How to chase a girl who likes someone?

The experience of chasing girls collected from your predecessors is now written for your reference:

1. Thick skin: This is very important. Jordan chan said in the movie Young and Dangerous: If a man has a thick skin, he has successfully chased half the girls. Hey hey! ! Later, I tried to bail.

2. Infatuation: No matter how wronged you are, you should show indifference. You should find an opportunity to say to her on a special occasion: "XXX (name) I know you don't like me, and I know that feelings can't be forced, but ... (Remember: your eyes must be tender to the extreme at this time, and then you look at her affectionately) Say: You can't stop me from loving you, I will. I beg you not to take me as your burden. You can live your life as much as possible. I just hope ... just a little hope (eyes must be moist) that you can let me accompany you to take care of you and protect you ... although ... even if (tears are needed at this time, and it is very difficult to say) treat me as a brother, as a younger brother, others can't help it, as long as. It is enough to be as sad as you can be. That's enough. .......... (muttering to herself) At this point, remember never to tell a girl that my life is yours and I can't live without you. Girls hate boys dying in front of her.

3. Sweet mouth and smooth tongue: I can't teach you this, I can only rely on you. At this point, I want to remind you that no matter what clothes she wears or what makeup she wears, as long as she asks you, you must say "good-looking" and you must make it up. Girls are naturally fond of being flattered.

4. Stability: This is consistent with the third point. Without stability, girls will say that you are a playboy, but without smooth talk, girls will say that you don't understand interest. Ha ha!

5. Romance: It's up to you at this point. It is enough to choose the right time to surprise her. Those who have money in this scam will be greatly exposed, so don't be afraid to spend money.

6. Be careful: No matter what you do, you should think of her first, (don't think you will suffer ... and so on) take care of her in every possible way, and you must make her feel that she can't live without you.

7 Summary: If you have learned all the above points, I feel that there is no girl you can't catch up with (this sentence does not include those who are too different in appearance, such as men who look like turtles and women who look like angels). In short, the word "heart" is used to understand what she thinks and what she thinks. Finally, may all lovers get married.

Warning: Don't use the above points to deceive girls. If I find it, I will inform my spoony brother and get up and beat up the bad guy.

[repost] chasing girls must read: tips! ! ! ! ! ! !

Right or wrong on the first date

1) Pay attention to her so that she can pay attention to you-

I hope she pays attention to you, in fact, it is best to start from herself, including paying attention to her daily clothes, paying attention to some details of her life, what she likes to eat, what hobbies and interests she has, etc. Once you have a chance to talk to her, you can naturally open the topic and discuss it. When she knows that you are paying close attention to her, she will unexpectedly draw her attention to you and may leave a deep impression.

2) Avoid an unstable first date.

After all, the first date is very important. Most girls prefer frank words to evasive ones. Therefore, it is better to boldly assume a date to show your sincerity, which is better than simply asking her when she will be free and other vague questions. Otherwise, girls will be confused and don't know if your date is true or not. An erratic date is not sincere enough, so it's not just a failure.

3) Careful, considerate and sincere-

She agreed to your date, which initially proved that she did not resist you, even had a good impression, and had the opportunity to develop into friends. At this time, you might as well pay attention to what she was wearing that day and give her a gentle compliment, which is enough to make her happy.

In addition, you should be prepared before the date, for example, check what she likes to eat in advance, or book three restaurants with different moods and foods (of course, it is best to concentrate in the same area) so that she can choose at that time, which will naturally make her feel that you are so cautious and the most important thing is that you are sincere. You can't ignore the opportunity to show your manners, such as driving the door, pulling the seat and sending her home. Remember, she will be special.

Avoid talking about past relationships-

You like a girl, and you have a lot to say to her, including your past and present, which is understandable. But many men make a mistake, that is, they put their past love history into their mouths on the first date, hoping that the other person can understand their past, but this often ignores the feelings of girls. Is it because she is dating you that she listens to you talk about your ex-girlfriend? And most girls like to be unique in their boyfriends' hearts. They will never let their boyfriends have another person in their hearts. For a long time, jealousy has been closely linked with love and is out of the control of reason. Therefore, when it comes to old love, it is best to carefully consider each other's feelings.

5) Give her a small gift to make her happy-

Consider it a small gift. Choose an exquisite gift for her in advance, such as a fresh and gorgeous tulip, a box of beautifully packaged chocolates, a necklace with simple design and an interesting little book. Gifts are more important than money, and it is best to give small gifts. Don't act in haste. Buying her gold ornaments or expensive leather bags on the first date will only scare her, and then she will give you a push.

6) Avoid boring topics, boring conversations-

If you can seize the opportunity to talk to her, you should communicate well. You can pay more attention to her recent situation, hobbies or views on things, and ask questions to deepen your understanding and understanding of her, so as to let the topic continue naturally, instead of having a yes or no yes, which will be boring.

Similarly, you should talk about what you think the other person is interested in, not just your expertise or ambition. Don't bore her on the first date, then there may be no next date.

7) It is recommended that the whole appointment be successfully completed-

After dinner, ask her about eating. Ask her if she is interested in going to another store or staying for dessert. This will make her feel considerate. Dessert after dinner is a good suggestion. You can use this time to talk and laugh. After dinner, you should send her home and simply say to her before you leave: [It's good to be with you tonight]. That will make her happy. At this time, ぃ

I believe she has no room to refuse you.

How to chase girls

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The following information comes from the game Beauty Terminator. Enjoy it!

The more times you touch a woman, the easier it is for her to fall in love with you.

After touching a woman, you can enhance each other's intimacy (physical contact is the best way to get closer to a woman, but how to touch a woman without trace requires excellent skills). If you can have a chance to touch her knees or hands, it will be quite perfect. But if you meet on the first date, don't do it. In coffee shops and restaurants, you'd better choose juxtaposed positions (that's how opportunities arise).

As far as a woman's body is concerned, the left side (roughly the left side, yes, but for left-handed women, it is the right side) is a non-daily area, and it is easy to feel itchy. The left side of the breast is a sensitive area for women. Therefore, it is best to have a woman on your left. If you hug her from the left rear with your left hand, she will fall into your arms. Then expect further good results.

& lt the difference between popular men and unpopular men.

Popular men always keep a wide distance from undesirable women, while for desirable women, there are ways to put her beside them.

Women are bound to be curious about men who attract attention (curiosity is a fatal wound for women). This curiosity can be used for interesting conversations and fresh intelligence information.

If you are unpopular, even if the other person is curious, you can only try your best to avoid it when you see you. Unpopular men are always lonely around you. Whenever you want to be in an active atmosphere, you must have confidence (self-confidence rather than arrogance is the only way to chase your girlfriend, remember! ), and good interpersonal relationships, I believe that in this way, a good girl will belong to you.

& lt From Friends to Lovers

I finally got a chance to ask her out, but I don't know what gift to bring. On this occasion, it is best to bring a flower, so that you may pin the flower on her chest (giving a gift is a kind of knowledge, but it is unwise to put the flower on the chest of an "unfamiliar" woman) or send it, which naturally forms an opportunity to kiss each other.

As for dining, you may be a little cautious at the first time, but after the second time, you can choose food for two to enhance each other's intimacy.

If you can eat with her, then your relationship is not just friends, but lovers.

& lt Give yourself a chance to step into her inner world.

After the other person becomes your girlfriend, many people are worried that their relationship can't go any further. In fact, if these people don't care too much, they often let the opportunity to enhance their emotions slip away quietly. In the female ethnic group, they attach great importance to boys who want to help women with their coats, because at the moment when they take off their coats, if there are men present, women can easily have the illusion of lovers. When riding in the car, if you can say: Put things that are easy to forget on my side, it will bring you closer to her. But if these behaviors are not used properly, they will be self-defeating.

& lt make an accident "

Mystery is very important to women. Compared with men introduced by others or met in the workplace, men who meet by chance attract women more. If this accidental situation happens repeatedly, women will be convinced of the existence of fate.

But can you create a second chance? In fact, everyone can do this. If you want to meet a girl anyway, you can check her commuting route and other related matters in detail, which will make it easier to create a second chance.

Only by accepting women's eyes can you become a successful man. Women always pay attention to the nature of men's real faces, so when they know that men's real faces are not their favorite type, they are likely to take the opportunity to run away.

You'd better make some changes if you can meet her preferences. In addition, excellent memory is a characteristic of women. Some men forget a sentence, but women remember it clearly, so you must remember everything you say to her.

& lt What kind of gift does she want? & gt

As for giving gifts, if your girlfriend likes small things, you can send rings, watches or flowers. If she likes big things, you can send big dolls or large and numerous bouquets, which will win her heart.

Generally speaking, people who like small things are mostly mature people, because these things can be placed within their control, so most of them will not do whatever they want. A woman who likes big dolls is a little childish, so when she is happy, she may stick to her boyfriend. However, it is also possible that after hugging the doll, she doesn't want to hug you anymore.

In this respect, although women who like small things will make you pay more, it seems easier to cultivate long-term love.

& lt Shortcut of Kissing "

When kissing a woman, there is a principle, that is, to press her against the wall. Women can find the steps by leaning against the wall, because I can't hide (-yes! ! If you want to kiss a girl, give her a step, even if it is similar to "strong kiss", it is very easy to succeed! What you can't escape and avoid is a very important factor in psychology. Before you want to become an expert in erotic hunting, you must be familiar with all kinds of techniques that can understand women's psychology in order to win the final victory.

Finally, when choosing a bar or restaurant, you'd better choose one with steps, because it will give you more excuses to approach her. If you can hold her hand, you will let her peel off a layer of defense, and the rest is to kiss her.

& lt If you give in to women's words or attitudes too much, you are sure to fail.

Women are lovely and terrible animals. The main difference between men and women is that they both have two personalities. They look gentle on the surface, but they can be said to be sluts at heart. Men who are not good at pursuing women can easily give in to this fear.

Men who are not used to facing such women will succumb to women's words or smiles and become opinionated.

& lt How to pursue a more intellectual and emotional girl? & gt

Generally speaking, women can be divided into two types, one is infatuation with men who can be above others, and the other is infatuation with men who always belittle themselves.

Men who are not good at understanding women always beautify women, so they can't give objective opinions.

On the contrary, if a man is good at communicating with women, even if he says something unpleasant, he can stop blushing and breathing, and there are often some good opportunities around him.

& lt Sometimes you might as well coquetry her.

Of course, it is best for men and women to have the same personality. There are often two people in the world who are called "made for each other". These people have a lot in common except before they met. When they live together, they also have many similarities.

In fact, if men and women can complement each other, it is also a very good combination. In order to prove their income, women who are bosses often show their strong side to others. If your date belongs to this category, you might as well find an opportunity to act like a spoiled brat in turn. A woman with high self-esteem is more likely to catch her heart.

This kind of girl, what she says is basically the same as what she does. The most important thing is to satisfy her self-esteem, so sometimes you might as well play the slave of love. When you get along with these women, as long as you remember the principle of never opposing her, it will be unexpectedly easy to pursue them and will be an ideal object.

& lt Show your tenderness and thoughtfulness "

You shouldn't do such gentle behavior too deliberately. You should seize the opportunity and do it with a calm attitude.

It is very important if you can smile kindly at dogs and kittens, or show sympathy for flowers and grass. At this time, she will think that you have such feelings for these little things, and there is no doubt about your feelings for women. At the same time, she will make sure that you are a very gentle man. In this way, you have already succeeded halfway.

& lt The sea and sunset are the best combination to seduce women.

Women have longed for water since ancient times (yes, the best place to date is the sunset by the sea! ! )。

In most romantic songs, it seems that there is no sun as the background at noon, and no one is not immersed in sadness because of watching the sunset at the seaside. A relationship always needs to be immersed in sadness first, and only after feeling a person's loneliness can we appreciate the taste of feelings. If a woman agrees with this scene, she will agree with this emotion.

& lt Give her a dream in communication "

Some people think that girls are easily deceived, but is this really the case? In fact, when girls face their ideal prince charming, even if they are cheated, they will have willing ideas. So when a well-dressed man appears in front of them, these girls are likely to take a chance according to their own wishes.

Therefore, the most important thing is that you should give each other some dreams. At first, you can't change your attitude or commitment to approach her. To be clear, you should give her dreams. If you keep her dream, your relationship will be deeper.

"Is she patient with you? >

If your girlfriend yawns lightly on a date, it's not that she is tired, but that you say that she is tired of you (it's important to be careful and to the point in this short paragraph to see if women are impatient with you), or that she signals you to pay attention to the time on your watch a little, which means that she already wants to go home.

If her thoughts are stronger, she may look around without looking at your behavior, and then you may not exist in her heart.

If a woman is with the man she loves, she often doesn't care about her surroundings. If these women are self-centered, it's not too much, but if women focus on other things, you should be prepared to end this relationship at any time.

If a woman says "men are really annoying", many women like to add the word "annoying" at the end of the sentence. However, in this usage, there are two different meanings that deserve attention. When "hate" is generally used to express it, it often appears in men and women who are relatively close to each other. If they are not very close, the other person may give you a contemptuous look in silence, so if a woman is willing to talk to you, it is relatively comparative.

In order to increase the intimacy between you, you must show your masculinity to her as soon as possible, but if men make women feel unclean, they are likely to dissuade them.

& lt Observing women by talking & gt；;

What kind of person is she? If she can keep talking, it is easy to know what she is thinking.

Humans always want others to take a look at themselves, so both men and women always arrange their appearance properly, but only their appearance is not complete, so they can also let others know more about themselves through conversation.

Women whose voices change rapidly will express their inner excitement with their voices, and their soft tone is also a type that people can enjoy.

However, you should pay special attention to women who speak like Ma Si. She may be very jealous, and women with low voice quality may be more masculine.

& lt Women who often listen to walkman are more self-centered;

Recently, you can often see some women wearing walkman on the bus. In fact, some of these women who use headphones to suppress their hearing are actually trying to escape loneliness and immerse themselves in the music world. However, some women are willing to take off their headphones for men, but this requires considerable vigilance, because this is one of the types of self-centered people.

& lt Women are usually attracted by [first impressions].

A report once pointed out that women should be careful about their first impression of (-), and many people died at this point! ! )

Men with beards have a higher opinion than men without beards. Appearance, posture and clothes are all important factors in determining the first impression, so it will be bad if these first impressions are not brought into play. Usually, the first impression given by appearance will be deeply embedded in the other person's heart, so the first impression is very important. If a man can pay attention to his dress attitude, he will win in love.

Lesson 1 Absolute confidence

Self-confidence is the basic condition for doing anything, and chasing girls is no exception. You need absolute self-confidence if you want to succeed in chasing girls. You must stick to the belief that you must succeed and never be lonely again. On the contrary, you should adopt a "self-reliance" approach, pursue girls on your own and avoid relying on friends and family. Friends and family can not only help themselves, too many people know that your partner is more likely to backfire, and girls don't like people who rely on friends to chase girls. However, to realize your wish, the first thing is self-confidence. Even if you are not "Prince Charming", you can dress yourself up as a prince. The important thing is that the confident temperament and demeanor make the other party irresistible. In short, that is: self-confidence, self-confidence and self-confidence.

A man who confuses women

Most women do not like men who are too honest. How boring! In fact, their most popular man has the following qualities: good popularity, cheerful and lively, unable to refuse others, no opposite sex, easy to compromise, a little overconfident and a little romantic.

In fact, as long as you have any of the above points, you can say that you have the conditions to attract women, but the more the above points, the more favorable you will be in the pursuit process, and the smaller it is, the harder it will be to get out of the tight encirclement. But even so, even if you have the above conditions, there is no guarantee that you will please any woman, because although you have any advantages, you can't have some shortcomings that the other party can't accept or tolerate at the same time. For example, a bad man usually attracts women with his eyes, voice and body language. When you meet for the first time, you can naturally look into her ears. When two people meet, turn their eyes to their ears again, and she will naturally be impressed by you. When you have a chance to speak, your voice will be slightly higher than hers. Cheerfulness and loud voice will attract her to continue talking with you. When listening to her, your eyes will shift to her lips, which will make her feel that you are listening to her attentively. As for the hand on the table, the four fingers are side by side, which makes people feel neat and beautiful and naturally has a good impression on you.

Lesson 3 Encounter

You should always remind yourself that the word eye margin is almost the most puzzling concept on the road of love, which is enough to make two people fall in love, fall in love quickly, and even walk into church. Therefore, when you meet the woman you've been waiting for for a long time, and hit it off at any place and place: bus, subway, street, restaurant, banquet, workplace, etc. Don't hesitate, the opportunity may never come back. Grasping the current opportunity and grasping the current person, your only way is naturally to go forward and talk, so that she can get to know you, have an impression on you, have a good impression, have love, have ideas and so on. Anyway, you must start the first step. But there is no doubt that this requires great courage and caution. Besides, if you make a mistake, you can save your stomach in the future. Therefore, in daily life, you must always learn and be able to deal with it when it is useful.

Below, try to give some opening remarks for your reference:

1. Look at her with attractive or uncontrollable eyes and don't look back from time to time. (This trick, even if the other person is not attracted to you at all, will think that his charm is difficult and complacent, and he can't help looking back at you. )

2. A smile. They will believe that their appearance must be pleasing and make others feel good, and then they may return a smile. )

Ask her the time in the most natural way, but you must never have a watch, but you can slow down or speed up first. She can't find any reason to refuse to answer you. )

4. "hello! "Smile. If you do it properly, your chic attitude will definitely attract her, but most importantly, she will be sure that you have been attracted to her. The purpose of the above is to reduce the alertness of strange girls when they meet. Because we don't know each other at all, if we are too glib when we speak, it may make the other person disgusted and thus self-defeating. In fact, any woman believes and obeys fate, and they will believe that every man who appears in front of her eyes may be her future husband. Therefore, as long as you use the right way, she is always ready to accept you with open arms. Sincerity is always the strongest weapon to capture a woman's heart. To win her heart, she must believe that you are absolutely attracted to her, and even only she can attract you. Then, she will gradually release her psychological alert and smile at you. However, if the other person is introduced by a friend, or you know that you are related to the other person (such as school and work), then things will be much easier.

5. "He (someone) said that you are a beauty in XX College, so you must be busy with the pursuit of different boys every day. "Even if she is not a real beauty queen, after you say it, she must think that her beauty has fascinated many people, but the most important thing is that she must deny and explain this. )

6. "Your work looks interesting. What are your daily duties? 」。

At this time, she is absolutely embarrassed to refuse to answer, but gradually she will be attracted by your serious and frank eyes and answer with your heart. )

7. "You must have spent a lot of time and thought on clothes. Have you cultivated this experience since you were a child? This is undoubtedly an implicit compliment, both flattering and irrelevant. )

8. "Go to the street and meet your true self! 」

I have a friend named Wang. He is ugly, but he has caught many high-quality girls in recent years. Let us share his successful experience with you:

1, learn to laugh at yourself

If you are ugly, well, it doesn't matter. Since you can't change it, face it frankly. Don't decorate yourself too much. If you make women feel inferior because you are ugly, then you have already started the first step of failure. In the process of getting along with women, you should learn to laugh at yourself humorously. You can exaggerate your physical defects at will. If you put your shortcomings in front of jokes, they can become advantages. Even if you can't, it will at least add some fun to your conversation. This way of speaking can easily give you confidence. Almost all women like confident and funny men. Of course, not all defects can be used for joking, such as blindness or lameness.

2. Love never cheats

If you don't love a woman but want her body, then you must deceive yourself that you are in love with her. A woman is an animal with a keen sense of smell. She can tell whether she loves or not at a glance, so you must learn to deceive yourself before deceiving a woman. If you fall in love with a woman, you must never show it, and always remind yourself not to really fall in love, whether it is useful or not. Once you fall into the whirlpool of feelings, it is difficult for you to win.

Love is a war. Before going to bed, men and women are always selfish enemies. Men shoot love bullets to conquer women's sexual posture, while women want love to defend their bodies. They are disloyal and not discouraged, and they will not compromise until one day they lie on the same negotiating bed. So, say goodbye to the climax, some people cry and some people laugh.

3. Emotional cost

Unlike soliciting, no matter how heartless you are, you always have to pay more or less affection to pick up girls. If possible, try to get a woman to invite you to dinner in advance. Even if it's just a bowl of noodles or a few kebabs, it's not much money, but it's of great significance, which involves a person's emotional contribution, which is very critical, especially for the first time. If after eating like this, you feel that you are not interested in this woman, you don't want to have anything to do with her in the future, and you don't want to owe her anything, then you'd better take the initiative to pay the bill and remain a gentleman. On the contrary, if you fall in love with this woman, you must not be too generous. You don't have to pretend to be a gentleman. You must be a bad person. Women like bad men. When they go home, they will wonder why they invited such a garbage man to dinner. They will wonder if they are in love with this man. They will fall into a wave of self-criticism. Finally, they will reluctantly find a very upside-down reason for themselves to fall asleep sadly. At this time, women's efforts will begin. Don't eat those meaningless meals with women. If it doesn't work after two meals, if there is no love, change someone quickly.

Different from going to work, no matter how convenient your transportation is, you should never take the initiative to find a woman to take a bus or take a bus. You should let a woman take the initiative to come to you, no matter how far she is, one kilometer, one hundred kilometers or even one thousand kilometers. The distance is not far away, but it is of great significance, which also involves a person's emotional contribution.

To sum up these two points, if a woman comes all the way to invite you to dinner and then farts and climbs on the last bus, it will be difficult for her to love you or not to love you on the way home with alcohol. So in many cases, many women will stay with you for the night after eating, because she has given her feelings, and she is eager to get something from you, even if it is only physical, which is also a kind of return.

If a man does this, it won't work. If you take the trouble to run over and invite her to dinner, she will politely send you to the station. You'll get nothing. She will not be moved by your efforts and generosity, because this is not love. With you, her vanity is satisfied, her charm is reflected, and her self-esteem still exists, so she doesn't love you.

Step 4 win sympathy

If you think a woman doesn't love you, but you love her. You are humorous, lovely, frank, sincere, extravagant and brilliant, but she doesn't appreciate all these advantages. Another trick is to pretend to be pathetic and squeeze out a drop or two of fake tears when necessary. You can make up stories for her. You told her about your childhood misfortune, that you were an orphan, that you were abandoned by women, that you were disappointed in life, that your family had a shadow, that you tried to commit suicide, that you were beaten and hospitalized. ...

Women are born to be men's mothers, and they have a motherly heart. You should think of yourself as their son to tell your fictional misfortune. If you can't be a director of love, you must learn to be a good actor and devote yourself to sad stories. This is nothing to be ashamed of, because love itself is a play.

It is true that sympathy is not love, but according to Marxist philosophical theory, both sides of contradiction can be transformed into each other, and sympathy can be transformed into love in an instant. There are many such examples, so I won't list them one by one.