How to send a white wedding message?

In Guangxi, according to the old rules, three guns are fired to express condolences, which is called "mourning guns", and then people are sent to tell relatives and friends. In some areas, in the home of the deceased, white paper should be tied in front of the door as a sign of mourning.

In other places, mourners cannot go to relatives and friends' homes. They have to wait for the people in the house at the door, and they can only go in to mourn when they scatter a shovel of ashes outside the door. This is to ward off evil spirits.

There are also some places where the custom of mourning is very strict. If a man dies, he must be mourned by his nephew, and if a woman dies, he must be mourned by his son and daughter. Filial piety men and daughters must wear a white cloth hat and hold a white cloth towel and kneel in front of their parents' family or grandmother's family to report the funeral. Go home immediately after crying. Grandma's family sent people to attend the funeral. When they reached the village head, the filial sons and daughters all knelt at the entrance of the village and greeted them in tears, telling their bereavement and thanking them for their hard work all the way to the funeral, and giving everyone a white cloth called "filial piety cloth".

In the northeast area, it is customary to leave a note outside the door to report the funeral. The number of notes is determined by the age of the deceased, one per year and two in heaven and earth. And they used the sex of the deceased to decide where to hang the note. If the deceased is male, it will be hung on the left side of the door, while the deceased is female. When people see the note at the door, they will know that all their families are dead, and it is clear at a glance whether the life span of the deceased is male or female.

Tianjin traditional custom funeral stickers should also write "Ding Hui's heartfelt words", which means no gifts. In fact, since the invitation has been sent, it is for your condolences. Generally, those who come to offer condolences are gifts, at least elegiac couplets. Even bigger, a "square pole" should be erected in front of the gate. The deceased is male, two on the left, and two on the right if female.