How to euphemistically refuse college students' confession

First of all, I want to tell you that when we grow up again, we will face many people's rejection. However, rejection is about methods. If something happens, you should refuse it directly, sometimes indirectly, and sometimes politely. It depends. Here are some ways you can participate or participate:

1. If someone expresses affection for you, but you have no feelings for him, you must politely refuse and try to maintain the other person's self-esteem. In order to reduce the psychological harm caused by refusing love to each other and make them more acceptable, we must try our best to keep each other's psychological balance and minimize each other's inner setbacks.

You can take the following measures: praise each other's looks, personality and so on. Then tell me why I can't accept it. Of course, the reason should be appropriate and as realistic as possible. It's best to benefit each other, such as how bad you are, how painful you will be when we are together, and so on. Let yourself bear the bad side. This method is more suitable for people who are very critical of each other. If he knows what you mean, he won't hate you anymore, and at the same time he will maintain his self-esteem.

If someone always pesters you without your consent, then you should resolutely refuse. You can't hesitate because of this. Because if your answer is not firm enough, it will make the other party misunderstand that you are testing him, which will cause the other party to keep pestering you. For such a person, you can say, "I'm sorry, I really have no feelings for you." Please don't bother me again, thank you. " This method is mainly suitable for some unconscious people.

Let me tell you again, if you refuse someone, try to stay away from him as little as possible after refusing. You can keep your distance from him, deliberately stay away from him, and don't let him have any illusions about you. Especially when he asks you out to play, you should find a reasonable reason to refuse.