What is the psychology of people who love to talk big words?

Show off, love face, and have an inferiority complex. I feel that speaking big words will make me look good and make others feel that I am powerful. I am strong in everything. Exaggerating and showing off in any aspect is often a defect. On the other hand, perhaps the person has low self-esteem because of his shortcomings. He is afraid that others will see through his weaknesses and wants to hide them, so he often likes to exaggerate himself. That is because he is afraid of being ignored or looked down upon by others, and hopes to attract others' attention.

On the surface, people who talk big don’t blush when they brag, and their hearts don’t beat when they talk big. It seems that they have a strong ability to withstand psychological frustration. Actually no, their psychological defense is very fragile. Not blushing or heartbeating is because they are serious at this moment and their emotions are harmonious. Once penetrated, the blush is immediate, and the person may even become angry and impulsive.

So, people who talk big actually have very little psychological space. A little more will overflow, a little less will cause a loss. I’m afraid that others won’t recognize me, don’t value me, don’t respect me, I’m afraid I’ll lose opportunities. So I instinctively use big words to recruit and defend with big words. However, due to the small psychological space, it is difficult to control the big talk, which often leads to jokes and embarrassment. At this time, the big talker will be depressed and depressed, and the effect will be counterproductive. If you try to compensate yourself psychologically, you will be hurt psychologically. If this happens often, it will easily lead to a vicious cycle.

Because the psychological space is very small, people who talk big are easy to be praised. Violent praise can also easily cause the person who speaks big words to become mentally unbalanced and behave abnormally. Therefore, people who talk big words are not suitable to be lawyers or debaters. Intense psychological confrontation will greatly consume their already small psychological energy reserves. They are also not suitable to be soldiers and entrepreneurs. Lack of adventurous spirit and inability to command are the talents of this type of people. Otherwise, why do we need to talk big words to compensate psychologically and satisfy ourselves?