Because of the 520 red envelope, I saw my husband's true face. What do you mean by sending me 5.20?

On the day of 520, I usually don't look through my circle of friends, because I will suddenly be stuffed with "dog food". If I were a few years younger, I would still be interested. I want to have a look, compare and see what other people's husbands look like.

But over the years, especially after having children, I have lost interest in these loves. I feel that life may not be what it seems. People who bask in the "520" red envelope in the circle of friends may not be happy in private, and may be invisible.

Even if I don't read it, someone will send me a message to read it. One of the girls cried and asked me what to do, because she saw the head of the same husband in a circle of friends, and the amount of the other party was 100 times higher than her.

I sorted out my thoughts a little, and I felt that her husband only gave her a red envelope of 5.20, while the woman in the circle of friends gave her a red envelope of 520. This disparity is hard for anyone, not to mention the wife who is wronged.

I comforted her that there are too many people using the same picture these days, so don't jump to conclusions so as not to hurt the mutual affection between husband and wife. But she insisted that there was nothing wrong, because the portrait was specially made for her husband and unique in the world.

In that case, I have nothing to say, so I have to persuade her not to be impulsive and negotiate to solve it, so as not to hurt innocent people, especially the elderly and children.

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Coincidentally, I also saw my husband's true face on the day of 520. My husband is a particularly unromantic and inactive person. I really doubt that I was blind to see him.

In order to show his love for me, the first thing I did when I went to work on the day of 520 was to send him a 52.0 red envelope, and then I fidgeted and fantasized about how much red envelope he would give me back.

I think I have to get 520.00 yuan anyway. If that's the case, then after work, I'll go to the vegetable market to buy some good ingredients and go home to cook a sumptuous meal.

I can wait for the left and the right, but it's 5.20, which is 10 times smaller than mine. I couldn't bear it, and rolled my eyes at him to signal his attention.

Looking back on these years of marriage, my husband has been at home, which is simply an "iron cock" for me. Every time I send a gift back, it is a "small gift". He always has a point, saying that gifts are worthless, it is a heart.

I am too lazy to argue with him. Over the years, I have come to understand that marriage is fragile and does not need betrayal or violence. As long as the other person loves less than you, or returns slowly, love will get cold after a long time.

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I wouldn't have believed it if I hadn't heard it with my own ears. It turns out that love is so fragile and marriage is so fragile.

My good sister Xiaohui, she cried to me and said that her husband had never given her a red envelope of 520 since he got married. It's no use arguing with her again. If she doesn't give it to you, she won't.

I laughed at her. Did you take the initiative to pursue him? Xiaohui blushed and nodded. In this case, it is not surprising that he has been reluctant to give 520 red envelopes after marriage.

Because he is convinced that you will love him more deeply and truly. You know, all the favored people have nothing to hide. He is indifferent because he dominates this relationship and understands that no matter how indifferent he is, you will never leave him.

Some people may wonder, is it that a woman is so humble that she can stand being sad for her lover day after day? Not to mention, some women just can do it. No matter how cold her husband is, she always burns like a fire.

However, even if it is a fire, it is necessary to replenish fuel. If it is not timely, the fire will go out, just like a wife's feelings for her husband. Even at the beginning, the depths of the ocean could not stand the test of time.

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Men are sober, women will love you and change you. If you are lukewarm and ignore her, she won't always love you. Feelings are taboo and indifferent, and no one will continue to forget to pay.

Because she is also a person who needs help, she also needs someone to care for her, someone to cherish her, and someone to care for her, instead of living like wild flowers and weeds and letting the wind and rain beat her.

In fact, I especially understand why those women are in a bad mood on the day of 520, because on this day, what they see is the indifference of their husbands, only once a year, which does not mean that they are romantic.

Usually no matter how extravagant things are, they are not worth a red envelope on such a day. It doesn't cost much, but the key is to care about your favorite and the love you convey, which is particularly valuable.

Many men, especially after entering middle age, are too lazy to express their love. They think they are married, so there is no need to be so melodramatic. Actually, it's not. There is no age difference emotionally. No matter how long you are in love, you should keep your original sweet energy to resist the erosion of time.

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In this way, marriage is fragile or not. The key lies in how couples in marriage operate and maintain. Without a happy marriage, it is effortless.

It is like a delicate flower, which needs careful watering to bloom so beautifully. Among them, love is needed as nourishment, and trust and tolerance are used as sunshine and rain to nourish the flower of marriage.

520, I love you, not only this day's promise, but also to be a lifelong love story. I hope all couples can love each other and live happily.