Zhang Meng apologized to Zhang Meng: Only a responsible woman can live a high-level life. What do you think?

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Recently, the famous movie star Zhang Meng apologized to Zhang Meng through her social platform. She said: Everything I want to say is in the video. I didn’t mean to interrupt, so I apologize.

This news instantly became a hot search topic.

It is reported that Zhang Meng recently participated in the hit drama "An Jia". In the drama, she played the cute and charming supporting role "Zhang Guaiguai". Due to passion, she made mistakes and eventually broke up with her lover Aunt Xu. Go further and further.

This is originally a disgusting character, but in Zhang Meng's interpretation, "Zhang Guaiguai" has a straightforward personality and ignorant behavior, making people unable to hate him. Because of this, Zhang Meng is loved by many viewers. Recently, she has been invited to participate in some activities and frequently interacts with netizens on various platforms.

During the interaction, a male netizen asked her: "Have you had plastic surgery? How is it different from the time when you were filming "The Three Daughters of the Xia Family"?"

Zhang Meng replied directly - I am Cute, not lemony. This directly hit Zhang Meng, another actress. She felt that Zhang Meng was connoting her, so she posted a response on her personal social platform at night:

I remember that we met once during the event, and there were many. ***My friend, I haven’t filmed in two years. I thought about it and I really don’t know where I offended you? "In addition, Zhang Meng also said that this is not the first time that he has taken advantage of the situation. He does not want to occupy public resources during a special period. If you have any questions, please chat privately.

It seems that Zhang Meng is very Angry.

In fact, in the real entertainment industry, there are many celebrities whose names are close or similar, and they are often confused by netizens. Even people in the industry often get them wrong, such as Zhu Dan now. I couldn't distinguish between Lin Yun and Yun'er, which made a big joke. Of course, Zhu Dan was definitely unintentional.

Many people have confused Zhang Hanyun, Zhang Hanyu, and Zhang Xinyu. , Zhang Yuxi has been confused, there is no way, these names are too similar.

There are some differences between the above names. Zhang Meng and Zhang Meng have the same pronunciation but different words, so it is not uncommon for people to mix them up. . 02

Originally, this was just a trivial matter, but in the end the two of them actually got into trouble.

Some netizens felt that Zhang Meng was making too much of a fuss. , she held him accountable aggressively; some netizens said that Zhang Meng was too careless and that as a public figure, he should strictly hold himself accountable.

While netizens were arguing, Zhang Meng responded by posting and recording it. The video apologized to Zhang Meng. She admitted that the main reason was that textual expressions were prone to "ambiguity and misunderstanding", so she took the direct use of video to apologize. She really didn't expect that it would have such a big impact on Zhang Meng. In this regard, She felt very guilty.

Many netizens said that Zhang Meng is very responsible and candid, saying sorry when she makes a mistake and not deliberately protecting her image. A high-level sense of life.

Zhang Meng was born in a musical family. He started learning to play the piano at the age of 4. At the age of 12, he was able to independently teach other children to play the piano and make money to support the family. This is probably the youngest in the history of tutoring. It was at that time that Zhang Meng learned how to face life independently.

My parents originally wanted her to be admitted to the high school attached to the Conservatory of Music, and then to the Conservatory of Music, and then stay in school to become a teacher. Zhang Meng had her own plan. When she was 15 years old, she chose to study abroad in Australia.

At that time, language became her biggest obstacle. In order to integrate into her new life as soon as possible, she practiced English hard every day. In addition, she also earned her own living expenses. During this period, she worked as a restaurant waiter, mobile phone sales, etc. You can imagine how hard life was. 03

For an ordinary girl, it would have been long ago. I am crying and ready to go home. Even if I don't go home, I will inevitably work hard and lament the misery of my life.

But Zhang Meng didn’t. No matter how unsatisfactory her life in Australia was, she never thought of giving up, and used Hemingway’s words to encourage herself - life always leaves us bruised, but in the end, those The injured place will definitely become our strongest place.

This is probably the most substantial difference between a queen and a resentful woman.

The Queen always has a mentality of being an inheritor - I will take responsibility for the choices I make myself, and when soldiers come, I will cover them up with water and earth. Even if I am at the bottom of my life, I must work hard to climb up, so as to always maintain a sense of responsibility for my own life. of controlling interest.

A resentful woman will always have a victim mentality - everything bad that happened to me today was all caused by you. If it weren't for you, it would be impossible for me to reach this point. I have paid so much for you, but you treat me like this. Has your conscience been eaten by a dog?

For this reason, the queen lives better and better. Even if her heart is pierced by thousands of arrows, she will still be brilliant; even if she is in the desert, she can still live like a walking rose; even if she is threatened by death, she will still be beautiful. Be able to smile and play the song "A Laugh in the Sea".

On the other hand, the resentful woman becomes more tired, more miserable, and more sad as time goes by. Even if she has a good hand, she can still play badly; even if she marries the right person, her life can be extremely miserable; even if she once owned the whole world, she still feels that the world owes her a lot. 04

In many cases, you can become who you choose to be.

Zhang Meng, who is still underage, already knows this truth.

In the end, at the age of 18, she was admitted to the University of New South Wales, the best university in Australia, with excellent results.

Regarding the hardships and setbacks he experienced, Zhang Meng felt that that period was very happy because it was my own choice and I had to take responsibility for my own life. I have never regretted it. Paying for one's own choices and working hard for one's own choices is the most beautiful life. At that time, my heart was full of hope, full of beauty for the future, and I had a heart that could return to zero at any time.

It is with this mentality that she can become the champion of the China Regional Finals and represent China in the Miss Universe World Finals; she has a non-scientific background, but she won the 17th TV Drama Huading Award" Nominated for the "Best Newcomer in China's Top 100 TV Dramas"; only then can she become the producer of "Green Silk" and become a "queen" who constantly challenges herself.

When she was working as a waitress in a restaurant in Australia, Zhang Meng's hands were burned by scalding hot water. At that time, she held back tears and gritted her teeth because she chose the path herself.

When she was an actress, Zhang Meng was questioned by many people. There were several times when she performed with all her heart, but she got insults and blames in return. At that time, she swallowed all the injustice and devoted herself wholeheartedly. In the next role, Yu Lu was chosen by herself.

When she was a producer, Zhang Meng wanted to cooperate with director Li Huizhu, but was repeatedly rejected. It was not until the third time that the director allowed her. And this is the first step.

She will need to check every aspect including selecting actors. So during that time, "crying" became an effective way for her to release stress. Have you ever thought about giving up? No, I chose the road, and I have to walk it even on my knees.

When a woman has enough courage to accept herself, her life will not be controlled by anyone, she will become the master of her own life, she will live her own sun, she will live out With a high sense of life, she will become the "queen" of her own life.

Just like Zhang Meng.

I hope you can become such a woman.