What should I do if my child is introverted and has low self-esteem?

1. Cultivate a child’s strengths. From elementary school to high school, students study with their heads down in order to get into a good university. But when they get to university, they find that they can’t do anything but study. , every time there is a performance, I can only sit in the audience and envy those classmates who sing and dance on the stage, feeling that they are shining. At this time, the child feels inferior and depressed because she has no extraordinary talents and feels that she is a failure at least at this stage. No matter how unwilling a child is to admit defeat, when the child is indeed inferior in skills, if the child can be cultivated to have a strong point and an interest, it will make the child feel that he or she has an advantage, which will greatly increase the child's self-confidence. 2. Don’t talk about shortcomings in public. Some parents love to expose their children’s shortcomings in front of others and never consider their children’s feelings. We must know that children have their own self-esteem when they reach a certain age. Self-esteem and self-confidence are sometimes combined into one. When a child's self-esteem is dampened, the child's self-confidence will also be hit. In severe cases, it may also lead to children having low self-esteem and giving up on themselves. Therefore, parents should change this preference and not talk about their children's shortcomings in public. 3. Encourage children. Encouraging children is a skill that every parent should have. When a child does a good deed or gets a good grade, parents should encourage and praise the child in a timely manner, so that kindness and glory can be rooted in the child. In this way, the child's heart will be full and full of confidence. When children feel downcast, parents should also encourage their children and reinvigorate their children's energy. Don't let their children stay depressed. A good spirit is also a manifestation of self-confidence. 4. Help children analyze their strengths. Many parents will analyze their children’s shortcomings with them so that they can learn from them and avoid detours. But few parents will analyze their children's strengths. This is where parents fall short. Only seeing the child's shortcomings and not paying attention to the child's strengths will make the child only see his own shortcomings and not his own shining points when he knows himself, and his character will become more and more inferior. Helping children analyze their strengths just makes up for this mistake, allowing children to understand themselves more comprehensively, and guiding children to work in a better direction and become a confident child. 5. Care about the people around them. Children rarely take the initiative to care about the people around them. Usually, the people around them care about them. However, when children are guided to actively care about the people around them, they will feel that they are needed and trusted by others. This feeling will give children a sense of confidence in being able to help others, and will also make children more kind. 6. Encourage children to participate in more sports activities. Children who love sports will be more energetic, have a more cheerful personality, be positive and optimistic in dealing with others, and will have good popularity. This is very helpful in cultivating children's self-confidence. Big help. In addition, sports can improve children's physical fitness, which is beneficial to children without any harm.

In short, educating a confident child requires careful attention and guidance from parents. Parents need to encourage their children to keep trying, face difficulties, and persevere, and help their children gradually improve their self-confidence and independence