"My mother is ill in hospital, why does your mother travel?" How does the wife fight back?

With regard to marriage, women think differently from men, which leads to different results. Many men think that marriage is to sacrifice their freedom to fulfill women's desire for family, so in their hearts, they think that giving a woman marriage is an account of this relationship, while women often regard marriage as the sublimation of their feelings, and they will only pay more and more to men, and even lose themselves.

A good relationship must be balanced. If a man never appreciates a woman's efforts, but thinks that what the other person has done is taken for granted, then a woman can't get the happiness she wants in marriage, because happiness never pays without asking for something in return, it must be something, otherwise a man can't see your goodness. Women pay without a bottom line, and men's desires will continue to expand, so that they can get more and more. Men who don't know how to be grateful will only make women constantly consumed in marriage.

The man who really loves you is unwilling to consume you, and even more unwilling to keep asking for it from you. He will only feel sorry for you and blame himself for not being good enough for you. If we base our meaning of life on the man's recognition and sense of need, we will easily fall into passivity, not only will we not be cherished by the other party, but we will also be disliked by the other party for not paying enough. One day, when you lose your value, it is time for him to transfer his feelings.

Xiaojing lived with her mother since she was a child. Her father left home when she was 8 years old, and left with another woman. It is said that the other party was very rich. My father was unwilling to be poor, and he felt that his wife and daughter were dragging him down, so he filed for divorce, and then left. When he saw his father again, his mother had already opened a small shop by her own efforts, which was enough to support the lives of the two mothers and daughters, and his father also had a new home.

family of origin directly influenced her concept of choosing a spouse. She met Yan Kai at a friend's party. Yan Kai took the initiative to pursue Xiao Jing. Xiao Jing didn't agree at first, but Yan Kai was not discouraged. She was very kind to Xiao Jing and made Xiao Jing feel loved and cared for. It was different from a mother's love. She accepted Yan Kai.

Women are all the same. Once they open their hearts, they will pay more and more attention to a man, care about everything about him, and even hope to get the approval of the other party for all their actions. Xiaojing is no exception. When they first started together, Yan Kai was really kind to Xiaojing, but slowly, Xiaojing would take the initiative to do a lot of things for Yan Kai, and Yan Kai gradually changed, always demanding and ordering Xiaojing to do things.

When two people are together for a long time, their feelings will easily change. Yan Kai is becoming more and more impatient with Xiao Jing, saying that Xiao Jing has changed, and Xiao Jing is becoming more and more insecure. The contradiction between them is becoming more and more obvious, which is almost common in all couples. The key is to see if they can stand the test. If both of them can try to put themselves in each other's shoes, the problem will be solved. However, between Xiao Jing and Yan Kai,

Yan Kai, who knew that Jing was pregnant, suddenly panicked. He didn't want this child, but Xiao Jing seemed to see a chance and took the initiative to tell Yan Kai's mother the news of pregnancy. Yan Kai was the only son in the family. When his parents heard the news, they directly urged them to get married. Yan Kai didn't dare to disobey even if he didn't want to, for fear of provoking his mother with high blood pressure.

when Xiao Jing's mother heard about this, she hated her daughter and blamed herself for not educating her well, but there was no way. Her daughter insisted on marrying and had to go with her, but she was always worried about her daughter. Because Yan Kai's parents were in poor condition and could not afford to buy a house for her son, the bride price said that she could only give her 1 thousand at most. In order not to let her suffer, Xiao Jing's mother bought her daughter a wedding room as her daughter's pre-marital property.

After the marriage, the young couple moved into Xiaojing's house. Yan Kai said that her mother was in poor health and it was not convenient to take care of Xiaojing. Xiaojing didn't want to get involved in the contradiction between her mother-in-law and her daughter-in-law, so she didn't take it too seriously and let her mother take care of herself.

From the very beginning, women constantly lower their bottom line and take the initiative to pay. In this process, men just show their difficulties without any gratitude. After a long time, men will think that women are willing and have nothing to do with themselves, and think that this is a woman's obligation.

Yan Kai doesn't have to work when she goes home except for work every day. Basically, her mother-in-law and her wife are in charge of household chores. This little life is not bad. In this way, until her wife finished her confinement, her mother-in-law took care of her. Her mother-in-law came on the day Xiaojing gave birth. When she learned that she was born a girl, she went back to her hometown that day. During confinement, Xiaojing's mother wanted to rest. She suggested that her mother-in-law should take care of her for a few days and accompany her. Xiao Jing is dissatisfied, but she doesn't want to destroy the relationship between husband and wife, so forget it.

After the confinement, Xiaojing's mother invited several good sisters to travel and relax. Xiaojing also felt indebted to her mother and gave her 3, yuan, which Yan Kai knew, but Yan Kai had nothing to say. After all, her mother-in-law also paid.

I didn't expect that Yan Kai's mother had a stroke and was hospitalized just after her mother-in-law went out to travel, and needed someone to take care of her. It was inconvenient for Xiao Jing to take care of her children. Xiao Jing asked Yan Kai to take time off. Yan Kai said that she was busy with a project and could not take time off casually, and it was her daughter-in-law's responsibility to take care of her mother-in-law.

Xiao Jing was very dissatisfied when she heard this. She remembered what her mother-in-law said: "I have no obligation to take care of my granddaughter's daughter-in-law." She was furious and said, "I have no obligation to take care of my mother-in-law!" Yan Kai almost got out of control when he heard this. Fortunately, his daughter's crying stopped his hand in mid-air.

Yan Kai looked at her daughter and remembered that her mother-in-law could have helped take care of her granddaughter. She said angrily, "My mother is ill in hospital. Why should your mother travel?" Let her come back! " Seeing him angry, Xiao Jing felt ridiculous and said, "Your mother is sick, why can't my mother travel?" My mother bought the house, took care of the pregnancy, the confinement and even you. What about your mother? I can forgive you for not feeling well, but why should I say that it is my duty to take care of her? I have already given my mother-in-law 1, yuan for her medical expenses, and it is your duty as a son to take care of her!

Yan Kai didn't expect Xiaojing to fight back, and let him have nothing to say. He also felt ashamed, because his wife and mother-in-law did pay a lot. He always thought Xiaojing had been eaten by him. Unexpectedly, everyone was a day of resistance, and his insatiable greed and pushing his luck aroused Xiaojing's resistance. In particular, Yan Kai bullied not only himself, but also his mother and made her.

Some men always emphasize women's obligations to themselves and their in-laws, but they don't pay attention to women's efforts and never consider women's feelings. When women love you, they will treat you better than themselves, but if you don't cherish and feel grateful, even the weakest woman will fight back.

It's not easy to meet someone who is really nice to you in the vast sea of people. Please cherish it when you meet them!