My boyfriend does whatever he wants without consulting me first. For example, he will take subject four tomorrow, and he will know it a month ago.

Your boyfriend won't tell you anything. You have to sit down and tell your boyfriend something out of line. Because after a long time, your boyfriend goes his own way. He has money and sometimes he can't control it. There may be problems with your own, and the contradictions will be even greater.

You can bring it up with your husband. I have to tell you everything. If it really doesn't work, you can concentrate all the money in your bank card family on one bank card and keep it for yourself, so that your husband will have to tell you when he goes out to spend money, instead of telling you that there is no money. If your husband doesn't agree, then you can find another way. You must let him know what he does. What you have to say will affect the stability of the family.