I am 40 years old and single. Now I like a policeman who handles the case, but I don’t know him personally. What should I do? Will you be laughed at?

Age should not be an obstacle to your search for happiness. If you have a crush on the police officer handling the case, then you have the right to pursue your feelings without worrying about what others will think. Nowadays, society has become more and more tolerant and understanding of single people starting their love life again.

If you want to connect with him, you can try the following:

Social media: If you know his name, you can search for him on social media and try to add him Be a friend or follow his account. Through his social media, you can learn about his hobbies and life status.

Same friends: If you have same friends, you can introduce yourself to them through them. This allows for a more natural connection.

Career channels: You can consider participating in some activities or social occasions where he works, such as community activities or volunteer activities organized by the Public Security Bureau. This will give you a chance to get to know him on a suitable occasion.

Direct action: If you have the opportunity to meet him in a public place, you might as well say hello and start a conversation. You can start with a simple greeting and gradually build up the conversation.

As for being laughed at, this is an inevitable possibility, but you have to believe in your own feelings and choices. The opinions of others should not be an obstacle to your search for happiness. Most people will understand and respect your feelings, and they'll probably appreciate your courage and honesty.