What if a man is not motivated? What points can a woman grasp to make him take care of his family and make progress?

Tell him you see its development potential.

At this time, I recalled the story of my wife and me. Now you may think that talented teachers have a successful career and a harmonious family, but when I started my business, I suffered all kinds of hardships and ran into a wall everywhere. I often couldn't afford to buy rice and lick steamed bread. But my wife told me again and again when I was very depressed and in my most difficult time: "honey, stick to your beliefs and remember your dreams, I'm sure."

Since I had the idea of giving up many times, when people around me told me to give up my dreams and earn money to support my family, my wife was the first person to inspire me and support me. I thought I was very talented and promising.

So I became what you see now. I often want to tell this story because I deeply understand how important it is for a woman to recognize and support a man to realize his dream. The first step to arouse a man's ambition is not to tell him nothing every day, just work hard; Instead, let him believe that he has this development potential.

For example, you can say to your husband, "honey, you are not as bad as others." In my case, you are always the best. I used to think that you have unlimited potential, but now I still hope for myself. " When you say this, a man himself will not think that he is like this, but you thought he was supporting him. Maybe the boy is not enterprising, but your woman trusts him and complains about him. I don't think men are willing to change the status quo and gradually pursue progress, because she firmly believes that what you said has development potential.

There is no doubt that its creation

For example, when you are eating snacks with your legs crossed at home and watching a drama, your husband has worked hard for a year and earned/kloc-0.00 million. He is happy to go home and share his joy with you. But when you heard it, you didn't respond. You replied, "Oh, only one million. My best friend's husband earned a suite in stock trading last month. One million is nothing. "

I know everyone here has said that. Your husband was happy. Having said that, the strength of hard work in the coming year will be gone. Why don't some men like to go back to their own homes and run to other people's homes? Because when she comes home, she can't feel worshipped, but she can get satisfaction from others, you know? There's another one, the same man who earned1000000. You're cooking at home. The next three sentences are the core. Take notes quickly.

I said to the man, "honey, this is very difficult." In recent years, under the epidemic situation, the economic environment is not very good, but you still earned/kloc-0.0 million, which is really remarkable. Let's have a rest first. I'll have a drink with you after dinner. " These three sentences, this man is bound to lose sleep at night. Why? He wants to gradually think about how to earn 5 million in the coming year.

Therefore, the second step we have to do is to make sure that he has achieved something. The key is to let the man know that you have always recognized and admired. What a boy wants most is to be treated by others. There is no doubt that as a woman, it is enough to meet his inner requirements.

Reconstruction and cultivation

This step is not to start a business with him, but to plan the two into a goal. For example, your husband wants to lose ten pounds this summer and wants to go swimming to lose weight and keep fit. He has taken action and all kinds of equipment are fully equipped. At this time, you just need to cooperate with him. This is not to help her make plans, how long to swim today, how long to swim tomorrow, and how to exercise today. What's going on here? Because a person only says no, which means he doesn't want to, which means losing weight is not important to him.

Then if a man already has his own plan, how do you cooperate? The key is to decide a healthy meal for him, which chicken breast protein powder and so on; Then he learned another trick, so he comforted her and praised him, giving him a reward for every few pounds he lost; Finally, you can go to the gym, run and practice yoga with him.

This kind of mutual cooperation, he has a higher probability of success, and a man's initiative is a good habit gradually developed in various trivial matters. Most men's passion is also aroused by women. For future happiness, everyone must study hard.