The prologue of the conversation?

Good opening remarks are not only applicable to the ice-breaking stage of first meeting, but also to all stages of all relationships. First of all, let's take a look at the common false opening remarks in the market.

One: the loss of value

Many girls have the habit of "waiting for a long time to recover or forgetting to reply directly". Most of this situation is that our value is lost too much.

For example:

"What are you doing?"

"Have you eaten?"

"Miss Sister has temperament."

The loss of value lies in our strong sense of demand. It's like saying "I'm interested in you" to a girl directly. In the early days of love, "interest" always decreases. No matter what she used to think of you.

What she can't get will always be cherished. When she feels that she is loved, there is nothing to hide.

One manifestation of the sense of demand is "forced dialogue". Therefore, the way to avoid this situation is to "make a name for yourself". You need a reason to start chatting. Even if it is a random reason, anyway, we don't just talk to her because of loneliness.

Bian Xiao used to meet a girl she liked very much, and she would go straight up and say, "I like you, be my girlfriend!" Therefore, I am always given a good card "You are a good person, and we are still suitable to be friends". I didn't know until I saw the secret book of picking up girls, "Soaking St. Old Fish", that the master of picking up girls never confessed, but simply relied on chatting to attract value to win girls, and everything was so natural. I also followed his method to actual combat. I successfully won three sisters in the first month, and I didn't have to confess at all. It was through chatting with the old fish that I made my sisters fall in love with me completely. If you are still single, I suggest you have a look at the secret book of soaking holy old fish, which is available online. Learning to practice is not a problem.

Two: it is not easy to reply.

I often see screenshots of my brothers and ask, "Why doesn't she return to me?" Ask. It's not that the girls are cold, but that your opening is really embarrassing.

For example:

"It's really annoying to work overtime tomorrow."

"Do you know where clothes fit me?"

"I will eat near your home the day after tomorrow."

This kind of message is difficult to answer because the cost of reply is relatively high.

You radiate negative energy, and she must come to comfort you. Otherwise, she may feel guilty. If you ask a question she doesn't know, if she wants to give you an answer, she will help you look up the information. Otherwise, she is insincere. If the information you give is not clear, she needs to consider what your purpose is. Otherwise, she will feel framed.

Three: I don't want to reply.

In terms of politeness, girls will generally reply to our opening remarks, while some boys' impolite opening remarks will make girls give up politeness.

For example:

"How old are you this year?"

"Do you have a boyfriend? /Do you change boyfriends? "

"What do you do? What is your salary?

"This movie is very interesting. Do you want to watch it together? Rice, delicious, want to eat together?

Household registration administrators and privacy investigators, please sit down and listen to me. It is natural to want to meet someone and date as soon as possible, but these are not suitable for talking.

By avoiding these three misunderstandings, we have adopted the correct attitude, entered the correct open ocean and started a dialogue.

1. Fragile suggestion

If someone asks for directions in the street, we usually give directions enthusiastically, because we gain self-worth and moral recognition in the process of leading the way.

And if we ask a girl a question about her major, she will be willing to help us solve the problem for the same reason.

For example:

"Some chords of the guitar" (she is good at playing the guitar)

"Some historical stories about wine" (she is familiar with wine)

2. Benefit sharing

It seems that we are sharing our hobbies, but in fact, we inadvertently showed our interest in her after learning about some of them, and started a routine of Mao Mao Rain.

Of course, the difficulty in operation is the word "unintentional", which is cashed out through her time span or hidden depth.

For example:

"Today's tennis is finally a perfect smash" (she was a tennis player a long time ago)

"I found a very small and beautiful song" (in fact, it is the listening ranking of her music software)