The saddest thing in growing up is to suddenly understand Mr. Lu Xun and recognize himself.

Each of us had a youthful, frivolous, ideal and romantic youth. Ye Pei sang softly in "The Age of White Dress Fluttering", "When the autumn wind stops at the tip of your hair and falls on the shoulder of the red sun; Look at the clear pulse of the leaves, and she will fall. " Xu Wei sincerely felt in "Once You", "I once dreamed of taking my sword to the end of the world and seeing the prosperity of the world."

At that time, you and I were carefree and sunny teenagers, and our hearts were full of glorious legendary heroes' chivalrous dreams or sweet and warm castle princess dreams. When we live on campus, especially in primary and secondary schools, we all believe that when we grow up, we will become scientists, entrepreneurs, or respected people's teachers and people's policemen.

At least, we can hold our heads high and embrace ordinary life enthusiastically. We absolutely despise those little people who are desolate and numb, humble and cowardly, sad and unfortunate, and angry with them, and feel far away from ourselves.

However, with the passage of time, when our parents get old year by year, we finally grow up step by step, and we suddenly realize that there are not so many beautiful fairy tales in the adult world, let alone so many poems and romances, and some are just cautious and trivial, even in a hurry.

In the real world, the word "easy" does not exist in the dictionary of adults. Sadly, under the burden and polishing of life, many times, we just live what we didn't like at first.

Friendship between classmates is the purest friendship. In the simple, happy and carefree campus time, whether you come from remote rural areas, towns, wealthy families or high-ranking cadres in big cities, there is not much distance or gap between us. Have classes in the same classroom, cheer on the basketball court together, and eat skewers together at the roadside stall at the school gate.

However, Xiao Wang, who graduated less than 10 years ago, always lingered on the passing line in campus exams, but because of his parents' arrangement, he easily entered the unit where you managed to squeeze in, and was promoted early, and has already sat in the position of department manager. And you are diligent and conscientious, but you are often criticized by the leaders for "dragging the back of the unit." Occasionally, when I meet Xiao Wang in the company aisle, I will unconsciously bow my head and call "Hello, Teacher Wang".

At this moment, it suddenly occurred to you how similar this scene is to the respectful address of "Grandpa" given to childhood friends by Runtu in junior high school Chinese textbooks. Runtu used to be such an energetic, energetic and clever boy. He stretched freely and should have been able to live a rainy day. However, life is not a fairy tale. His family conditions and growth environment hindered his development, and he was unable to break the restrictions of class and economic conditions. In the end, he can only bend down in front of life and his eyes gradually lose the light of his youth.

And you, too, have had many heroic dreams, like warm light in the dark. However, in the face of cruel reality, what is the passion of young people and what is the frivolous of young people has long been smoothed out by life. In real life, he is just a middle-aged man who is overwhelmed by his children's education and pension. He has a mortgage and a car loan, but he only dares to secretly wipe a tear outside occasionally.

You have tried many times to change the status quo, your bad job and boring life. You visited the recruitment website many times, but finally you didn't submit your resume, and you didn't have the courage to quit immediately. You always want to improve yourself and keep improving. You buy books for the postgraduate entrance examination and online counseling materials for civil servants and institutions. But in the end, you forgot to play at the last minute of the postgraduate entrance examination, and only looked through the first five pages of civil servants' information.

Many times, it is difficult to change, not how difficult the thing itself is, but how difficult it is to change yourself, especially the thinking, habits and behavior patterns of an adult. The saddest thing is that you obviously didn't put it into action and didn't go all out. On the contrary, you comfort yourself that others are the same. It is true to comfort yourself that it is plain.

If you want to wear a crown, you must bear its weight. No pains, no gains. Too many of us are just complaining about the injustice of the environment and fate, but we don't really want to deeply reflect on our shortcomings and defects. The easiest thing to do in this world is to constantly comfort and forgive yourself with Ah Q's "spiritual victory method".

Many times, it's not that we don't have the opportunity and the ability, but that we think too much and do too little. If we are less entangled in contradictions, less self-paralysis, face difficulties, face reality, face difficulties, and continue to accumulate, we will definitely not live a sad and lamentable Ah Q, but have a completely different life.

Between people, except the closest person, it is actually extremely difficult to exchange emotions. Your sorrow, your pain, for others, may be just a story, or even a hehe.

People's endurance is limited, and it is difficult for anyone to easily resolve it. But life is like this, and life is not easy. No matter how hard it is, as an adult, you can only grit your teeth, carry it hard and have to carry it. Telling others about your miserable situation, especially nodding acquaintances or passers-by, can only add trouble to talking with others. Our poverty, suffering and sadness are beyond the reach of others, and it is difficult to give us support.

The hardworking and simple Xianglinsao was teased by fate many times and oppressed by that era. Her husband died of illness, her baby son was taken away by the wolf, and she was also rejected by her employer. Her spiritual pillar was crushed to pieces, and everyone talked endlessly about her misery, but she could not get the understanding and sympathy of others at all. Instead, she was rejected and laughed at, and finally died of hunger and cold on a snowy night.

Real life is not a fairy tale. Everyone has his own difficulties and grievances. Sometimes when people are in adversity, many things may really go wrong, and many things go wrong. Those who fail the exam, those who drop out of school, those who are lovelorn, those who are unemployed, and even those who have lost their loved ones may all come at us at the same time. However, you must not be Sister Xianglin.

All kinds of difficulties, only self-improvement, only self-reliance, of course, if our ability allows, we should also have some enthusiasm in our hearts, stick to kindness and give more warmth to others and society.

Under the pressure of traffic and capital, unscrupulous suppliers and stores are madly promoting health care, consumer credit and paid courses with exaggerated advertisements and provocative and seductive tweets on too many online platforms and information social apps.

Some "successful businessmen" say that it doesn't matter what the product is, what matters is that you can convince consumers of what it is.

Seeing too many bloggers and personal accounts recommending some financial payment courses, the topics are basically very encouraging. "I only spent 2 1 day lying down every month to earn 30,000 yuan", or "from the monthly salary of 3,000 yuan to the income from financial management to buying a house, I really understand that making money really doesn't depend on hard work". There are also platforms that deliberately exaggerate the cheapness of consumer credit and lend it to a better life. Do you know how many ignorant teenagers and ordinary families eventually fall apart?

Money in the capital market is like nothing, and money in consumer credit is like nothing. You really don't know how difficult it is to make money in this market and how high the real interest rate of consumer credit is? These so-called "financial experts" and institutions of Internet consumer lending platforms hope that you can keep a trace of conscience and the minimum bottom line.

Of course, the behavior of selling human blood steamed bread should be spurned by the whole society. But as individuals, we should at least learn more, understand more, polish our eyes, broaden our thinking and horizons, and improve our ability to distinguish, so as not to be deceived by unscrupulous traders or harvested by unscrupulous traders.

In the network world, many times we can feel the indifference and malice of some people through the computer screen thousands of miles away.

In Lu Xun's novels, Kong Yiji's misery is just a joke of spectators; Xianglinsao's pain is just the talk of spectators; Ah Q's anguish is just the pleasure of watching.

And some spectator groups in today's society are even more irritating than what Mr. Lu Xun described. When they see online reports that young girls are being bullied, they will leave messages below. It must be that the girl herself has not lived an honest and clean life. Even the heroes of the country have to insult and ridicule to attract attention and attention. It is really chilling to be promoted, drained and transferred from their posts. Such behavior lacks the minimum bottom line of being a man.

Mr. Lu Xun has been fighting for justice all his life, seeking to awaken the people. Even after decades, many characters written by Mr. Lu Xun can still find similar shadows in the real society. Only by understanding Mr. Lu Xun can we truly understand the adult world and the real society.

Mr. Lu Xun believes that youth is the hope of the country and the nation. He once wrote in Hot Wind, "So I am often afraid. I hope young people in China can get rid of air conditioning and go straight up, instead of listening to self-abandonment. What you can do, what you can say. If you have a little heat and a little light, it will make you look like a firefly, or you can shine a little light in the dark without waiting for the torch flame. "

Fortunately, we live in an era full of opportunities and hopes. Although the adult world is full of pain and sadness, although the reality is not easy and the ideal is easy to get cold, as long as we work hard with hope and enthusiasm, we will certainly gain something, improve and jump the lives of ourselves and our families bit by bit, and our great motherland will surely become more prosperous and beautiful!