self.