Don’t think of me again after we break up. When we break up and can’t be together anymore

It is one of the most painful and cruel things in the world for two people who love each other to have to break up. Because you love each other deeply, in order to let each other find a new love life and start a happy life again, you have no choice but to let go, and your former favorite has become your ex.

If after a period of time after the breakup, your ex says, "I miss you!" should you still believe and ignore him?

My answer is: Don’t believe it, ignore it! After going through the pain of breaking up and knowing that we can't be together, why bother with these ambiguous love words that he misses you? What's more, after breaking up for a while, can you believe that he hasn't started a new relationship and that his feelings for you are still the same? 01 The ex who broke up said "I miss you", but in the end it was found that it was just a use.

Colleague Jingjing broke up with her boyfriend Weiwei in the second half of last year because of a long-distance relationship.

Jingjing and Weiwei live in the same county. Jingjing was admitted as a civil servant last year, while Weiwei has been working in big cities in other provinces, earning a lot of money, but also spending a lot of money. Jingjing asked Weiwei to go back to work in the county town because her parents were also in the system and could help Weiwei find a good and decent job in the county town. But Weiwei's parents in the countryside disagreed. They believed that Jingjing's family was too powerful, and Weiwei had barged in on Jingjing's family and no longer belonged to them. During this period, Weiwei's parents said and did a lot of things that were unpleasant to their ears. Jingjing believed that Jingjing was favoring Weiwei, and Weiwei had always obeyed his parents, which eventually led to the breakup of the two.

After the breakup, Jingjing suffered for a long time. During that time, the little girl remained silent and refused to fall in love.

In April this year, Jingjing suddenly received a call from Weiwei. Weiwei said: "I miss you, and I regret it!" Jingjing burst into tears instantly! Weiwei said that he agreed to go back to work in the county and his work would be arranged by Jingjing's family. In this way, for the sake of Jingjing's happiness, Jingjing's parents used their connections to help Weiwei find a job in a state-owned enterprise with high income and good conditions in the county. Weiwei also went to work smoothly.

As a result, no one expected that after Weiwei went to work, he and Jingjing only got together for about a month before they broke up, and soon he and another girl got a certificate and got married.

It turns out that after the breakup, Weiwei listened to his parents and dated a local girl. What he said "I miss you" was just to use Jingjing to find a good job in the county. Just the purpose!

Such an ex is undoubtedly despicable, taking advantage of his ex-girlfriend's infatuation for his own benefit. I wonder if he will feel guilty when he thinks of his disgraceful behavior?

But the biggest effect of his behavior was to completely cut off Jingjing's only attachment and affection for him. Jingjing is now in a relationship with a boy who loves her very much. He is a good match and has a good relationship. 02 When a girl says "I miss you!", it's actually because her new relationship has failed and she is looking for her ex-boyfriend to rebuild her confidence.

In love, the one who is favored is always confident! This is not true at all. Having already broken the heart of her ex who loved her, she still wanted to take advantage of his feelings for her. Lingling's mind was really very big.

Lingling and Bowen became lovers when they were in college. Bowen was obedient to Lingling and devoted everything he had to meeting Lingling's requirements. After graduating from college, the two of them were admitted to work in different foreign companies in Shanghai.

From the initial sweet period of love to a stable period, Lingling gradually began to dislike her boyfriend, who came from an ordinary family. She felt that he could no longer buy a house in Shanghai, secondly, he could not give herself a generous material life, and thirdly, he could not allow herself Have face in front of colleagues. A bag worth tens of thousands of dollars bought by a female colleague will make her envious and complain for days. No matter how much Bowen treats her with all his heart, she is never happy or satisfied.

Finally, Lingling seized the opportunity to work with a successful supervisor. She showed her abilities and charm, won the supervisor's appreciation, and had an ambiguous relationship with her supervisor. Feelings. After her supervisor agreed to date her, she left her and Bowen's rental house without hesitation, lived in her supervisor's house in Shanghai, and lived the life she wanted.

One day, Bowen received a message from Lingling saying: "I miss you!" Through chatting, Bowen learned that Lingling was facing a relationship crisis, and the supervisor was entangled with a younger and more beautiful girl. He is currently indifferent to her and violently violent towards her, hoping that she will give up and move out of his house. In her relationship with her supervisor, she had always been the one who loved hard and humbly. However, her supervisor did not cherish her wholehearted love. If you have a new love, you will abandon her immediately.

Lingling asked Bowen what she loved about her in the first place, because men’s aesthetic concepts should be similar, and if they know what is cute about themselves, she can learn from each other’s strengths. Bowen said that it was all in the past and he could no longer remember it clearly. Lingling was very angry and complained about Bowen's indifference and did not want to help her. She originally wanted to ask Bowen to pursue her again and make her supervisor pay attention to her, but she didn't know that Bowen didn't buy it!

Lingling thought that Bowen loved her so much and was so obedient, but now as long as she said "I miss you", he would be moved and asked to do something for her. , wouldn’t it be easy?

But she never thought that when you abandoned Bowen and moved to your supervisor's house, you and Bowen could no longer be together, and you could never continue your relationship. What do you have? Are you qualified to ask him to help you? The so-called "I miss you" is just an empty statement that Lingling wants to use the blog post! 03 The married ex-boyfriend said "I miss you!" He actually wanted to turn the girl he once loved into a sex partner and lover!

Lili has encountered something embarrassing these days, which makes her feel sick just thinking about it!

Lili and Siming broke up because of the strong opposition of Lili’s parents. After the breakup, Lili was hurt by love and never got over the shadow of broken love, nor did she continue her next relationship.

Ke Siming was different. After he and Lili broke up, he quickly fell in love with a girl, got married, and had a daughter a year later.

One day, Siming called Lili and said, "I miss you! I've been thinking of you!" Lili thought that he still loved her and couldn't let go of her, so she couldn't help crying. , she told Siming, "I miss you too, I've been thinking about you!"

Siming asked Lili to meet at a certain hotel. Lili said that it was the same thing to say something on the phone, so it was better to skip going to the hotel. Siming actually directly proposed that he go on a date with Lili in a room because he wanted to relive her taste!

Lili was completely shocked! She bluntly pointed out Siming's wrong idea. By doing so, he was undoubtedly sorry for his wife, his family, and himself! Ke Siming said nonchalantly: "What's the point? It's not like we've done this before. Don't you have a boyfriend yet? You can go on a date with me at any time. What's wrong with that?"

Lili He hung up the phone angrily and blocked Siming. Only then did she realize that her ex was actually a despicable and dirty villain! Shouldn’t married people be loyal to their wives and families? A man who has a child actually wants to secretly date his ex-girlfriend and turn her into his sex partner and lover. Why has he ever considered Lili's future in his heart? Who does he think he is? Is it okay to insult your ex-girlfriend and ruin her life like this?

Lili finally saw clearly the dirty thoughts behind her ex's "I miss you", and she finally let go of her last feelings for Siming!

@木石前门说的 emotionally: When the ex you love again has broken up and can’t be together, don’t believe the lies that he misses you!

If your ex really still loves you, he should think about your future and your happiness, and should not say "I miss you" to you anymore to make you continue to worry and suffer; since You have broken up and it is impossible to be together. What is the point of saying "I miss you"? Being disconnected is a sign of irresponsibility for each other's spouses and families in the future, and it is completely unnecessary!

If two people who fall in love again have decided to break up, then bury the love for your ex in a corner of your heart forever, and silently bless him and hope that he is happy in your heart. That is enough. ! What we have to do is to cherish the present, our family and our current happy life. That's what matters most.

Today’s topic: If your ex says “I miss you” to you, will you be moved by it? Will you agree to his unreasonable request?