Have you ever experienced school violence when you were a student?

My student days were relatively smooth. Have not experienced school violence. Looking back now, it seems like the time when we were in school. There is no school violence. We live in a. Fourth-tier cities. There are no migrant students in the school. They all live nearby. Most everyone knows each other. Everyone knows each other, including the parents. so. School violence basically does not happen. Parents may stop it at the slightest sign. Because they are all neighbors. Who can engage in school violence? As long as there is a little out of the ordinary behavior. When the children go home and tell their parents, the parents will definitely go to the parents of the violent students. It is inevitable that Times students will be beaten severely at home.

There wasn’t one when I was in school. But it showed up when my kids were in school. It can only be described as a small amount of school violence. When I was in the third grade of elementary school, one day my child came back and told me. Two classmates in his class always blocked him from going home after school. He often pushed and pushed him. Or punch him a few times. I promptly contacted the parents of those two classmates through the teacher. The parents and the two classmates may have been educated, and they have restrained themselves a lot. But according to the children, small friction may occasionally occur. At this time I told the child. You have to fight back. But the child told me that I might not be able to beat them. If I strike hard. We still have to pay for their medical treatment. Even at such a young age, I don’t know where such thoughts come from. But I told him clearly at that time. Don't worry, go beat him up and get money for his medical treatment. Our family is rich. As long as you fight. Even if you can't beat you, they will pay attention next time and won't bully you again. At the same time, I immediately contacted the Taekwondo class and enrolled my child in a Taekwondo class. At least let your children master some basic skills to protect themselves. When necessary, you can use some basic Taekwondo skills to scare your opponents away.

But the final result is pretty good. There may have been a small friction between him and the two classmates after they started to distance themselves, but according to him, they were not harmed. From now on. Those two people stopped bullying him. So sometimes we have to educate our children. When you encounter school violence, you should also fight back hard. otherwise. Your abuser always thinks you are weak. Always bullying you. Once you fight hard, after a few times. The perpetrator will feel it. This guy is not easy to mess with. Don't make trouble for him in the future. Of course, educating children to resist does not mean turning them into perpetrators. Just be yourself. He doesn't cause trouble, but if others do, he won't tolerate it.