How about the college entrance examination?

Moderator's words: Today, the results of the college entrance examination have been announced. I wonder what parents and children will think?

More than ten days ago, the vigorous college entrance examination war is still vivid: the whole society mobilized, slogans of "No Walking" and "Silence" can be seen everywhere, and even the news that parents complained that "Zhihu" disturbed the examination room was reported in newspapers ... We can't help but ask, is it normal to put the college entrance examination in such a high position? Does this caution lead to children's vulnerability? Can the next generation grow up under excessive care face setbacks and competition? We might as well calm down and think about it.

It's a bit much to care so much. Yes, the college entrance examination is really important. It may affect a student's future development direction. However, this is only an exam, and it seems that there is no need for the whole society to rush about for it. You see, another one complains that cicadas harass the examination room, and "noise" is forbidden around the examination room. Some road sections are still forbidden to pass, and merchants make a fortune by taking the college entrance examination ... Anyone with a discerning eye can see that we attach too much importance to the college entrance examination.

It is not normal to give such a grand courtesy to an exam, which shows that our society lacks other bright spots. The concept of "everything is inferior, only reading is high" has always occupied a very important position in the hearts of Chinese people. In today's increasingly fierce competition, we often see a diploma crushed to death on major recruitment websites. Here, a high degree of education not only means the improvement of personal quality and the satisfaction of knowledge, but also a big bargaining chip for seeking higher positions and more salaries. As a result, being admitted to universities and famous universities has become a "Huashan Road" that countless students and parents want to squeeze into, and the light of the college entrance examination has overshadowed everything else in society for a time.

We always appeal not to spoil children too much, let them go their own way and cultivate their independent ability, but a college entrance examination forced all appeals and arguments to stand aside, and all passers-by could not help but participate, paving the way for candidates. That's good. It turned out that only my parents and grandpa at home spoiled the "little sun", and now it has become the "big sun" of the whole society. The college entrance examination is like a national event, isn't it?

I would like to ask, can the next generation, who is so spoiled, withstand the storms of the future and the setbacks on the road ahead? Can you stand firm in the fierce social competition? Can such a weak next generation really shoulder the heavy responsibility of rejuvenating China?

Yao Jiongyi

How could I be so fragile? On the day when the scores of college entrance examination were announced last year, I fainted because of a farce.

As soon as the college entrance examination was over, my parents asked my mother to take me to Beijing for two weeks, and my father sat at home. We will come back on the day when the results are announced. My father and I agreed that if we did well in the exam, we would hang a red scarf on the balcony. If you don't do well in the exam, hang a broom on the balcony The scores were announced, and I did well in the exam. So, my father happily hung a red scarf on the balcony, looking forward to the return of my mother and me.

Coincidentally, my maid didn't know about it. Seeing that the towel hanging on the windowsill was dry, she took it down and hung the wet broom on the balcony. Soon, my mother and I came back. My heart is hanging all the way. I walked into the community and looked in the direction of Chaoyang Station. A long broom plunged into my eyes at once. I suddenly fainted ... how could I be so fragile? I don't know what will happen if I really didn't do well in the exam that time.

Wu Jing

She dodged the college entrance examination. She is my classmate, a quiet and timid girl. From primary school to middle school, although the results are not top-notch, they are always at the forefront.

By chance, I learned that her parents care more about her study than we thought. Every midterm and final exam, either my mother asks for leave or my father asks for leave to accompany her to review her lessons. She was more nervous when she met the mock exam and the entrance exam. She took care of everything wholeheartedly. In this way, she kept good grades year after year.

But that doesn't mean she can keep a good attitude. When she entered the third year of high school, just as everyone was looking forward to the "door of life" and preparing to fight, she unexpectedly filled in a normal major that was not suitable for her, and failed to pass the exam with the score of the senior high school entrance examination. The teacher didn't understand, and the insider said it was still so good. The girl is too dependent on her parents in her studies, and she is afraid to face the big exam alone. So the college entrance examination came, and she chose to avoid it.

Zheng Wenqi

The college entrance examination scores of the two generations are different. Today, a few days ago, my granddaughter was even more nervous than when she took the college entrance examination. She hides when she sees people, and she can't wait for the ground to crack and get in and hide for a few days. Daughter-in-law asks from time to time: "Do you want to take Xiao Guai to see a psychiatrist?" In fact, my daughter-in-law has consulted her granddaughter before the exam. I can't understand how children are so fragile now and can't bear the pressure and frustration of life at all.

When my son jumped the queue in Heilongjiang, he knew that after the national college entrance examination resumed, let us send him some review materials. This is all we can do for him. He raced against time to review because he stayed up all night and was knocked unconscious by a tractor several times during the day. My son was working in a foreign country when he received the university admission notice, so don't mention the joy. Later, we asked him what would you do if you failed the exam? He said, continue to jump the queue and continue the college entrance examination until your age is not allowed.

Now that living conditions are good, even if they don't pass the exam in the first year, most parents have the ability to provide their children with further education. I think children are too fragile and spoiled by their parents. Take my son for example. He has suffered a lot himself, but he can't let his daughter suffer a little injustice. In the past six months, he has done his best for his children's college entrance examination. He did so well that his granddaughter still had psychological problems. When I told my granddaughter a few more words about her father's college entrance examination in Heilongjiang, my son rushed to say, "Times are different." I don't think it's a good thing that candidates in this era can stand the wind and waves. Wang Qun is the father of retired cadre Han Han;

Don't take the college entrance examination too seriously. Now every college entrance examination, the nerves of the whole society are extremely nervous. I really take the college entrance examination too seriously. This shows that some parents' psychology is still immature. Let them educate their children, and their children's psychology is bound to be fragile.

I have always treated my son Han Han's further education with a normal heart. Han Han prefers literature and doesn't adapt to strict high school teaching. First he failed a grade, then he dropped out of school. There are also different views in society. As a father, I certainly hope that he will devote himself to writing after he is admitted to the university, but Han Han doesn't like traditional classroom teaching. He wanted to choose a life path suitable for his own development, and I finally respected his choice.

I am relieved that my son has such a big idea, because his mentality is relatively mature, which is related to my usual attitude towards him. During Han Han's study, I didn't deliberately cultivate him, nor did I spoil him. I have never arranged his study.

My carelessness made him form the habit of thinking independently and learned to be responsible for his own affairs. This spring, he decided to quit school because he wanted to finish a novel in time. Often absent from class or dozing off in class affects the mood of teachers and other students, and insists on class to waste writing time. I think what he said is also reasonable, and there is no way to drop out of school for his current situation. Even if my son refuses the college entrance examination, I am open-minded. There are gains and losses in this life path taken by my son. I don't care too much about his temporary failure, because he takes the road of writing, and failure is also a part of life experience.

Han renjun

Today, I can't help looking for the results of the college entrance examination. The fear for several months in a row is coming to an end, but perhaps this is the beginning of another struggle to endure sadness and continue to rush. I can't help worrying about my son. There's nothing I can do at the last minute!

A few years ago, my old friend's daughter went to college, and I laughed at the couple's caution. Their daughter's college entrance examination completely changed our way of communication. We tried not to go to his house, and the weekly party was put off again and again ... at that time, I always thought they were a little neurotic. If my son goes to college, I will go with him and let him decide his future.

However, even now, I can't avoid custom and worry about his future. If his grades have been excellent, forget it, but it happened that his simulation grades have been fluctuating and unrealistic. Now I deeply understand the influence of famous universities on children's future career choices, so I became nervous this year. What kind of nutrition, tutoring, investment, prediction, and even the road behind him have been thought out for him. After all, it's a lifetime thing.

Two days ago, I sent him to menstruation's home in Nantong. This is not entirely for fun, but more because he is afraid that if his grades are not ideal, he will feel uncomfortable directly facing other cheerful classmates. Qin Ming, don't "burn" the candidates. As a fresh senior three graduate, my first impression of the college entrance examination is black and full of fear. But after this war without smoke, what I feel left is a blank memory. Now I really feel the experience of others. The college entrance examination is just an exam, which has no other significance. In fact, the scores after the exam are more stressful than preparing for the exam. In order to get through this difficult time, I am now working in a Sino-foreign joint venture.

The college entrance examination really needs social attention, but it is not staring at it, which invisibly puts pressure on candidates. "We have created good conditions for you, and it is your own problem to fail the exam."

Finally, I want to say: "Please pay attention to the college entrance examination, but please don't focus on it. Otherwise, the candidates will be pasted. "